Your Questions About The Oldest Natural Pregnancy

Maria asks…

im 21 yrs old ad my period is late?

my last period was the 22nd of july up to the 26 july witch is normally how long my period lasts then on the 3rd august to the 5 august i bled again witch is very unusual. i was supposed to start my period on the 22nd of august so im 7 days late with no sign of it showing up. i have sore boobs and bloating and need to pee more often i have done 2 pregnancy tests but they are negative. i have never bled between periods and i am not normally late for my period either. the only time i have been late was in april i was 16 days late for my period when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant sadly i had a natural miscarriage 5 days later and my period returned to normal. when i took the pregnancy tests in april there was a very faint line but the doctors confirmed i was pregnant.but the 2 i have done now are saying negative.sorry if im rambling im just very confused
thanks jeevs if i am pregnant then why am i getting negative pregnancy test results

Michelle answers:

Well it sounds like you have pregnancy symptoms but ive heard to make sure that you are pregnant you should take a pregnancy test 10 days after you were suppose to have your period ..so you should wait a couple of days to take another pregnancy test.

Paul asks…

Feeling very broody.. How to get over it?

Hi, first thing, please don’t judge me. I think we’re all on here to seek advice, and I really need it more now than ever.

Im 20 years old, on my 2nd year of my degree. After an ectopic pregnancy in September 2010 and a miscarriage in January 2011, I cant help the feeling of wanting a baby more than ever. I know it might sound really weird, and alot of you will only say it’s natural to feel this way when you’ve lost something. But im getting out of control!! I keep on looking at baby websites, clothing etc. It’s starting to piss me off now cause i know i cant even have one (me and my ex split on new years eve after 3 years together)

How can i get over this broody feeling and move on?

Michelle answers:

Go hang out with a bunch of your single girlfriends. A lot of them. And have fun. Remind yourself that you can’t hang out with a bunch of single, not parent ladies when you have a child. Wait two years, and you can just try again.

Nancy asks…

18 years old, mother found contraceptive pills, why is she angry that im protecting myself, wat are my rights?

She came into my room while I was still in bed and I always keep the pills beside my bed as I take them early in the morning and then hide them in my drawer during the day. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him very much and she knows about him and is ok with it. I am 18, going into second year of college and live away from home while im away at college. When she saw the box of pills, i quickly grabbed them. She demaded to know if they were contracepive pills and I told her they were. She said to me then ”I cant believe you, Can you not save yourself?” I have saved my self for someone who I eally love, which is my boyfriend, She then told my dad and I got very upset about it, those pills were my business and no one elses, and its bad enough that shes told my dad because hes a man and he doesnt need to a womans business like that. I feel very strongly about keepin my private business like that to myself and feel very violated now, was my mum right to go mad at me just because Im being safe and using condoms aswell??!! I seriously dont understand it, if i found out my daughter was on the pill, I would pat her on the back and say fairlplay to ya for being safe, I thought my mum would have been a bit more happy for me??!! lets face it, havin sex is a natural part of growing up, and yes I do understand the consequences and I do know im always risking pregnancy, but I take my pills perfectly so I know im very safe. I also went on the pill as I have got acne which is now cleared up thankfully and also I want ed my perods to be very regular, which has worked……..please help??

Michelle answers:

You are an 18 year old and she may still see you as her little girl but you are fast becomming an adult. Tell her that originally you were put on the pill due to heavy and painful periods and that yes maybe you should have spoke to her first about it but the fact is you were being sensible and that is what she needs to understand. If she still doesn’t get it, drop the subject, this is obviously a mother meltdown (my mum had several during my teenage years) and sometimes its best to grit your teeth and let it pass even if you want to scream and shout. This was a ridiculous way for her to react though, try and be as mature as possible about it and if she starts shouting or berating you just keep your mouth shut and say you are not prepared to argue about something that can be quietly talked about

James asks…

Sever migraine suggestions please…?

During my sister’s first pregnancy, she had severe migraines thoughout. When she is not pregnant, she occasionally takes migraine meds. Now she is pregnant again and experiencing the same migraines. Does anyone know any baby safe methods to get rid of them, either safe meds or natural safe cures? If it is relevent, she is 20 years old.

Michelle answers:

Definitely consult a doctor because we are all different and what may work out okay for one, may not work so well for your sister. Tell her to try and keep track of when they come – is it mostly in the morning? Is it after she eats or naps? After eating certain foods? This information may help the doctor also.

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Donna asks…

Home Pregnancy Test Help!!!?

I am 11 dpo. I just took a First Response Early Response HPT and the pregnancy line is VERY faint. I can see it in natural light if I look very hard, and when I hold it up to the window/sunlight I can really see it.

My question is do those tests show the pregnancy line when you are holding it up to the window/sunlight because that is where the line would be if you were pregnant? Or do you only see that if the test is positive. Any help right now would be great.

Thanks!!!

Michelle answers:

I would say CONGRATS… Test again in 2 days betcha the line is darker!!

William asks…

Sore breasts for 2-3 weeks now, negative pregnancy test??????

My husband and i would like to conceive however I have secondary amenorrhea, I had a period induced by a provera challenge 10mg for 7 days january 20th..My doctor then suggested i try natural progesterone cream for 10 days the last 10 days of my cycle, anyways 3 days into taking the cream i started my period again feb 16th, i used it the whole 10 days in march though i did not start my period, I know it’s normal for woman with amenorrhea however my breasts have been slightly sore the past 2-3 weeks, I took a preg test 1 week after my missed period then again a couple of days ago and both came out negative. My breasts never hurt, not even befor my period. The only times my breasts would be sore is when i was pregnant unfortunately i lost them..I have not gotten a blood test yet though i have a appointment with an infertility specialist april 2nd..Do you think their is a chance i still might be preg even though both tests were neg? was suppose to start period march14th, im 2 weeks late

Michelle answers:

Everyone is different. A friend of mine was pregnant and found out she was 4 months along. She was still getting her cycles and kept on getting negetive test. She finally went into her DR and they confirmed everything. Wait to see if you get another cycle, if you don’t then re-test again. If it still comes up negetive, then I would go see your DR just to make sure everything is ok.

George asks…

i am irregperiod now i crossed 45 days the test strip showsneg but now i haveconduct ihave pain inback ispreg?

before month i have taken tablet to induce egg(colomophine)clome 100 mg i take thehome pregnancy test it showed that negative but now i have a conduct with my husband everyday is their any chance to pregnancy, today my missed period day is 48th day please advice whether i will wait for natural mensus or shall i take any medicine for mensus or i wil wait for some other days for pregrancy

Michelle answers:

I am surfing through the net to find an answer to this. It looks like clomid delays menses. I am now in the 37th day and normally I have 33 days cycle but there is no sign of menses. I took a few test at home but the result is negative. It is getting on my nerve. What should I do. Wait for the menses to come or to go for blood test. Why not you can go for a blood test that can give you a more accurate result?

