Maria asks…
im 21 yrs old ad my period is late?
my last period was the 22nd of july up to the 26 july witch is normally how long my period lasts then on the 3rd august to the 5 august i bled again witch is very unusual. i was supposed to start my period on the 22nd of august so im 7 days late with no sign of it showing up. i have sore boobs and bloating and need to pee more often i have done 2 pregnancy tests but they are negative. i have never bled between periods and i am not normally late for my period either. the only time i have been late was in april i was 16 days late for my period when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant sadly i had a natural miscarriage 5 days later and my period returned to normal. when i took the pregnancy tests in april there was a very faint line but the doctors confirmed i was pregnant.but the 2 i have done now are saying negative.sorry if im rambling im just very confused
thanks jeevs if i am pregnant then why am i getting negative pregnancy test results
Michelle answers:
Well it sounds like you have pregnancy symptoms but ive heard to make sure that you are pregnant you should take a pregnancy test 10 days after you were suppose to have your period ..so you should wait a couple of days to take another pregnancy test.
Paul asks…
Feeling very broody.. How to get over it?
Hi, first thing, please don’t judge me. I think we’re all on here to seek advice, and I really need it more now than ever.
Im 20 years old, on my 2nd year of my degree. After an ectopic pregnancy in September 2010 and a miscarriage in January 2011, I cant help the feeling of wanting a baby more than ever. I know it might sound really weird, and alot of you will only say it’s natural to feel this way when you’ve lost something. But im getting out of control!! I keep on looking at baby websites, clothing etc. It’s starting to piss me off now cause i know i cant even have one (me and my ex split on new years eve after 3 years together)
How can i get over this broody feeling and move on?
Michelle answers:
Go hang out with a bunch of your single girlfriends. A lot of them. And have fun. Remind yourself that you can’t hang out with a bunch of single, not parent ladies when you have a child. Wait two years, and you can just try again.
Nancy asks…
18 years old, mother found contraceptive pills, why is she angry that im protecting myself, wat are my rights?
She came into my room while I was still in bed and I always keep the pills beside my bed as I take them early in the morning and then hide them in my drawer during the day. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him very much and she knows about him and is ok with it. I am 18, going into second year of college and live away from home while im away at college. When she saw the box of pills, i quickly grabbed them. She demaded to know if they were contracepive pills and I told her they were. She said to me then ”I cant believe you, Can you not save yourself?” I have saved my self for someone who I eally love, which is my boyfriend, She then told my dad and I got very upset about it, those pills were my business and no one elses, and its bad enough that shes told my dad because hes a man and he doesnt need to a womans business like that. I feel very strongly about keepin my private business like that to myself and feel very violated now, was my mum right to go mad at me just because Im being safe and using condoms aswell??!! I seriously dont understand it, if i found out my daughter was on the pill, I would pat her on the back and say fairlplay to ya for being safe, I thought my mum would have been a bit more happy for me??!! lets face it, havin sex is a natural part of growing up, and yes I do understand the consequences and I do know im always risking pregnancy, but I take my pills perfectly so I know im very safe. I also went on the pill as I have got acne which is now cleared up thankfully and also I want ed my perods to be very regular, which has worked……..please help??
Michelle answers:
You are an 18 year old and she may still see you as her little girl but you are fast becomming an adult. Tell her that originally you were put on the pill due to heavy and painful periods and that yes maybe you should have spoke to her first about it but the fact is you were being sensible and that is what she needs to understand. If she still doesn’t get it, drop the subject, this is obviously a mother meltdown (my mum had several during my teenage years) and sometimes its best to grit your teeth and let it pass even if you want to scream and shout. This was a ridiculous way for her to react though, try and be as mature as possible about it and if she starts shouting or berating you just keep your mouth shut and say you are not prepared to argue about something that can be quietly talked about
James asks…
Sever migraine suggestions please…?
During my sister’s first pregnancy, she had severe migraines thoughout. When she is not pregnant, she occasionally takes migraine meds. Now she is pregnant again and experiencing the same migraines. Does anyone know any baby safe methods to get rid of them, either safe meds or natural safe cures? If it is relevent, she is 20 years old.
Michelle answers:
Definitely consult a doctor because we are all different and what may work out okay for one, may not work so well for your sister. Tell her to try and keep track of when they come – is it mostly in the morning? Is it after she eats or naps? After eating certain foods? This information may help the doctor also.
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