
Sandra asks…
Why is intimacy and pleasure tabboo unless you’re 18 in this society?
I’m fourteen, and my girlfriend [also 14] and i have sex usually like every (or sometimes every OTHER) weekend. I understand u probly think we’re “too young” and we’ll “understand when we’re older… u know, that BS…
I do NOT think that any 14 yr old, or evn 16 or 17 yr old should be having sex. OR that sex shouldnt have an age limit or something like that. It is a HUGE responsibility and privilage.
I DO believe that sex should be accepted as a natural part of life as it was many centuries ago. I think it should ONLY be allowed to people who accept the risks, care about the concequences, and are mature about it. Also that people HAVING sex should truly be IN love. I truly am IN LOVE my girlfriend, and if you read my other Qs and actually knew about her life, you would see that i try to be there for her evry second possible, and that she IS my life. We want to get married at 16, and if you actually want to, go ahead and read my other Qs to get a better view of the situation.
i dont think this just because of my age, that’s a common mistake ppl think.
it’s my philosophy on life, and yes i have one at least at age 14… wisdom knows no age, that’s the beauty of it. and neither does intelligence, maturity obviously (based on many other discussions i have had with LITERALLY hundreds of others), a feeling, a thought, or any other PERSONAL view. Virtues are things that can be LEARNED, but only if you UNDERSTAND the meaning of HAVING them. For those ppl on here that think they know SO much more than me and are SO much better because of age, there is nothing i can do to change your mind, nor do i care, but why take you’re precious time to bash me while i wont listen to just that?
… I honestly dont mind if you do as long as you say something to actually contribute to the discussion, but PLEASE save your histrionic, narcissistic, antisocial, BS for someone who cares.
This is a discussion about what I’m about to say.
Why are people so concerned with policing other’s lives about sex??? If you really DO love someone WHY is it so wrong if you’re under 18?… people from 14-18 are at the SAME risk for STI’s and pregnancy!
what do YOU think?
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PLEASE IM me, i love discussing philosophy evn if you COMPLETELY dissagree…
brandonbrj is my AIM btw…
btw, my gf and i have been together for almost a year now
haha i know, i’ve already asked this, but i hate it when there’s too much to go through and the page gets REALLY long, and i wanted to make a few corrections so ppl would stop sayin stupid BS
and yes, born 02-07-1995 in Santa Maria, CA
i do consider anyone younger than 14, MAYBE 13 HUGELY depending on their maturity, relationship strength, and many other things, to be too young for sex, and im going to b fifteen soon…
but that doesnt mean that SAYING that i’ve had sex at 14 sounds right to me, i just see it that in MY situation at least and a few other’s that ive talked to about, it isn’t wrong in itself.
Michelle answers:
Because when your eighteen, society automatically assumes you’ve magically become responsible. What people don’t realize is, an eighteen year old is technically still not all grown up. You are right, their shouldn’t be an age limit. Each person, each individual has a different personality. You can’t say that an eighteen year old is more “responsible” than a fourteen year old. Why? Because everyone develops emotionally, and physically at their own pace which they feel comfortable with. Here’s the thing, most people, (not all!), love to interfere, and penalize everyone for every little thing they do wrong. Strangers feel the need to critisize and and comment on our personal lives, but to be honest, I don’t know why people do that. Us as humans are complex creatures, we can almost never make up our minds and solve our problems, yet we’re often called the smartest creature on this planet.
Well, that’s all I have to say about this. I love philosophy too! If you want to talk E-mail me. Hope I contributed something useful.

Mary asks…
Well I am thinking about trying to have a baby soon and I have a few questions about folic acid & other things?
I am only 19 years old, and I know that that is a very young age, but i feel that i am almost ready to have a little one of my own. And i have been doing some research on the computer, and they say that folic acid is good to take before and during pregnancy, so i went out and bought some it is labeled” Finest Natural Folic Acid 400mcg” and I needed to know if these are the right ones to take? Also I am wondering what could I do to increase my odds of getting pregnant sooner?
Thanks for your time & help!
Michelle answers:
I hope you own your own home, have a good education, steady job with decent benefits in case something goes wrong and have saved enough money to give your kids a good education. I know people insist that money can’t buy happiness and you don’t need money to raise good kids but it sure keeps them from screaming how much they hate you and wish they were never born for the next 25 years because you’re poorer than their friends’ families and they have to go to a crappy community college because their mom wanted kids.

Susan asks…
when did intimacy and pleasure become tabboo…?
I’m fourteen, and my girlfriend [also 14] and i have sex usually like every (or sometimes every OTHER) weekend. I understand u probly think we’re “too young” and we’ll “understand when we’re older… u know, that BS…
I do NOT think that any 14 yr old, or evn 16 or 17 yr old should be having sex. OR that sex shouldnt have an age limit or something like that. It is a HUGE responsibility and privilage.
I DO believe that sex should be accepted as a natural part of life as it was many centuries ago. I think it should ONLY be allowed to people who accept the risks, care about the concequences, and are mature about it. Also that people HAVING sex should truly be IN love. I truly LOVE my girlfriend, and if you read my other Qs and actually knew about her life, you would see that i try to be there for her evry second possible, and that she IS my life.
Why are people so concerned with policing other’s lives about sex??? If you really DO love someone WHY is it so wrong if you’re under 18?… people from 14-18 are at the SAME risk for STI’s and pregnancy!
what do YOU think?
for the idiots that apparently dont get the gist of wut im saying… IM IN LOVE WITH MY GIRLFRIEND… i say it evry day. go F*CK urself if you think i dont.
i dont think this just because of my age, that’s a common mistake ppl think.
it’s my philosophy on life, and yes i have one at least at age 14… wisdom knows no age, that’s the beauty of it. and neither does intelligence, maturity apparently, or many other things…
PLEASE IM me, i love discussing philosophy evn if you COMPLETELY dissagree
brandonbrj is my AIM btw…
we DO WANT to get married at 16 btw
Michelle answers:
Yes you think this because you are 14

George asks…
1st baby ? how many weeks when you went into labor :]?
okay so im about 37 weeks now ; and im havinq a baby qirl. im 16
[please dont judge me for my age ; i know im younq & people make
mistakes, but im old enough to realize that & accept my mistakess]
i just can*t wait to have her already ! ive had such a rough pregnancy
i had ALL DAY morninq sickness up until 6 months of my pregnancy
very horrible. and im not with the father. his a major asshole. plus on
top of everythinq i have really bad asthma. but thank god is uncontrol
now ….
anyways my question is .. with your first baby how many weeks were
you when you went into labor.. did you feel it cominq soon ; what did
you feel [besides contractions] did you just feel differently. how was
ur labor did u have it natural or c-section. i would love to hear storys
on how many weeks were you , [1st baby especially] ; how was the
pain ; how did you try to deal without [before you get the drugs or not]
Michelle answers:
Well I just turned 19 yrs old and I had my first baby 4 months ago, I was almost 40 weeks when I had delivered her. It was 4 days before I was due. My water broke around 11:11am and I went to the hospital and I delivered my baby at 9:07pm so I was in labor for about 10hrs or so, I had her natural and I had an epidural I dont know what I would have done without it, my contractions were so serious they hurt sooo bad (im not trying to scare you) but i honestly thought that I could have delivered without any pain meds, and I was def. Wrong. I cant even explain the pain, I didnt know what to do when my contractions were coming on I felt like I had to go to the bathroom then I was crying because I wanted to lay down and then I wanted to walk around lol it was crazy. When I was ready to push I pushed for about 20 mins and she was out. She weighed 6 pounds 9oz. In the end it was all worth it.
Good luck to you
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