John asks…

hcg level and pregnancy possibility?

Well, my husband and I use a natural family planning method and had intercourse while I was fertile. I was supposed to have my period on the 18 or 19 and did not. I have taken a few pregnancy tests after my expected period, all negative. Today my breasts have been quite sore and I am questing whether I just didn’t ovulate or if I didn’t have enough hcg to be detected on the pregnancy tests.

Any thoughts or has this happened to any of you?

Michelle answers:

Yep. All of that has happened to me. And I was never pregnant. Don’t get your hopes up.

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Your Questions About Oldest Natural Pregnancy

Maria asks…

miscarriage – could i already be pregnant?

I had a miscarriage on 10/16 – passes something on 10/29 finally stopped bleeding afterwards.

My doctor advised us that we could start trying after I stop bleeding and pass everything. (i did this natural) My husband and I have had unprotected sex about 10 times since then.

I have not start my first cycle yet, but… I’m really confused, for the past couple of days I have been feeling queezy! I haven’t thrown up – but, i’m just feeling queezy… Is this my high hopes or could i already be? Since my miscarriage i have been going to the doctor to test my HCG levels and they were going down great, finally got back to normal and i took a pregnancy test just to make sure and it was negative.. I’ve taken one every wednesday just to see!

I have a 6 year old soon, my ex-husband and i got pregnant around thanksgiving time and miscarried in december, then we found out we were pregnant again in january.
I have also had some heartburn and my girls seem to have enlarged more…

Michelle answers:

With my last miscarriage, I passed it naturally as well and was pregnant the very next month, it was kind of like I had not miscarried and I had A scan to check the dates and it was definitely a new pregnancy I was fine and had a healthy baby boy.. Good luck to you

Paul asks…

attempting a VBAC- but time is almost up!?

i’m hoping for a VBAC with this pregnancy. I’ll be 41 weeks on tuesday. I’ve been patient waiting- but now am feeling “under the wire” because if I haven’t gone into labor by Tuesday (feb 13) at my OB appointment- she will schedule a c-section for me at 42 weeks. I want a natural birth so bad! Anyways- i’ve gone weeks without being dilated or having anything more than ‘menstral like cramps’… today at my appointment i was 80% effaced, -2 station and dilated to a 1. My OB said if i was dilated just a pinch more she would have been able to get her finger up far enough to strip my membranes… so hopefully she can on tuesday.. Does anyone have any suggestions of anything I can do to help my body dilate or anything? I’ve been taking red raspberry leaf- going to the chiropractor- dh has the old “afraid of hurting the baby’ thing going- so any sex has pretty much been completely out of the question– anyone offer up any suggestions? or just some encouragement for me??? thanks!
Today i’ve actually had a few “regular” contractions.. so at least something is going on!!! I was never dilating at my appointments- but was effacing about 10% more from week to week.
*** i am prepared mentally to end up with another c-section… but I would much rather at least try the vbac and end up with a c-section- than just go in for a c-section having always wished i had tried for a natural birth! ty for the advice

Michelle answers:

Hi,
Sex during pregnancy is a good thing. For one thing, the contractions apparently seem to soothe the baby. Also, semen contains chemicals called prostaglandins which help to soften the cervix and prepare it for the baby’s delivery. Artificial prostaglandins, in fact, are used sometimes to help ripen a woman’s cervix if she’s in labor but not dilating fast enough. However we see that that is not good for you right now, but there are other ways where your husband can help you without entering. By stimulation you in other ways, you can be able to have an orgasm and this will help out a lot! The girl up top spoke about nipple stimulation, that’s good! He can do that and play with you carefully and make you get an orgasm. I am so sorry and I wish you could give natural birth like you want to instead of a c-section. Just hang in there! But you can also take my foolish advice. (Also you can do a bath massage or let your husband stimulate you in the tub of warm water, with both of you in the tub, so your body can relax while he pleasure you) this could help a lot. .
Well good luck!!

Linda asks…

Any Emetophobics out there?? Would apprecate some advise…?

Hi,
I suffer with emetophobia. I am 27 years old and recently got married. I have always wanted children, I love kids and my husband and I want to start trying for a family soon. ONLY problem is the MORNING SICKNESS!!! I am actually very worried about this and its pretty much all that I think about lately!!! Any ladies out there with emetophobia with natural kids?? And how did the pregnancy‘s go???

I would really like to talk about this in detail to someone who is like me and would so appreciate the help and advise…

Michelle answers:

This vid helped my wife with her worries 🙂
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0&annotation_id=annotation_664295&feature=iv

Ruth asks…

loose skin on tummy help!?

I had a son 6 months ago im 19 years old i have noticed that my tummy is all loose and flabby after having a baby i have lost 9kg i still have another 8kg to go to get back to pre pregnancy weight i had my baby natural birth he was 11 pounds one ounce i did not have a c section but im guessing by the size of him he did sretch my skin i was in lobour for pretty long 10.30 am till 2.30 am in the morning dunno if that has anything to do with it . i also wanted to ask is it easyer losing weight with the fat or after ive lost all my weight

thanks

Michelle answers:

Luckily, because you are young, your skin is still very elastic. There are a few things you need to do, however, if you want to firm up. You need to take a look at your diet – I don’t know what you eat now, so I am not saying what you are doing is wrong, but you need to make sure you are getting all your vitamins, and the best way to do that is through food. You need to be eating a variety of fruits and veggies. You also need to get protein – from low fat sources like fish and skinless chicken. You also need to exercise – both cardio (like walking, jogging, swimming) and weight / resistance training. Start with 100 sit ups a day, every day. Increase after a week to 150, then after two weeks to 200. You can start all of this all at once – losing fat and losing weight will essentially come together as a package deal – although you might not notice a difference on the scale at first if you start putting on muscle, but your clothes will feel looser and you belly will look flatter.

Another important thing is to drink LOTS of water – 2 liters a day & CUT OUT SUGAR- sugar bloats you and will pile on the kilos. Sodas (even diet sodas) are bad too.

In addition, keep out of the sun – sun damage can make your skin lose its elasticity and cause very nasty wrinkles.

Good luck!

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James asks…

c sections and breech position?

hi all im almost 29weeks with my 1st. i have a high risk pregnancy and a tilted uterus, i have been getting some extra scans. i found out today he is breech position, i have another scan booked in a few weeks to see if he will turn and another at 36 weeks if he doesn’t. after 36wks would you be booked in for a c section?? if you’re booked in for a section could they scan you in early labour to see if baby will get into position to allow for a natural birth? thanks in advance
can you feel the baby turning?

Michelle answers:

Hi. I had a csec because my daughter was breech. They did Ultra sounds at 36 weeks, 39 weeks and right before I was hooked up to IV’s for surgery to make sure she hadnt flipped. You can schedule the c section ahead of time, but that doen’t mean you will have one. If your baby flips, they will wait until the baby is ready for a natural birth.

