Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Remedies

Mary asks…

Holistic Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Childcare Resources?

I am looking for websites, books, movies, etc. on holistic pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare. So far, I have only found two websites and a handful of books. If anyone could lead me toward more resources on natural pregnancy and childbirth I would be so grateful. Things such as homeopathic remedies, alternative medicines, as well as unconventional pregnancy and child care.

Thanks!

Michelle answers:

Check out the Bradley method. They advocate intervention-free birth.

John asks…

Really bad pregnancy sickness help?

hey, my mum has been having really bad sickness from being pregnant all day every day, it’s really bad and she refuses to go to the doctors about it she says it will pass but she’s had it for about a month now, she’s just over 2 months gone i’m also worried as she previously had an eating disorder and it’s making me paranoid.. Anyone have any natural remedies ect help please!? Thanks x

Michelle answers:

I had rich tea or ginger biscuits in the morning before i got up, rich tea worked a little for me but it might not with everyone. She should go to the doctors if it’s really bad

Ruth asks…

pregnancy – nausea for a working lady?

hi.
i am a working laday and in my 7th week of pregnancy. i do not have vomitting but i do feel tired the whole day… i feel very very sleepy too. is there any natural remedy to get rid of this as i am unable to concentrate on my work at office.

Michelle answers:

It’s very common to feel excessively tired early in pregnancy. It’s your body adapting to the change in hormones. Be sure to eat a good breakfast, and try to enjoy some light exercise in the morning. That should help wake you up, and keep you energized.

George asks…

what is natural remedy for morning sickness-what is ‘normal’ length/timing of sickness period?

19yr old @ 4 months – 1st pregnancy

Michelle answers:

Most women get over their morning sickness after the first trimester; but some continue the entire pregnancy. Be careful with natural remedies when pregnant; but, ginger is a natural remedy that has been used “safely” for years and years. Also, try getting plenty of protein before going to sleep. I used to make myself eat a couple of crackers with peanut butter or some cheddar cheese (I ready somewhere that the protein would stick with you longer, resulting in a decreased risk for morning sickness). I also kept a pack of saltine crackers at my bedside, when I woke up in the morning, I would eat 3 or 4 and wait a couple of minutes before getting up.
Hope this helps! Good luck!

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Your Questions About Natural Remedies Pregnancy Sickness

Paul asks…

Ideas to ease morning sickness?

I am almost 8 weeks pregnant. This is my second pregnancy and I have severe morning sickness. The first time around, I think I felt nauseated maybe 2 or 3 times. With this pregnancy, I feel sick all day, every day. I have tried those pregnancy pops, this natural “morning sickness” tea, and ginger ale. They seem to help temporarily but I am in desperate need of some relief. I have a 3 yr old and I feel terrible because I am moping around all day. I also haven’t made an actual real dinner in a week. The smell of food and just standing up for any period of time makes it too hard.

If anyone has had any luck with other remedies I would be very grateful.

Michelle answers:

I know that people suggested Saltine crackers and that made me sick every time I tried it. The only thing that helped me was nibbling on animal crackers throughout the day!!!

I hope you feel better! Just remember the end result!

Donald asks…

Having an abortion due to severe morning sickness?

I’d like to start out with this is NOT me, and it’s no one I know close or personally, it’s about an interesting article I read a while ago, and I’m currently searching for the link (with no luck! But still searching).

A woman, in her late 20’s is married with a 2 year old son. With her first pregnancy (which was planned), she experience minimal morning sickness, throwing up a few times a week, but it was bearable .
She and her husband planned a second child, but with the second pregnancy, she experience morning sickness so bad she was throwing up up to 27 times a day, that’s more than once an hour.

She tried every conceivable medical and natural remedy, with absolutely nothing working. She was admitted to hospital every 2 days, due to dehydration and significant drop in weight. She had no family close, and so her 2 year old son would have to accompany her on her hospital visits. The husband works away, a 2 weeks working, 2 weeks home sort of deal, and was unable to take of time he needed, when he eventually did manage to take time off, he lost his job, and they were unable to afford their health insurance. They were able to apply for emergency insurance, but in that gap still managed to rack up a hospital bill of thousands.

Due to being so sick, and unable to care for her first child, she with doctors encouragement chose to have an abortion.

I’m not here saying I agree, or disagree with her choice, and I’m not necessarily asking people to say she was right or wrong, but what do you think you would do in the situation?
If I remember correctly the abortion was done at around 14 weeks, after the 12 week ‘cut off’ which made the story more controversial.
She tried waiting until 12 weeks with doctors saying the sickness may ease up, obviously to no avail.

And I am not here to thumbs up, or thumbs down anyone I agree or disagree with, I’m just interest to know opinions!

