Donna asks…
DEFINE AND DESCRIRBE LOVE (AND HATE) – needed for the research – II?
DEFINE AND DESCRIRBE LOVE (AND HATE) needed for research
I. Define Motherly Love?
II. Define Motherly Love to… the son and daughter (preferential child), the family, relatives, servants, outsiders ,….
III. Define Love for Mother?
IV. Define Love to Mother?
In terms of each of the following categories described in (1) to (58)
Similarly, define Fatherly Love on the categories described in (1) to (58) same as in the above questions.
Also, describe the difference between Fatherly and Motherly Love to Daughter and Son respectively.
Also, describe the variation of LOVE if there are more than one Daughters and Sons.
Similarly, describe this relationship between the Husband & Wife and Brothers & Sisters.
1) Arts & Paintings
2) Astronomical systems
3) Atheism
4) Beauty & Style
5) Believe in Charity (or Selfishness)
6) Believe in Circumcision (human engineered) or Uncircumcision (natural engineered) and religions based on it
7) Believe in Circumcision done for love or for heartedness (in old ages it is done to the darker skinned males to have sex with the more darker skinned slaves having diseases and to have child with fairer skin but to keep the pennies clean) or Un-circumcision (natural engineered) and religions based on it.
8) Believe in God or Allah or Goddesses
9) Believe in Heaven and the creatures in there
10) Believe in Hell and the creatures in there
11) Business & Finance
12) Businesses
13) Cars & Transportation
14) Computers & Internet
15) Consumer Electronics
16) Criticism and company
17) Dining Out
18) Drinks (fond of)
19) Education & Reference
20) Entertainment
21) Environment
22) Ethnic Love (interracial racial, inter religion)
23) Fairytale dreams
24) Family
25) Food and Taste
26) Games
27) Garden
28) Hatefulness
29) Health and Diseases
30) Home and Houses
31) Humanity and Characters
32) Hunting of animals and use for travelling on them
33) Kingship and Queenship (Leadership)
34) Local dialects and proverb (traditional saying that expresses some obvious truth or familiar experience)
35) Matchmaking
a. electronic media arrangement (limitation is providing statistics),
b. pre-marriage sex,
c. post-marriage sex,
d. family arrangements,
e. personal selection and arrangements,
f. pros-quarter arrangement (movie: pretty baby!),
g. religious marriage arrangement
h. non-religious marriage (govt. registered),
i. Love and relationship based on Horoscope
j. Influence of Horoscope and Religion on love and its domination and/or preferences, etc
36) Music and Songs
37) Mythical views
38) News & Fame
39) Nun Hood & Nun Ship
40) Occupation
41) Pets and ferociousness
42) Politics & Government
43) Polygamy (having sex with the minors or the adults, Islamic Marriage systems like Nikah)
44) Power of Minds
45) Pregnancy & Parenting and involvement (to all including the children to the newborn)
46) Priest Hood & Monk ship
47) Recreation & Events
48) Relationships
49) Religion and to bend or by bowing (one’s head) down in respect, prayer, shame, etc.
50) Science & Mathematical Relationship
51) Sex and Behavior
52) Social Caste and love based on it
53) Social Class and love based on it
54) Social Science (views and perspectives)
55) Society & Culture and to obey the norms based on them
56) Sports and Athletes
57) Supernatural systems
58) Tantric (“sacrifices” are also a modern kind of tantricism ) system of love and expectation
Have any other kinds you can mention and describe or have infomation you can provide, please mail to: puspen.esh@gmail.com.
Thanks,
Michelle answers:
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Lizzie asks…
how should i handle this?
my fiance and i are talking natural family planning classes. i am catholic and he is baptist. catholics believe only is natural family planning. baptists believe in using condoms. since we are two different religions how do we handle this matter. should i convert? we are 22 year old about to be 23 and we cant afford children on our salaries and we are afraid of pregnancy b/c of our honeymoon. afraid to use NFP not knowing if we would do it right and wind up being parents at too young of an age and wanting more time for each other before we have kids
we are getting married in jan
Michelle answers:
Congratulations on your engagement. I can totally understand where you are coming from! My husband & I started taking NFP classes before our wedding and I was sure that we were going to screw up and have babies right away. It wasn’t until I had used the method for a few months that I realized that I did understand how to do it, I understood the science behind it, and then I started feeling really comfortable and trusting of the method. We did a lot of praying that my fertile time would not be during our honeymoon and thank goodness it wasn’t.