As your baby is getting bigger it will become more obvious that it is turning.

Linda asks…

I just found out that I am pregnant, any advice..?

I have a few questions =)

#1:
How often do you go to the doctor?

#2:
When can they take the first picture of the baby?

#3:
What are key things to ask when looking for a OB/GYN for your birth?

#4:
Is a natural birth better for the baby than a C-section and why?

#5:
Can you reccommend any books on a baby’s first year or what to expect during pregnancy?

#6:
What were your symptoms throughout your pregnancies?

If you can answer one or all of them, I really appreciate it!

PS – 5 weeks with my first =)

Michelle answers:

Congratulations! My best advice: enjoy every minute of it! Being pregnant is such a gift!

#1: It usually depends on the doctor. I went once a month for the first 32 weeks, then twice a month until 36 weeks, then every week until I delivered.

#2: I think I had my son’s first ultrasound at 5 weeks, but he was just a dot on the picture. They’ll probably do the major ultrasound where you can see everything around 18 weeks. That is fun. I think you can see the heart beating around 8 or 10 weeks.

#3: I think that depends on what is important to you. Think about how you feel about medication during labor and how reassuring you want the doctor to be if you are having anxiety. You’ll probably know if your doctor is right for you when you meet him/her.

#4: Given the choice, natural birth is better for the baby (as long as you and the baby are both in good health and not in distress). Introducing medications and being cut open if it’s not necessary puts everyone at more of a risk. It will be much easier on you after birth if you have had it naturally rather than having just had major surgery. But you always have to keep your mind open because you want to do what is best for the baby and there may be a possibility that a C-section is the safest.

#5: There are a million books out there. I’d just go to the book store a flip through some until one (or a few) catch your eye and seem to match your thoughts, needs, desires and values.

#6: First trimester – tired and nauseous. To relieve nausea try lemon drops or lemonade. I lived off of lemon drops my first trimester.
Second trimester – feeling good. Try to keep exercising.
Third trimester – feeling big but good.
Advice: light exercise like walking was the best thing for me throughout my pregnancy. It helped me stay in shape throughout and helped me during labor.

Good luck and enjoy!

Helen asks…

VBAC??? Questions???

I am looking for literature on VBAC & easy to understand statistics & such?? I am also looking for good books on the subject & on natural birth, know any? Thirdly can anyone reccomend exercise & nutrion tips/hints & tricks for preparing your body for pregnancy & child birth?

I had a c-section 3.5 years ago. I was induced (1 week late) w/ pitocin. I labored for about 18 hours, I pushed for 2 hours & he wouldn’t come! Result: Emergency C-section. Any one know if that makes me a bad candidate for VBAC. We are making an appointment to speak witha new Dr. about our options.(My previous doc will not do VBAC!)

***So please don’t tell me to talk to a doc, just personal experience & opinions ONLY, PLEASE!

I am not even pregnant yet…Just doing my homework!

Michelle answers:

You should see a midwife in your area. An OB is very likely to do a repeat section due to issues with malpractice and not the safety of your baby or yourself. Keep in mind that a doctor views childbirth as complicted until proven otherwise, while a midwife views childbirth as a natural, normal part of life. Please, please, please don’t let someone tell you that it is unsafe to go VBAC. Many women have had successful vaginal births after a c-section. Go to HelpingHandsConnection@yahoogroups.com and post this question there. This is a website formed to discuss natural childbirth. You will get tons of input from mothers, midwives, and others. Good luck and congratulations on your decision to educate yourself before becoming pregnant. I wish you the best of luck!

Daniel asks…

Trying Labor without any drugs advice???

I am on my first pregnancy and i want to go natural and need advice i have heard many horror stories as well as witnessed a few with people who had epidurals i just really want to know from people who have gave birth not people who read books about giving birth what there advice is i would greatly appriciate that

Michelle answers:

I had to go natural because i have a heart condition. The best peice of advise i got was not worry what others think of you during labor…which i think is good advice natural or not…if you want ot yell, then yell. I had a fairly ok time with it.
At the beginning of “real” labor pains i had back labor (i felt it in my lower back more than my abs) they suggested using a hard old fashioned rocking chair to rock in whenever the labor started. I looked at that hard chair and thought they were nuts but other than having to have a cooler put under my feet to reach the floor it worked like a charm! Maybe its just you are thinking “must rock must rock must rock” that you trick yourself into forgetting about the pains…whatever it is it worked.
Also they suggest having regular breathing but controlled (not the he he hoo of lamaze unless you actually feel comfortable breathing like that) i felt like an idiot saying he he he hoooo so i didn’t.
Ok so here’s the tmi part…when she was born i didn’t feel like i had to have a bowel movement like so many people say. But while i was pushing i could feel her head pushing against the sides. I later told my hubby it felt like it does if you swallow a bite of a dorito without chewing and a sharp point kinda scratches your throat as you swallow.

Congrats and good luck going natural…2 things to remember, 1) every push makes you one step closer to meeting your baby and 2) you’ll be one of a few people of our generation to go natural…what a way to be different!!!!

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Your Questions About What Is The Oldest Natural Pregnancy

Susan asks…

Is this my first postpartum period or something else? Need the advice of other mothers?

With my first child I had what I would consider a normal period when he was 6 months old as my first postpartum period. Monday, for a stretch of a few hours, I had light red/pinkish very stretchy discharge around my cervix. In case anyone is wondering why I was checking, I just started charting for natural family planning. Trying to avoid a pregnancy, but stay withing the guidelines of my religion. The discharge didn’t spot my underwear and only came out a little after I checked. It was similar to egg white cervical mucus, but light red/pink. I thought I would be starting a period, but it went away after a few hours. (no more than 8) I have been cramping for the past 3 weeks so that’s not really a good indicator of anything. Tuesday I have changed to a slightly stretchy white creamy mucus.

So my question is was this my first postpartum period or just my body gearing up for a period?

And no I did not experience anything like this with my first so I honestly have no idea what to make of it. Any help is appreciated.
Forgot to add that my baby is exclusively breastfed, eats every 1 1/2 hours during the day, is 19 weeks old, and sleeps 10 hours at night.
Pregnant Slut- You obviously don’t know much about breastfeeding. 6 months isn’t a long time. Some women don’t get a period until they completely wean their child. 6 months is considered the normal return of the menstrual cycle while breastfeeding.
No I’m not learning from a teacher. I’m charting BBT, mucus, and cycle. I’m positive I didn’t cut myself. I bite my nails so I never have long nails. Usually mine are too short if anything,

Michelle answers:

Are you learning NFP from a certified teacher? If not, I would highly recommend finding a teacher ASAP. The transition time when you are returning to fertility can be very challenging!

