Your Questions About Oldest Natural Pregnancy

Donald asks…

If a biological father wanted to get his child back after an adoption has been finalized, is it possible?

I know someone who adopted a child and this situation just came about. She adopted the baby as an infant and that child is now a couple of years old. She stays in contact with the natural mom and they have a good relationship. Apparently the biological father (who knew about the pregnancy but abandoned the biological mom while she was pregnant) now all of a sudden says he wants the child, even though he has shown no interest until now. He didn’t know the child had been adopted.
I feel for biological fathers who had no idea of a pregnancy/adoption and want their baby once they find out, but in this situation he knowingly abandoned a pregnant mother.
My friend’s adoption lawyer has assured her there is nothing the man can do. My friend first heard about this from the bio-mom and was hysterical at first but is now ok. I really feel for my friend and in her case hope this man cannot do anything. I think it would be damaging for her child too who knows nothing but her and her husband as her mom and dad. Are they protected by the law?

Michelle answers:

Well folks that go around sprinkling children around the country without being responsible which means being married to the mother and in a committed relationship so that they can raise and care for a child. If not too bad. Meantime the mother had sole responsibility and her decision is final.

Nancy asks…

5 weeks pregnant blood outside sac! Will I miscarry?

Hi guys! Has anyone ever experienced this? I just visited my ob-gyn. This will be my 2nd pregnancy. I am 5 weeks pregnant, 30 years old. I had my first baby almost 11 months ago, natural delivery, no complications other than I leaked water and had to be induced (didn’t know my water broke and they had to break it there and I think she said I also bled after I delivered)

Anyhow, the dr checked me and she said she saw sac and the baby seems fine and is on par of being 5 weeks. But then she mentions that she also sees blood outside the sac. She not to worry. My next visit is in two weeks and I may or may not bleed. If I bleed, just look away and wipe, don’t worry. If it is heavy bleeding and/or you are really worried you can go to hospital or make appointment to see her and she will check on baby. Then she starts talking about miscarriage and the chances of it happening in general is 1 out of 3 weeks pregnancies. If this happens, I should not be worried or think I did something wrong etc. etc. But now I AM worried. When she first mentioned the blood she said not to worry and that I may or may not bleed. So why did she suddenly talk about miscarriage statistics?! Has anyone have thoughts on this? I really want this pregnancy to go through. As an insight I’m 105 lbs back to my normal weight. My first birth was 2 hours early from due date and he was 8 lbs if it makes any difference.

Michelle answers:

I had this with my third pregnancy. Everything will be okay. There will be bedrest, and extra u/s’s to check the bleeding and healing of the hematoma. The hematoma usually heals on its own by 20 weeks. Just get as much rest as you can and take it easy. Atleast you get to see your little peanut more often =) good luck darling, and congrats on the pregnancy

Richard asks…

Moms of twins, I’ve got alot of questions for you!!?

So I went to an utrasound today, and I found out I was pregnant with twins! Im 13 weeks along and very excited.. but I have so many questions!!

How old are your twins now? What week in your pregnancy did you deliver them? Did you have a natural birth or c-section? How much weight did you gain? When did you find out the genders? How many ultrasounds did you have? Did you have any complications? What were the first few weeks like? How much did your little angels weigh at birth?

So many questions.. xD
Also anything else you would like to add is very much appreciated! Thanks so much for answering! 🙂

Michelle answers:

Hey! I’m pregnant with twin boys at the moment due 1st Feb! Just wanted to say Congratulations!
I’m 22 weeks today and I swear the babies are fighting already lol. Enjoy your pregnancy, it gets very tiring very quickly. I went to my midwife last week at 21+3 and I was measuring 28 weeks, so can’t wait to see how big we get towards the end. Take it easy!

Sandy asks…

Are twins high risk pregnancies?

I just had my baby four months nearly five months ago. I am very content with my little family with me him and his father. But my husband is very eager to have a second child in the near future (Not until he is ATLEAST 1year old though). My family has a track record of both identical and faternal twins. (I don’t remember which ones were the ones that get handed down) Well our twins tend to jump generations. A lot of our traits jump generations and it’s my generation that is suppose to have twins. I am super nervous about having twins in general but most of the twins in my family have been either born still born or one died in the womb. All after 6 months. I believe we only have 3 twins that survived from my great great grandma all the way down to me. Which worries me more. I really don’t want to get pregnant again in fear that I’ll have twins and loose even one of my babies. I can’t imagine that pain because my first pregnancy was high risk enough with the on and off bleeding. Can someone clear up for me if it’s just natural with all twins or if it’s likely to happen to me?

Michelle answers:

Typically yes because it puts more stress on the mothers body. So many changes occur in a woman’s body during pregnancy but when there are multiplies, the changes tend to be multiplied. Considering that we are in the 21st century, there are so many multiple births that are successful. They may have a few complications, but doctors are becoming more and more equipped to handle problems that come with multiples.

*Congrats on your happy family 😀

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