Did you just start taking the classes? If so, then realize that the first month is a little scary. You’re not really sure what you are doing and if you are doing it right. Once you chart for a few months, I think you will see that it starts becoming second nature. The charting rules become easy to interpret and you start to feel comfortable.
After using NFP for 2 years we felt so strongly about how much it had done for us that we trained to become NFP teachers. One thing I always challenged our engaged couples to do is to play – “Would we have sex?” As you are charting, make a note of the days when you would feel ‘safe’ having sex and which days you wouldn’t. Then at the end of the month look your chart over and make sure that you know which days were safe and which weren’t. Talk to your NFP teacher about this as well. I think after a few months you will realize that you can do this and that the science behind the method will work.
I would also tell my engaged students that they could call me as much as they needed to after they were out of my class to review charts and see if they were in the safe time or not. I wouldn’t want any student to leave my class not feeling sure that he/she knew exactly when they were fertile/infertile in their cycle.
We got married at 23 as well… We actually got married the same day as my husband’s graduation. Had no money in savings, moved twice the first year, I really know where you are coming from! But by the time we got married, I really didn’t have any qualms about using NFP as a newly married woman. I think you will feel that way too. If not, then keep talking to your NFP teacher, keep asking questions until you feel like you have mastered charting.
NFP actually has better effectiveness rates than condoms, so don’t feel like you have to leave NFP to have better effectiveness. NFP when used correctly can have up to 99% effectiveness rates and some of the newer studies put user effectiveness right around the 96% mark. Higher than condoms. If you use it right, it will work. Most of the people who get pregnant using NFP do so because they had sex when they knew they shouldn’t. Or because they didn’t learn the method well enough. You will have enough charts by the time you are married to understand the method well.
How does your fiance feel about NFP? My husband was very skeptical at first, but once I let him do the charting and he could see the temperature rise for himself, he was sold. Men are very logical. If you let him help with the data analysis, he will probably become more supportive as well. Plus it means no hormones for you and no barriers for him.
I wish you all the best on your upcoming wedding. I hope my answer was helpful. I really do know where you are coming from and I will keep you & your fiance in my prayers!
ADDED: I just have to add in response to one of the other answers – just because the human body doesn’t always work perfectly doesn’t mean that NFP can’t work. I’m sure the questioner knows that because she is taking the classes, but I want to clarify because there are SO MANY people who don’t understand this. NFP is not based on calendars or usuals, NFP is based on the signs a woman’s body is giving her day to day. Her body will tell her if she is entering her fertile phase early and it will tell her if she is ovulating late. There is no guesswork to NFP. That’s why the effectiveness levels are so high… Higher than use of condoms. Sorry, but those are the facts. There may be a lot of women who conceive at the wrong time of the month, but if they are smart about NFP and follow the rules that will not happen. A woman’s body doesn’t just up and ovulate at random times without giving warning through her cervical mucus.
William asks…
What would have happened if Lina Medina had to give birth vaginally?
Lina Medina is famous in the medical community for being the youngest mother in recorded history. At the age of 5 years she gave birth (by Caesarean section) to a healthy baby boy.
*Note, the facts presented are not open to speculation. Lina Medina DID exist and she DID have a child at the age of 5. Due to a condition known as precocious puberty her body was “ready” for impregnation at an extremely early age. Obviously the means of her impregnation bear thinking about (rape is all but certain), but no one was ever proven guilty.
When Lina first became pregnant, her parents didn’t realize what was happening. They knew that her abdomen was getting larger, but they suspected a tumor or some other problem, because pregnancy in a 5-year-old is unheard of. They tried many local remedies, but when nothing worked they brought her to a doctor, who confirmed that she was 7 months pregnant. The baby was delivered through a Caesarean section.
Now, my question is a hypothetical one. What if the parents hadn’t thought to go see a doctor within 9 months of the impregnation (remember that they had no idea she was pregnant until after the doctor said so – they thought it was a tumor)? Lina Medina could easily have gone into labor in her home. Since she essentially had the body of a 5-year-old (with the exception of slightly denser bones and more developed breasts, and obviously the ability to become pregnant), my question could be rephrased as asking “what would the effect of a natural childbirth be on a 5-year-old child?” An answer seems obvious at first – she wouldn’t live through it. But I’m looking for an actual medical analysis of this scenario. I know that Lina Medina likely would not have lived through the experience, but might the baby have? Would it have been able to pass through the birth canal, or would it have been too small? Would Lina’s pelvis have broken, or would the baby have been squashed to death (sorry for the image) while trying to fit through? What exactly would Lina Medina die of? Internal bleeding?