In general, you would need to consider any time after a change, like seeing red/pink mucus, a potential time of fertility. You would want to abstain for a few days to make sure it goes away. As a rule, most women will have an abundance of fertile mucus for a period of 2-3 weeks before they have a period. They will usually feel very wet. But again, these are generalities and so that’s why learning from a teacher would be preferential.

Most methods don’t even promote internal mucus checks and given how little you saw, I wonder if you maybe scratched yourself while checking. If you are checking internally, it should only be once or twice a day max and you should make sure your nails are short and rounded. The cervix is pretty sensitive.

I hope this helps!

William asks…

Is it about that TIME?

O.k. here’s the deal, I am now 35 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Dilated 1 centimeter the last time my dr. checked; In this pregnancy I have had preterm labor 4 times since January. I am currently lounging and have been ever since my first preterm labor “scare.” Now here is the thing ever since the complications with my second child I have been High risk. Lately I have been nesting alot and i have also had alot of fatigue and been very tired not to mention an increase in vaginal discharge and contractions. Last night I woke up only to feel my panties were damp (I wondered if it was sweat or if my water had broken or something but im not sure because i had the a/c on 65 degrees last night) Then when I got out of the bed I felt immediate cramping with pain in my lower back, with contractions, and this has not stopped yet.. I am not really sure what is going on and my next dr. appointment is not until the 29 next week.. anybody have any ideas or help??? I currently have 2 children both of which are girls. My oldest is 2yrs and 5 months and my youngest is 1yr and 4 months. With my second pregnancy I experienced preterm labor three times before actually going into labor (which lasted 5 hours) I had gone into labor so fast that the hospital couldn’t give me epidural.. My youngest child was born natural and weighed in at 7lbs 14oz….

Michelle answers:

Call your OB and tell them your symptoms, they will direct you to the hospital, or tell you what to do.
Sounds like your little one may be heading out real soon.
Congratulations!

Sandra asks…

How do I tell my 4 year old that I’m pregnant?

I am 24 weeks pregnant, and although I’m showing (not a lot, but enough for others to notice), I still haven’t told my son. I know that part of him will be excited, but I just worry about him too.
His dad and I separated shortly after he was born, and are now divorced and his dad has nothing to do with him.
The guy I was dating (who is the father of the child that I’m pregnant with now) was absolutely wonderful to my son. But he broke up with me when I was 2 months pregnant, and hasn’t really been a part of the pregnancy.
My son has adjusted to a lot here recently, with 1.) my boyfriend no longer being in our lives (which he says he wants to be a part of this baby’s life when it is born, but is doing nothing during the pregnancy, we don’t talk or have contact, so if he comes back around I know it will spark questions with my 4 year old). It’s hard enough trying to explain a what breaking up is to a 4 year. 2.) His aunt just moved away for school/work (she was/is a VERY big part of his life, and he is adjusting to her not being here; 3.) He’s starting preschool in a couple weeks. Just a lot of life changes in a short period of time for a little boy.
I also plan to take my son to a big brother/big sister class…but not until November since I’m not due until the end of Dec/beginning of Jan. I know how 15 minutes can be an eternity to a child, let alone 3 months.
I want him to feel included and a part of all this. I want him to be proud and happy that he is going to be a big brother.

I would appreciate any suggestions you have in ways that I could tell him the news.

My mom had to me to just wait until he asks about my growing belly, since it would be his natural curiosity sparking the question. That way I would know he wants to talk about it rather than just initiating the conversation.
I just wanted to have a back up plan unless he doesn’t ask. I didn’t want to wait too long to tell him, after all I’m already 6 months.

Thanks in advance!

Michelle answers:

I doubt he will ask about your growing belly. But I was in a similar situation as you…I would start to mention it to him and get him excited about it. I brought my son to the bookstore and let him pick out big brother books and then we got a big brother t-shirt. He is now in love with his little sister. Kids are resilient. My son went through a lot in the last 2 years…his grandmother close to him passing away. Having a new man in his life that I married and a new baby sister (his father left me when I was six months pregnant with him) and a new house. He has adjusted real well and your son will to. Just prepare him as much as possible…include him on all the baby stuff and make sure to remember his needs too…reassure him about how much you love him and that he is special to you and soon you will have two special people to care for. I hope that helps and good luck.

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Start telling your son now…by saying “Guess what?” “You are going to be a special big brother soon” “Mommy knows how much of a great big brother you are going to be.” If he wants to continue to talk about it then go ahead…but I would mention it maybe once a week to him until you get to your 8th month…then mention it a lot and let him help you fix up the nursery for baby.

Maria asks…

i have a 6 day old baby girl…?

and after my waters being broken for 2 days to be left to see if i went into labour on my own i was induced.. well they tried.. i was given a pesseri to try and get things started but after 5 hours i noticed a little pale green staning of the waters on my st.. so i was taken onto delivery and where they put me on the hormone drip syntocin, i was on this for about 8 hours, i was contracting 4 -5 in 10 mins but no change and wasnt dilating so my baby came by c-sec..
i have had 3 natural births so i am aware of what that is like but this was my first c-sec. i am b/f my baby as i feel it is the best start but also because i do feel a little cheated and i feel that if i didnt that i would poss suffer from PND.. having a c-sec was not something i enterd into lightly as the baby was absolutely fine and showing no signs of distress. my partner has been fantastic with doing things for me because obviously i am out of action for up to 6 weeks so i struggle to do simple things like stand for too long to cook dinner or take the washing out the machine and hang it out.. just silly simple things even making a cuppa with the kettle.. so he has been helping out loads which i am soo greatful for. i also sufferd badly with SPD in my pregnancy and over the festive season he also helped out alot as he is still doing now.. i am starting to feel now that may be he is resenting helping out with the older kids and everything else..i am slowly doing things like pulling the washing from the machine, he will take the basket to the table where i am able to stand and hang it out on the airer, and i am doing little things but taking it really easy..

i worry about him though he isnt very good at showing his emotions and i worry that maybe he may be hindering feelings for having to do everything..

my baby is 6 days old but i can only do so much as i am still also suffering with a little spd so i am still a little slow… what can i do to make it easier for him so he doesnt have to do so much?

Michelle answers:

I understand where you are coming from. I did not take my c-section lightly either. I suffered very bad baby blues due to not being able to birth my son naturally and because breastfeeding didn’t work out. I felt like I had been cheated out of motherhood.Thank God I got through that pretty quickly. As far as your partner, mine acted the same way. I think you should definitely talk and let him know that even though times are very stressful, it is only temporary. You just had your baby six days ago! You need to get as much rest as possible. Your partner needs to take on as many responsibilities as possible. At least until you are two weeks postpartum. Healing from a c-section is very rough. Adding on the stresses of everyday chores does not make it any easier. I wish I knew where you lived. I would come clean your whole house and make your family a week worth of dinners so you could rest! Have you tried enlisting the help of any friend or family members? Well… I hope you find something that works for your family. Congrats on the baby! Enjoy every second of her at this stage, it goes by very fast.

