Susan asks…
Is this my first postpartum period or something else? Need the advice of other mothers?
With my first child I had what I would consider a normal period when he was 6 months old as my first postpartum period. Monday, for a stretch of a few hours, I had light red/pinkish very stretchy discharge around my cervix. In case anyone is wondering why I was checking, I just started charting for natural family planning. Trying to avoid a pregnancy, but stay withing the guidelines of my religion. The discharge didn’t spot my underwear and only came out a little after I checked. It was similar to egg white cervical mucus, but light red/pink. I thought I would be starting a period, but it went away after a few hours. (no more than 8) I have been cramping for the past 3 weeks so that’s not really a good indicator of anything. Tuesday I have changed to a slightly stretchy white creamy mucus.
So my question is was this my first postpartum period or just my body gearing up for a period?
And no I did not experience anything like this with my first so I honestly have no idea what to make of it. Any help is appreciated.
Forgot to add that my baby is exclusively breastfed, eats every 1 1/2 hours during the day, is 19 weeks old, and sleeps 10 hours at night.
Pregnant Slut- You obviously don’t know much about breastfeeding. 6 months isn’t a long time. Some women don’t get a period until they completely wean their child. 6 months is considered the normal return of the menstrual cycle while breastfeeding.
No I’m not learning from a teacher. I’m charting BBT, mucus, and cycle. I’m positive I didn’t cut myself. I bite my nails so I never have long nails. Usually mine are too short if anything,
Michelle answers:
Are you learning NFP from a certified teacher? If not, I would highly recommend finding a teacher ASAP. The transition time when you are returning to fertility can be very challenging!
In general, you would need to consider any time after a change, like seeing red/pink mucus, a potential time of fertility. You would want to abstain for a few days to make sure it goes away. As a rule, most women will have an abundance of fertile mucus for a period of 2-3 weeks before they have a period. They will usually feel very wet. But again, these are generalities and so that’s why learning from a teacher would be preferential.
Most methods don’t even promote internal mucus checks and given how little you saw, I wonder if you maybe scratched yourself while checking. If you are checking internally, it should only be once or twice a day max and you should make sure your nails are short and rounded. The cervix is pretty sensitive.
I hope this helps!
William asks…
Is it about that TIME?
O.k. here’s the deal, I am now 35 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Dilated 1 centimeter the last time my dr. checked; In this pregnancy I have had preterm labor 4 times since January. I am currently lounging and have been ever since my first preterm labor “scare.” Now here is the thing ever since the complications with my second child I have been High risk. Lately I have been nesting alot and i have also had alot of fatigue and been very tired not to mention an increase in vaginal discharge and contractions. Last night I woke up only to feel my panties were damp (I wondered if it was sweat or if my water had broken or something but im not sure because i had the a/c on 65 degrees last night) Then when I got out of the bed I felt immediate cramping with pain in my lower back, with contractions, and this has not stopped yet.. I am not really sure what is going on and my next dr. appointment is not until the 29 next week.. anybody have any ideas or help??? I currently have 2 children both of which are girls. My oldest is 2yrs and 5 months and my youngest is 1yr and 4 months. With my second pregnancy I experienced preterm labor three times before actually going into labor (which lasted 5 hours) I had gone into labor so fast that the hospital couldn’t give me epidural.. My youngest child was born natural and weighed in at 7lbs 14oz….
Michelle answers:
Call your OB and tell them your symptoms, they will direct you to the hospital, or tell you what to do.
Sounds like your little one may be heading out real soon.
Congratulations!
Sandra asks…
How do I tell my 4 year old that I’m pregnant?
I am 24 weeks pregnant, and although I’m showing (not a lot, but enough for others to notice), I still haven’t told my son. I know that part of him will be excited, but I just worry about him too.
His dad and I separated shortly after he was born, and are now divorced and his dad has nothing to do with him.
The guy I was dating (who is the father of the child that I’m pregnant with now) was absolutely wonderful to my son. But he broke up with me when I was 2 months pregnant, and hasn’t really been a part of the pregnancy.
My son has adjusted to a lot here recently, with 1.) my boyfriend no longer being in our lives (which he says he wants to be a part of this baby’s life when it is born, but is doing nothing during the pregnancy, we don’t talk or have contact, so if he comes back around I know it will spark questions with my 4 year old). It’s hard enough trying to explain a what breaking up is to a 4 year. 2.) His aunt just moved away for school/work (she was/is a VERY big part of his life, and he is adjusting to her not being here; 3.) He’s starting preschool in a couple weeks. Just a lot of life changes in a short period of time for a little boy.