I’m especially interested in hearing the opinion of an obstetrician if that is at all possible.
Michelle answers:
The baby wouldn’t even be able to come down the birth canal and she would of been screaming in pain while her body was in labor untill they figured out what was going on, which they would have. Even adult women have problems pushing our larger babies, although they know what is going on so they can get a c-section without the circus of figuring out what was happening. I didn’t hear about this, its sad though!
Paul asks…
My mom is pregnant with multiples, how can I help my lil brother? and some other questions?
Hi, i am 16 years old boy and my brother is 6 years old. Recently some friends and relatives start getting pregnant (my aunt, my girlfriend´s mom) so my mother also wanted another child. She is 39 years old and after going with a doctor, the doctor said that the only way she could get pregnant was by artificial methods. I don´t know what method did my parents choose, but after some weeks my mom finally get pregnant. I have talked a lot with my parents since everything related with this started, so I know almost everything about it. One of the things that I learn in these days that the women that get pregnant with artificial methods have a high chance to be a multiple pregnancy. My mom is only 7 weeks pregnant, but a few day ago I went with my mom to the doctor (because my dad was on a business trip) and the doctor said to my mom that he was almost sure that this was a multiple pregnancy, but he don´t know if are twins or triplets (but he also said that were some chances to be quads! )
I am really happy about this because I like babies since I started to help my girlfriend with her baby sister, but my brother is real unhappy about having new brothers or sisters. I am very close with him since he turned 3, because when he was a baby I didn’t´t wanted to be near him because I felt jealous (the same way that he is feeling now) He doesn´t want to see my parents at all and the only person that he talks is with me. He said to me that he was angry with my parents because our life was perfect and they have to arruined it with the babies. I said to him that he can´t return the time and he had to accept the babies or it will be worse for everyone. I think that after i talk with him he had change something his mind, but i don´t think that he is already fine because he spend a lot of time alone (also in school) , he didn´t want to play soccer as the way we played before and principally i have seen that he has been masturbating a lot since everything started. I saw him masturbating only one or two times before but now i see that he masturbates many times in the day. How can I help him?
Well, that was my question about my bro, but i have some questions about my mom´s pregnancy?
Will she have trouble with her multiple pregnancy because of her age (39)?
How long (in weeks) is a twins or triplets healthy pregnacy?
Like at which week her belly will become visible? (right know is very no matter that are multiples because my mom is thin and tall)
Will she be able to have to have a natural birth?
Is normal that she is feeling very bad and having a lot of sickness right now? (more than with my brother as i can remember)
What are the chances that the babies (2,3 or 4) will be all girls? (i want it)
I think that is everything for the moment, I appreciate all your answers and I hope that you will help my family and me, if you can also reccomend me a pregnacy forum i will also appreciate it a lot
Thanks everybody for your time,
David
Michelle answers:
I would talk with your little brother more about how he is feeling. He probably feels like the two of you are in the same boat so to speak. Tell him the story about how you felt the same way when he was born but now you are so happy to have a little brother. And maybe talk to your parents too, they might be so busy with the joys of being pregnant that they don’t notice your brother is being so isolated. You and your parents can encourage him the whole time your mom is pregnant about how he is going to be a big brother and really make a big deal about how great it will be. As far as him masturbating I think that is strange for a 6 year old, i would defiantly talk to your mother about it or your dad if you feel more comfortable. In about 4-6 weeks they will do an ultrasound and see how many heartbeats there are. That is very exciting. It’s good that you are so excited. Your parents will need all the help they can get. For the questions about your ma, if she goes around 32 weeks I think that’s about right with multiples, and yes she could have complications because of her age, even with having just one baby she could have complications. Her belly could start showing anytime, each woman and each pregnancy is different. Some people look pregnant at 2 months and others don’t look pregnant at 9 months so there is no real answer for that. Only time will tell. More than likely she won’t have a natural birth with multiples. If she had a c-section with you or your brother than for sure it would be a c-section anyways. Yes it’s very normal to be sick in the first 3 months and very tired to so ask her if she needs help with anything, ask her that everyday. I know your dad is there but if he is gone on trips or working. If she starts acting really moody don’t blame her that happens because your hormones are so off balance when you are pregnant and she can’t help it. I know I acted crazy when I was pregnant. The chances of her having a girl, it’s just whatever God gives you. She could have two boys or one boy one girl, 2 boys and 1 girl, 4 boys. Who knows. Only time will tell with that too. You sound very responsible and mature for your age. Good luck with everything!
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