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Your Questions About Facebook Login

Laura asks…

facebook login???????

ok so everytime i try logging into facebook it says “account temporarily unavalible” and like stuff about site maintenance…. it says try back in a few hours. but this has been happening since friday night i couldnt login at all yesterday and now this morning it says the same thing

is there anything i can do to fix this?
is it normal?

Michelle answers:

Do a google search on facebook site maintenance limited to the last 24 hours or a week and you will see there is a major problem with one of the databases. I have been down since last Sunday. The site error I see when I sign in is an expanded site maintenance error. They finally acknowledged on Tuesday that they have a problem with one of the databases. There is a pretty good explanation in an article on Cnet, among other places. My husband can sign onto his account just fine. So it is just one database, although I see posts of other people having different, minor problems.

Sandra asks…

Facebook login?

Ever since I got a a face book I can’t get on, only on my computer, I’ve tried changing my password, and it will login for a split second, and then it’ll say it’s incorrect. It works on other people’s computers. Is there any software I need? My computer is an HP. Also, my browser says something about the connection being encrypted.

Michelle answers:

Perhaps you need to upgrade your internet browser
try upgrading your internet explorer browser (if thats the one u have, or whatever browser u have) to the latest version
that might do the trick
o also check ur cookie preferences
right click the internet explorer icon
click properties
then click on the third tab which is Privacy and check ur setttings
sometimes if ur computer blocks cookies ur facebook won’t login

George asks…

How do you delete Facebook login history on a Mac?

Whenever i go onto facebook and type in the first letter of my username, the whole username comes up, which is normally fine, but recently i accidently typed my password into the username box, so that now pops up whenever i type the first letter :s….how can i delete the login history on facebook?

Michelle answers:

Click Safari in the menu bar, then click Reset Safari… Then deselect everything except Remove Saved names and passwords.

Robert asks…

My facebook login tells me that it is under site maintenance wont let me login for over 12 hours now?

When I try to login to facebook it keeps telling me that my profile is under site maintenance. This has been going on for over 12 hours now. What is going on with face book? Is my profile being hacked or what?

Michelle answers:

Same thing with me.

I contacted them, and they said this:

Hi,

We are aware of the problem that you described and apologize for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we do not have a specific date for when this issue will be resolved but hope to fix it as soon as possible. We appreciate your patience.

Thanks for contacting Facebook,

The Facebook Team”

If you’re able to get a better answer, let me know. I emailed them again and said this was really unacceptable!!

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Induction

Mary asks…

Induction because of blood pressure?

I had a prenatal appt. on Tuesday (btw, I’m 35 weeks) everything was the same as usual, except when the nurse took my blood pressure she said it was too high 156/75 so she had me lay on my left side and took it again it was 152/70. Then she said it was still too high so she had me lay there for a little and took it again and it was 140/60.

The doctor came in, did the usual things but then said she wanted me on bed rest for the rest of my pregnancy and that she would want to induce me in 2-3 weeks and next week she wants me to do fetal monitoring for a half hour.

I didn’t ask any questions because I was in shock. I know that’s stupid, but now I have a bunch of questions!

1. Is my blood pressure really high? I mean it doesn’t seem too high.
2. What will they do for fetal monitoring?
3. If I’m on bed rest will my blood pressure go down and she won’t want to induce?
4. And is there any chance that if my blood pressure doesn’t go down she won’t induce and let me go into labor on my own? I ask because I wanted to do all natural.

And please, no rude comments. I know I was stupid for not asking, but I’m writing a list of things I’m going to ask about at my next appt on Tuesday.

Michelle answers:

First of all your blood pressure is a bit high, but no it’s not through the roof. They can induce because of blood pressure but I find it strange that they would be so eager to especially because they want to in a few weeks and like you said things can change.

I had a similar situation with my amniotic fluid, it was slowly decreasing and was being monitored on a weekly basis, until 35 weeks when it dropped into and extremely low range. They decided not to induce because the baby wasn’t showing any signs of distress and they wanted to try to keep her in there until 36 weeks. Well I’m glad they decided to hold off because at the next week appoitnment the fluids had gone back up, and now I am almost 38 weeks and the fluids are higher than they were when they started monitoring me at 31 weeks.

So from my experience a lot can change in a few weeks. Take the doctors orders and stay on bed rest for the next few weeks (my friend had to go on bed rest for high blood pressure) and see what happens at your next appointment. I would ask for a second opinion if they insist on inducing you and your blood pressure has stabilized.

And just for a reference my blood pressure has been 120/75 for the entire pregnancy, it jump up to 134/88 when I was sent to labor and delivery after the whole incident with the fluids and the weren’t doctors weren’t concerned at all, especially when it went back down at my next visit.

Lisa asks…

Labor Induction complications?

I am 38 weeks pregnant with my 7th pregnancy no problems other than the norm DR says if i do not deliver by due date 06/29/2009 she will induce i totally disagree because i have never had meds of any kind or had to induce labor for none either i went through natural child birth with all because i worry the side effects will hurt the baby i feel that inducing labor will push for what is not meant to happen yet i think baby’s come when they are ready i talked to her a little bit about it but she said well it is mostly so you do not deliver at home but i let it go i justwant to hear what could be the complications if i 100 % have to go with this

Michelle answers:

What a poor excuse to induce someone! So you don’t deliver at home? And what does she think is going to happen if you go into labor before your due date? You’re just going to have that baby at home because your doctor doesn’t have full control over your labor? Hah! Of course it’s a possibility that anyone can have a precipitous labor and “accidentally” birth at home, regardless of how many babies they’ve had before, but I certainly wouldn’t let someone put me and my baby under all the risks of induction just so she could control me in a natural process that I already know works just fine.

Here is a good fact sheet that includes risks of induction:
http://www.preciouspassage.com/CIMS%20Fact%20Sheet%20on%20Induction.htm

Also, your chances of a successful induction depend on your cervix and your baby. Basically, if you are not already starting the cervical changes necessary for birth, you have a much higher chance of having a failed induction and a cesarean. Http://www.amazingpregnancy.com/pregnancy-articles/173.html

Induction’s biggest risks are fetal distress, difficult labor, and additional interventions, with all the risks of those interventions. You’re more likely to need an epidural or other pain medication because your body does not get the endorphins of a natural labor. You will be continuously monitored (tethered to the machine) in or near the bed. You won’t be able to use the tub or shower and are more likely to have more pain anyhow. You can experience uterine hyperstimulation, which can cause fetal distress and an emergency cesarean. If the baby is not ready to be born yet, he/she could be born with signs of prematurity and need to be admitted to the NICU. You also have a higher chance of an instrumental delivery (forceps or vacuum). If your water is broken as part of your induction, you have higher chances of infection and/or cord prolapse (immediate emergency cesarean required) and a more painful labor, despite not taking much, if any, time off of your labor.