I also plan to take my son to a big brother/big sister class…but not until November since I’m not due until the end of Dec/beginning of Jan. I know how 15 minutes can be an eternity to a child, let alone 3 months.
I want him to feel included and a part of all this. I want him to be proud and happy that he is going to be a big brother.
I would appreciate any suggestions you have in ways that I could tell him the news.
My mom had to me to just wait until he asks about my growing belly, since it would be his natural curiosity sparking the question. That way I would know he wants to talk about it rather than just initiating the conversation.
I just wanted to have a back up plan unless he doesn’t ask. I didn’t want to wait too long to tell him, after all I’m already 6 months.
Thanks in advance!
Michelle answers:
I doubt he will ask about your growing belly. But I was in a similar situation as you…I would start to mention it to him and get him excited about it. I brought my son to the bookstore and let him pick out big brother books and then we got a big brother t-shirt. He is now in love with his little sister. Kids are resilient. My son went through a lot in the last 2 years…his grandmother close to him passing away. Having a new man in his life that I married and a new baby sister (his father left me when I was six months pregnant with him) and a new house. He has adjusted real well and your son will to. Just prepare him as much as possible…include him on all the baby stuff and make sure to remember his needs too…reassure him about how much you love him and that he is special to you and soon you will have two special people to care for. I hope that helps and good luck.
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Start telling your son now…by saying “Guess what?” “You are going to be a special big brother soon” “Mommy knows how much of a great big brother you are going to be.” If he wants to continue to talk about it then go ahead…but I would mention it maybe once a week to him until you get to your 8th month…then mention it a lot and let him help you fix up the nursery for baby.
Maria asks…
i have a 6 day old baby girl…?
and after my waters being broken for 2 days to be left to see if i went into labour on my own i was induced.. well they tried.. i was given a pesseri to try and get things started but after 5 hours i noticed a little pale green staning of the waters on my st.. so i was taken onto delivery and where they put me on the hormone drip syntocin, i was on this for about 8 hours, i was contracting 4 -5 in 10 mins but no change and wasnt dilating so my baby came by c-sec..
i have had 3 natural births so i am aware of what that is like but this was my first c-sec. i am b/f my baby as i feel it is the best start but also because i do feel a little cheated and i feel that if i didnt that i would poss suffer from PND.. having a c-sec was not something i enterd into lightly as the baby was absolutely fine and showing no signs of distress. my partner has been fantastic with doing things for me because obviously i am out of action for up to 6 weeks so i struggle to do simple things like stand for too long to cook dinner or take the washing out the machine and hang it out.. just silly simple things even making a cuppa with the kettle.. so he has been helping out loads which i am soo greatful for. i also sufferd badly with SPD in my pregnancy and over the festive season he also helped out alot as he is still doing now.. i am starting to feel now that may be he is resenting helping out with the older kids and everything else..i am slowly doing things like pulling the washing from the machine, he will take the basket to the table where i am able to stand and hang it out on the airer, and i am doing little things but taking it really easy..
i worry about him though he isnt very good at showing his emotions and i worry that maybe he may be hindering feelings for having to do everything..
my baby is 6 days old but i can only do so much as i am still also suffering with a little spd so i am still a little slow… what can i do to make it easier for him so he doesnt have to do so much?
Michelle answers:
I understand where you are coming from. I did not take my c-section lightly either. I suffered very bad baby blues due to not being able to birth my son naturally and because breastfeeding didn’t work out. I felt like I had been cheated out of motherhood.Thank God I got through that pretty quickly. As far as your partner, mine acted the same way. I think you should definitely talk and let him know that even though times are very stressful, it is only temporary. You just had your baby six days ago! You need to get as much rest as possible. Your partner needs to take on as many responsibilities as possible. At least until you are two weeks postpartum. Healing from a c-section is very rough. Adding on the stresses of everyday chores does not make it any easier. I wish I knew where you lived. I would come clean your whole house and make your family a week worth of dinners so you could rest! Have you tried enlisting the help of any friend or family members? Well… I hope you find something that works for your family. Congrats on the baby! Enjoy every second of her at this stage, it goes by very fast.
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