Charles asks…
what do you think????????????
Ok Well it’s going to be about 6 + months before I can start IVF! We are going to wait until we both have vacation time to take since we have to take at least a week off from work and go to Idaho to get it done and it’s is almost a 500 miles!!
So until then I am going to try everything natural I can to see if I can unblock them my self! I know most of you thing that this can not be done!! But I think it can, so NO Negative! Thanks! Also my tubes are not blocked because of scar tissue! Both of my tubes looked great! My blockages are right at my ovaries!! I am doing lymphatic de-congestive therapy and reflexology! I also am doing a lymphatic detox tea and massage! I am really hoping that it helps!
I think that I am be given sign from above to do these thing! For the biggest sign was when I was doing a show for Arbonne the booth next to me (out of 50+booths) was the gal that does lymphatic de-congestive therapy and reflexology! After weeks of researching and thinking about doing this and trying to find someone where I live that does this. Also me gal that has been doing my massages had to quit because of problems she was have with her hands and now doing some massages again!! She is so awesome, but about 2 years ago she asked me if there was something with my ovaries! At that time I said NO because I did not now anything was wrong! I just went and saw her and I did not tell her where the blockage was and she knows right where they were!!
What do you think???
Michelle answers:
Go for it!!! As my grandma use to say “you never know until you try”.
Richard asks…
When should I stop searching for a Man and just have a child by myself?
So here is my story and my question, sorry if it is long.
I am currently a college student (double major elementary teacher/ministry and leadership studies). I am still young and searching for the love of my life. I am a virgin because I don’t believe in sex before marriage. I have a wonderful full and complete relationship with God.
I haven’t had a lot of relationships with men mostly because I don’t believe in giving your heart to more than one man. What I want more than anything in the world is a family of my own. The husband the 2.8 kids and the white fence, the big american dream.
Unfortunately I have both PCOS and endometriosis, which means that my body isn’t going to be able to conceive a child for much longer (basically after age 28 I might not be able to have a child even if I try IVF).
So if I don’t find a man that I could see myself with for the rest of my life in the next five years I am going to either have a child by myself or take the chance of never having my own natural child.
My question is at what age should I stop the search for Mr. Right and find a good sperm donor instead? Any suggestions? Prayers are also freely excepted.
Michelle answers:
What I recommend is that you pray on it. Ask the Lord to tell you whether your calling is to have biological kids or not. It could be that His plan for you is to mother beautiful children that need mommies. Or it could be that your life partner is right around the corner. I thought my plan was to be a single mom and planned on pursuing adoption as soon as I finished my degree. About a week after I gave myself that “deadline”, I met Mr. Right (this was after constant dating with the purpose of finding a husband for about 5 years straight). So you never know.
Whatever His plan is for you, He will reveal it, if you ask. It just may not be when you expect it or in the way you expect it.
Good luck.
David asks…
Why is it so easy for her?
So my friend has a 8 year old son and triplet 4 year old boys (all natural i must add, she’s a double egg dropper) and the want a girl so last month or so she went of the pill and WHAMO prego again. Shes waiting for her HCG levels because her belly is very distended and shes sick, Just like when she was prego with the triplets. So do you think she’s gonna have 3 more, and why is is so easy for her and other people like me have to do ivf and jump through hoops??
Hey my friend got her hcg levels back they are 1,100 at 4 weeks prego, I think theres 3 more!!!!
Michelle answers:
It just depends on the woman, really. Some are more fertile than others.
Michael asks…
Why is Yahoo such a homophobic website?
This answer of mine was deleted…
Question Details: The nature vs. nurture debate, and if it IS a learned sexual identity, can it be unlearnt? Can gays become straight and straights become gay? To Rene O…Being gay is not a practice…do you practice being straight?
Deleted Answer: well i think that your surroundings impact whether you are able to identify your feelings as “gay” feelings and choose accept yourself and be gay. i know that ive always been attracted to girls my whole life, even when i was 12 i wanted to kiss the prettiest girl haha. after being with boys ive always felt violated and wrong. i think it is a preference that you are born with but your surroundings impact how you translate those emotions. and to the last two people who commented. honestly, you are morons. people once thought being left handed was a disease. almost every species has reports of homosexual bahaviour. besides whether it is natural or not, does it hurt you? are we impacting the population by having same-sex partners? well not anymore, thanks to the abolition of laws made by ignorant pricks like you which made us unable to have children via IVF. and by the way… homosexual is not a disease or condition, homophobia however is. you do the maths
Now i don’t think that was too harsh, considering i was merely standing up for my own rights… however i constantly see homophobic answers and just disgusting perverted answers which never get deleted. including 2 on the answer i retaliated to which got my answer deleted.
fuck you yahoo
it was deleted because yahoo said it breached the rules !!!
so f u c k i n g laaame
Michelle answers:
A question can be deleted for two reasons. 1) If a “trusted reporter” reports it as abuse, it’s deleted without Yahoo even looking at it. 2) If someone from the YA moderation team sees it and doesn’t like it, they’ll delete it. (1) happens rather more often than (2). If I were to guess, I’d say yours is a case of #1. You can appeal it, but I’d be it will be denied.
“and to the last two people who commented. Honestly, you are morons.”
This is why. YA is very sensitive to comments that even mention other posters. I’ve had answers deleted because I said “I agree with the first answer”, even though I went on to comment further. YA also makes it a point that you may not call other posters names, even if those names fit. Your use of the word “moron” here would be sufficient grounds for them to delete it.
Please note that I am not judging you for this. I’ve had answers deleted for exactly the same reason, so this is the Voice of Experience talking. I’ve learned to couch the same sentiments in words that don’t trip alarms. I’d recommend that path to you.
For what it’s worth, technically this question could be deleted as well, because you quoted the “offending” passage. I suspect it won’t be, as generally the people who post on LGBT aren’t quite that anal-retentive, but we do get others trolling through here from time to time. Lame? Yeah. But it’s their ball and their yard, so they make the rules. Sorry.
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