If you totally disagree with your doctor, you should tell her so. You make the decisions about your medical care. You never have to go with something the doctor wants you to do, and you shouldn’t feel pressured to, especially when there is no medical reason for it(controlling your labor so you don’t “accidentally birth at home” is not a medical reason). You call the shots. She has to get consent from you for any and all procedures and actions done to you. If you don’t consent, it doesn’t happen. That’s the way it’s supposed to work.

William asks…

Anyone see a doctor during their pregnancy that they hated?

I am currently going through the same practice of midwives I went though to have my first and while the experience with my first was amazing and very natural I am very disappointed as to how it is going this time around. With my first the midwife let me go to 42 almost 43 weeks and that is very dangerous and so this time around one of the main midwives I have been seeing stated that she was not going to let that happen to me this time around especially cause the baby is already very big. So to be on the safe side she scheduled me to be induced on the 18th especially because I am group b positive and she wants to make sure I get the medication in time. Well I am ok with that the other midwife in the practice doesn’t. The same one who let me go almost 43 weeks found out that I was being induced and practically flipped out on me saying how my body would not be able to last with it and how I would not be able to handle the contractions and how I should just wait again for the baby to come. The thing is she did that to a friend of mine who just recently had a baby and was also told it was big and my friend ended up delivering a 10lb 8 oz baby because this midwife did not want to induce and I do not want to go through that. Lucky for me the doctor who originally scheduled me for the induction is the one who is on call that day of the induction but I still have to see this other doctor on tuesday and I just feel horrible every time she talks to me. Is this normal? I had a natural child birth with no pain meds with my first and I did great and now I am being told I will not be able to do it without pain meds and its feeding doubt into me

Michelle answers:

I feel your pain. My first pregnancy and labour were horrible that plus the midwife I was seeing was a cow and the countless drs I had to see!! I was under a consultant as I was very high risk (pre e, spd, thrombosis and polyhydromonous) I never got to see my consultant more than twice the rest of the time I was under the care of her team. They wouldn’t communicate or they will tell me different things etc. The midwife was so rude to me all the time.

The nhs suck! Next pregnancy I am having none of their rubbish.

I never stood up for myself or complained through my first and the next one ill be damned if I get talked to and treated in a stupid way since my labour was traumatic after 9 mths of hell 🙁

Stick up for yourself. That mw can’t treat you like that x

Good luck x

Mandy asks…

Should I try for natural birth or have c-section?

Hello I have a little Boy who is three and I gave birth to him naturally BUT he was a big boy at 9 and a half pounds. I am 56″ and about 8 stone so it was hard to carry him and towards the end of the pregnancy I was in agony, I didn’t know it at the time but I had pubis symphasis dysfunction. The labour was awful I had an episotomy and his head almost didn’t come out, I had a ventouse suction cap. With all that said, I healed in two weeks, snapped back and breastfed quite happily. Now I am 31 weeks and on crutches, I did loose a baby last year at 27 weeks and had to give birth, again I had the PSD but earlier as with this pregnancy. I now am on crutches and cannot walk or sleep properly, it is agony everyday and they tell me the babies head is measuring big for my dates and for my pelvis so I have to have another scan at 36 weeks, they say this baby (a Boy) is looking to be big but I do not know what to do for the best? My PSD is severe and the pain is never ending, should I opt for a c-section, ask for early induction or just put up and shut up (ouch) and is it possible to breastfeed after c-section? Sorry if I am rambling on I fainted today and the stress of the situation is making me ill. Also I would like to add apart from the problems mentioned I am very fit and healthy with lots of fresh fruit and fibre, water and vitamins, the big babies are just hereditory (I was 10 pounds!) Any advice from Mums would be great and thanks so much 🙂
Thanks for all the advice, I don’t think I can carry to term I am in agony and I am vertually housebound. I have a very bad day today, I think I will opt for an early induction and try to give birth but it may out of my hands if baby is big. Thanks once again for the very good and open advice 🙂

Michelle answers:

I would be very carefull having a C-section can sometimes cause problems, I have had 2 emergecy C Sections, the first was fine with no complications, after the 2nd I had an infection in my wound which lasted 4 months, I had to be seen every day by a nurse, it was a nightmare

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Your Questions About Oldest Natural Pregnancy

Nancy asks…

I can’t stop biting my nails! This is an awful habit, I’ve kicked it before, but now it’s back. Any ideas?

As a child I was a nail biter. As a teen, I grew long, beautiful nails. At some point I started biting again and resorted to artificial nails. Even after the fake nails, I’ve been able to remove them and grow natural nails. Of course I was taking prenatal vitamins at the time during pregnancy with my son(s). Now I refuse to go back to artificial nails and I am too embarrassed to go get manicures because my nails are so awful. I chew them down to the point that they are sometimes painful. When I can no longer bite the nail edge, I start to peel layers and bite my cuticles. My nails are in the worst shape of my life. I’m 31 years old and cannot stop this nasty habit.

Michelle answers:

I am 29 and have had the same problem—I have come to the conclusion that it is a nervous habit that can be caused by stress, anxioty, restlessness, and very often bordem…I have been an on and off again bitter since I was little also. I tried everything too—fake nails, I tried “NO BITE” that they sell at walgreens but could not use it because I cook alot. I finally stopped after I got really sick one time—I am a healthy person and think I got sick from putting my nasty hands in my mouth all of the time. After that it was all a mental thing with me —everytime I went to bit I thought “OH MY GOD WHERE HAVE YOUR HANDS BEEN” yuk, discusting, gross, ewwwww….I have gorgeous nails now and don’t even think about bitting anymore. I am really surprised I did not cause permanent damage to my nails because I did the same thing you do–bit till I couldn’t bit anymore nail then I would peel the nail -God when I think about it I make myself sick it’s like self mutilation bleeding and all yuk!
Hope this helps.

Sandy asks…

Remedy for brittle hair?

My hair has become very dry and brittle, even though it used to be fine before my pregnancy (my baby is seven months old). It lacks docility and always retains the form of the do I had. For example it stays awfully wavy after I let it loose from a ponytail. And if I let it down it gets all frizzy and gross. Any solution that may help me (best if it is a natural remedy)? Thanks!

Michelle answers:

Internally, you may want to increase your protein intake, as well stepping up the essential fatty acids.
Externally ( product-wise), L’oreal’s Eversleek shampoo and conditioner really made my frizzy, brittle, wavy hair feel a ton more soft, and actually did smooth it (without silicones etc.). And I swore by Iden’s Bee Propolis line for years before that, until eventually that combination quit working for me too.
Good luck !

Charles asks…

pregnant-first child?

well i’m 19 turning 20 tomorrow!!! dew in 4 days i feel good but fat lol 😀
mostly good i have good experience i have my brothers kids 1 year old 7 and 10 had then since i was 17 he went off to war and the mom died so i have them till dec

but away from that
i go to birthing classes but its by a teacher that had no damn kids :S
i just
want to know how is it
i know it hurts i’m so nervous
down there feels like my bun is going to drop out

how did ur first pregnancy and birth go?

natural
or
cesarean

Michelle answers:

C0NGRATS!AND G0D BLESS Y0UR BR0THER.

MY FIRST WAS ALL NATURAL !
MY SISTER HAD HER BABY 2 AND 1/2 MONTHS
BEFORE ME AND GAVE ME THE BEST TIPS EVER
IM ALSO A YOUNG MOTHER AND WAS EXTREMLY SCARED
SHE SAID THINK OF SOMETHING SO DIFFERENT AND THE PAIN GOES AWAY AND I WAS LIKE YEA RIGHT.I THOUGHT ABOUT VACATION AND RANDOM STUFF AND IT GOT MY MIND OF IT FOR SMALL INTERVALS,ALSO DO LOTS OF SQUATS!IT WILL MAKE THE PUSHING PROCESS EASIER!

G00DLUCKKK M0MMY T0 BEE ! C0NGRATS !!

Daniel asks…

Maybe I am paranoid?

I had my daughter at 20! Easy pregnancy, gained only 28lbs, lost it in two months, barely any stretch marks, great recovery, no difficulties during pregnancy, even had her 100% natural. I am going to be 28 and me and my husband want a baby boy and well gosh, I am freaked to be pregnant again because I am so much older now & fear so much. Do you know if it is a much higher risk at 28 then 20?

Michelle answers:

The risk would be lower because your body is more mature but anything can happen….also the more kids you have the shorter the labor unless there is a complication

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Book

Richard asks…

I have some questions from a quiz im really struggling with.. Child development.?

Ok, so i have a 65 question quiz and there is some problems that i cannot find anywhere ( i can’t afford to buy the book so next time i know to go to school and rent it) but for now i have to do it online, so if you could answer them or steer me in the right direction that would be greatly appreciated thanks!

Males are more likely than females to be negatively affected by X-linked disorders because

a. the Y chromosome lacks many corresponding alleles to override those carried on the X chromosome.

b. the Y chromosome is much longer than the X chromosome.

c. their sex chromosomes match.

d. males are more likely than females to inherit recessive alleles.

16. A major weakness of the information-processing perspective is that

a. nonlinear aspects of cognition, such as creativity and imagination, are overemphasized.

b. it has had difficulty developing a comprehensive theory of cognitive development.

c. investigators have failed to study cognition under rigorous experimental conditions.

d. it is not relevant to the processing of social information.

33.
The case of PKU demonstrates that

a. serious inherited disorders are more often due to dominant than to recessive genes.

b. most inherited disabilities and disorders are untreatable.

c. even if we know the genetic makeup of the parents, it is difficult to predict the likelihood that children in a family will display a disorder.

d. changes in the environment can alter the extent to which an inherited disorder influences a person’s well-being.

34.
Males are more likely than females to be negatively affected by X-linked disorders because

a. the Y chromosome lacks many corresponding alleles to override those carried on the X chromosome.

b. the Y chromosome is much longer than the X chromosome.

c. their sex chromosomes match.

d. males are more likely than females to inherit recessive alleles.

35.
Studies of sex differences show that

a. rates of learning disabilities and mental retardation are higher among males than females.

b. rates of miscarriage, infant death, and birth defects are higher among females than males.

c. worldwide, approximately equal numbers of males and females are conceived.

d. worldwide, about 115 girls are born for every 100 boys.

61.
How did childbirth customs change after the industrial revolution?

a. More children were born at home than in hospitals.

b. The focus of childbirth expanded to include family and friends.

c. Doctors assumed primary responsibility, so women’s knowledge of birthing procedures and family participation declined.

d. The return to natural childbirth increased and fewer women required medication during delivery.

38.
Research on sex chromosome disorders show that

a. males with XYY syndrome are more aggressive and antisocial than are XY males.

b. most children with these disorders suffer from mental retardation.

c. females with a missing X chromosome often have trouble with spatial relationships.

d. verbal difficulties are common among females who are missing an X chromosome.

39.
According to ecological systems theory, the behaviors of each family member affect those of others. This represents the concept of __________ influences.

a. predetermined

b. universal

c. learned

d. bidirectional

51.
About __________ percent of zygotes do not survive the first two weeks of pregnancy.

a. 30

b. 15

c. 5

d. 1

Michelle answers:

Have you tried looking on line for reference info?

Http://www.google.com/search?q=xy+chromosomes&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a

Lisa asks…

Why do women think their sexual pasts are comparable to those of men?

This is a text book “apples vs. oranges comparison”

There are very often far greater risks for women to engage in sex, be it physical (pregnancy, higher chance of STD’s), emotional (tend toward placing more value on it) or social (bad reputation vs. men who are thought more highly of, often by women)

Also, it is much more of an “accomplishment” for a man to get casual sex from a woman than vice versa based on womens natural sexual advantages.

Lastly it’s universally understood that men tend to be more interested in “spreading their seed” while women are more given “to nest”. So these women are generally going against biology while men are going with it.

There are other examples of how this is different, although these are more than sufficent. Still, how can anyone, especially women, honestly believe comparing sexual pasts between men and women is the same thing? It would be like comparing bench press strength or some such……
Grappler – that is poor math skills right there buddy…..
You Can’t Handle – please explain…I don’t understand what you are saying.
Professor – basically you just admited that you are letting some sort of personal bias against me, blind you to the logical points i have made? Since you don’t agree with me on an opinion, you can’t accept facts? That’s quite sad for you….also arrogant to think your opinion is somehow superior to mine. Considering I have been raped, one could argue MY perspective on the subject is more informed….
Arlo – many women have died giving birth…I have never known of a man who died from it.
Professor – I noticed your addition – please point out where in anyway I suggested women had no right with regard to who they sleep with? THAT my dear is a textbook logical fallacy on your part
Helena – your arguement was simply point by point not accepting facts. There are more STD’s that women are more prone to contract than men. This is fact. Also, perhaps you did not understand what I meant when I used quotes around the word accomplishment. I don’t you could seriously say it’s anywhere near as easy for average men to get sex as it is average women. If you truly believe that, I would suggest you get out of the house a little more and into the real world. Also, just totatlly dismissing thousands of years of biological history is incredibly silly on your part, and really hurts your case further.
Helena – your argument started terrible and went downhill from there….by the way this is NOT a circular argument:

“its harder for men to get sex because many women choose to abstain so that’s an accomplishment”. That is like saying the offense is tring to score a goal and the defense is trying to stop them. if they score it IS an accomplishment, you silly goose!

Michelle answers:

Why would any man want a woman that has been promiscuous and slept around?

Chris asks…

Can some one please help with my question…..last one didn’t get listed?

Hi ladies!

how is everyone feeling?….I am 31 weeks now and am awaiting a scan tomorrow (tuesday) to check out all of the happenings. I have antenatal appt thursday to book my c section based on the finding of the scan.
my boy seems healthy and hopefully the placenta has moved up and away from my previous c section scars!..i have had some bleeding over the last week so im a bit stressed about it!

so my question is…
Is anyone waiting to find out when your c section is to be done? and are you having any problems with bleeding at all?…also if you are/were what was/is the outcome?

FYI..My c sections have been done for medical reasons and if i were able to decide for my self i WOULD most definitely be having a natural birth!..lol

Any info in regards to any thing i have said today would be lovely…Thanks Ladies & good luck with the pregnancy and TTC.
xxx

Michelle answers:

Hi! I can’t answer your question, because I’m not pregnant, but I have 3 kids, and the first two were both c-sections. Yay for VBA2C’s!! LOL

I never had any bleeding problems, mine were done for breech, and then a repeat. But, I just wanted to wish you good luck. Bummer that you don’t get to go the natural route, it’s amazing!

Susan asks…

Breech baby and a C Section?

I am 36 weeks and 1 day. The baby is frank breech. I read in one of the baby books that I have that the chances of the baby moving now is low to none. The doctor said that if she does not flip by week 38 or 39 they will schedule a C Section. Right now with the baby the way she is I can barely to anything. It hurts to breathe and its a constant pain where her head is sticking out. Do you think if I ask at my next appt, I will be 27 weeks, if they can just go ahead and schedule one if she is still breech they will do one? It is my first pregnancy and wanter a natural delivery but I can not go through this pain much longer.

Michelle answers:

Well, 38 weeks is considered term. It is best to try to hang in there until then. My son was born at 36 weeks via c section due to preeclampsia and unsuccessful induction. The risks then were underdeveloped lungs and sucking reflex not developed properly. His lungs were ok but the sucking reflex was an issue with breastfeeding. Just hang in there! Also, my c section was very easy to recover from. I was sore but getting around quite well within a couple of days.

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Thomas asks…

Question about boobs….i know…weird…tmi?

ok..there a very good chance i could be pregnant right now but it is too early to test. So, I was wondering….I have very big blue/green/purple looking veins on my boobs, my nipples/areolas are brown and i can see the veins clearly though them. My boobs are also very achy when i touch them. I am 7-10DPO. Im not sure if theyve gotten bigger bc i am already a d cup, maybe a little heavier.

Would there be any reason this would happen if I wasn’t pregnant?

(back story…Had a natural miscarriage at 5 weeks on oct 5 no D&C HCG was less than 2 days later, felt like I ovulated around the 24, it was my second pregnancy, i also have a 2.5 yr old)
lol not sging im sure, im only 22

Michelle answers:

Those symptoms could be that of pregnancy or period trying to start. So hard to say this early. Take a test as early as 5 days before expected period or wait until you miss a period.
OB/GYN RN & mom

Donna asks…

Are Social Networking Sites Making The New Generation of Teens Retarded?

It seems that with a rise in technology, a rise in annoyance comes with teenagers. Facebook, Myspace, whatever are truly ruining kids now-a-days. It is completely natural to be confused and curious when you are a teen, but now they have other teenagers posting garbage all over the net that adds to their confuse. I look at some of these answers on her about stuff like teen pregnancy, and the answers are from a 17 year old to a 14 year old, trying to “school” them on life since they are “much older” 🙂 I think social networking sites are destroying teenagers. When I was a kid, I had to ask adults for answers, or look at books, not listen to clueless teens on the internet. Everything seems so shallow in these current times, and our kids are growing up just as shallow. Shallowness leads to annoyance. I can’t even fathom the idea of bringing a kid into this world because they all seem so stupid and numb. Sometimes, finding things out through experience is a good thing, but now they can just watch videos and live vicariously through other teens they see on the net…its f’in crazy. Anyone agree with this point? Anyone disagree? Please, adults only.

Michelle answers:

Sorry not an adult, but i’m a teenager, and as the last person said I do have the right to voice my opinion. It’s sometimes harder to talk to adults, and rather then not get the answer at all teens turn to the internet. Honestly even in real life I turn to my older friends for help rather then a adult, because its easier to talk to them at the same level. The thing is though, each generation probably says the same thing about the ‘new’ generation. The generation before you probably thought that your generation was shallow because they thought that you relied on answers from Tv shows. You are stereotyping all teenagers, believe me we are not all shallow.

Also the fact that you are using words like retarded is an insult to many people and the fact that your calling all teenagers names like ‘retarded’ makes your point seem ridiculous.

Carol asks…

Wwhat could medically be wrong with my 3 month old premature baby?

My daughter was seen by a doc and i was told her head was big which it has grown almost 5 inches since birth shes 3 month’s what could this be and the doc said she has reflux bad could her throwing up be caused from her head she was born no meds natural 6 wks early. I was taking zoloft during the beginning of my pregnancy without knowing i was pregnant a k before i got pregnant i had a miscarriage i had a shot several times to hold off labor starting at my fifth month of pregnancy could this of effected her if not what could be wrong with her head

Michelle answers:

It sounds like it could be hydrocephalus which is fluid on the brain. That fluid drains down which could be what is causing her to spit up so much. What they do to repair this is a brain surgery inserting a shunt to drain that fluid. I know it sounds much scarier than it is. She is young yet, so with the surgery her outlook for life looks great. It is hard to know what causes these things.

Laura asks…

im 21 yrs old ad my period is late?

my last period was the 22nd of july up to the 26 july witch is normally how long my period lasts then on the 3rd august to the 5 august i bled again witch is very unusual. i was supposed to start my period on the 22nd of august so im 7 days late with no sign of it showing up. i have sore boobs and bloating and need to pee more often i have done 2 pregnancy tests but they are negative. i have never bled between periods and i am not normally late for my period either. the only time i have been late was in april i was 16 days late for my period when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant sadly i had a natural miscarriage 5 days later and my period returned to normal. when i took the pregnancy tests in april there was a very faint line but the doctors confirmed i was pregnant.but the 2 i have done now are saying negative.sorry if im rambling im just very confused
i think i will ask for a urine test instead lol as i hate needles
thanks daniel thats what i was thinking by next week if i am pregnant i will be 6wks so i might have that faint line like last time. its just so hard playing the waiting game as i want a baby so much but im not wanting to get my hopes up after the miscarriage 🙁
thanks back to the drawing board

Michelle answers:

What kind of test are you using? I swear the blue line tests suck! I would try a digital or a pink line test (first response). It could be a very faint positive. Also, about the needles–if you are indeed preggo, they are going to do a few blood draws :/ GL.

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