Michelle answers:

I was really sick during my pregnancy too. But in the end it was all worth it. She still had all the bills and no doubt later losing her child will seem worse then the medical bills.

Daniel asks…

combination of B6 and unisom to fight Morning sickness?

has anyone used this remedy? I just got off the phone with my doctors office and this is what they are suggesting I take to help as a first step if it doesn’t work she will prescribe zofran in the morning… I’m a little worried about taking it.

FYI this is my 3rd pregnancy morning sickness with my first to made me loose 10 lbs the first time and 5lbs with my 2nd… no weight gain till almost 20weeks. I’m familar with all the old school natural remedys and have used all of them and nothing is working.

Michelle answers:

I have heard of this combination, but have not used it myself. Just be careful as Unisom is a sleep aid so it will make you tired.

Good luck!

Michael asks…

I am miserable with this pregnancy symptom! Please help?

I am 13 weeks pregnant and the gas/bloating is still terrible. Sometimes I’m so bloated and uncomfortable and ill feeling, that I cannot eat dinner at night and just go to bed with a belly full of air. I have tried:

1. Beano and Gas-X – no relief at all
2. Exercise to get things moving
3. Eating small meals throughout the day
4. Cutting out fried foods
5. Wearing loose clothes and staying upright after meals

Nothing is working. And please don’t tell me to avoid certain other foods b/c with my morning sickness my doctor just told me to eat what I can.

Does anyone have ANY other remedy I haven’t tried?? Other natural enzymes besides Beano that might work? I am in misery!

Michelle answers:

I am feeling this way, too. My midwife suggested papaya enzymes so I’m going to try that.

Also, you might be more sensitive to dairy, even if you normally aren’t when not pregnant. Try cutting back on (not eliminating) dairy for just one day and see if that makes a difference.

If you are drinking carbonated beverages like Sprite or 7-up (to ease morning sickness) keep them cold in the fridge and let them go flat before drinking. That will greatly reduce feelings of bloating.

Last of all, check your posture. I know it sounds weird, but if you tend to slouch a lot this can cramp and slow down the bowels trapping gas in your belly. Even if you are tired or feeling sick, make sure you have good posture whenever you are sitting or standing.

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Products

Daniel asks…

products during pregnany?

i decided thanks to all ur lovely feedback to use johnsons baby shampoo and baby soap (while im pregnant) my normal cleanser but no scrub or toner cos they both contain salacylic acid. instead decided to use cucumber juice as a toner and make my own natural scrub. and coco butter as a body lotion. NO DEODRANT can someone advise me on a conditioner that s safe and natural during pregnancy. has anyone heard of LUSH. they make alot of products. that are natural. they are probably safe?

Michelle answers:

Check out this website: www.cosmeticsdatabase.com

Someone posted in over in Newborn & Baby yesterday and it is awesome. It rates products on a safe scale of 0-9. I use the Johnsons products on my son and FREAKED out to find the are a 6 on the scale. They contain pthalates and parabens, which are dangerous chemicals. There has been a bunch of stuff in the news lately about them. So it is nice to find some safe products not only for you, but for your baby when they are born!

Betty asks…

Good organic products to use during pregnancy?

I’ve found some decent shampoo and conditioner (Giovanni) and some natural almond soap that I use instead of bodywash and facewash but does anyone know of any other organic products that are actually good and don’t smell terrible? I’m having a hard time finding things that don’t smell like patchoulli or leave my hair looking like a broomstick.
I have heard of Weleda products but never tried them.
Thanks for the suggestions. I have tried Jason’s products. I have also tried burt’s bees and like some of their products (lotions, lip balm) but their hair products and soaps are not very good, in my opinion.
Also, their belly butter has a lot of vitamin A, as does Weleda’s belly cream. Not sure why they didn’t leave this out, as it seems to be quite controversial.
dcsavak- thanks for the skinorganics suggestion. never heard of them but I will check it out.

Michelle answers:

Weleda is good, and so are Jason and Tom’s of Maine. I love Burt’s Bees, and the smell is much milder than most natural stuff. For skin care, I love Skin Organics (www.skinorganics.com). Cheaper than department store stuff and far better.

Mark asks…

Products of conception after natural miscarriage?

We got pregnant straight on our first month of ttc, started to spot on 5-6 week and finally was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage around 10th week of my pregnancy. I opted to take nature it course and finally miscarried on 31 jan 2011.I had to go to A&E coz of massive bleeding. They did u/s next day to say that womb is empty. But i am still showing + on HPT almost 10 days after miscarriage and very very nausea ed all the time long. no high temperature though. GP says I have no infection and sent me back with pack of antibiotics. I m still wondering if i do retain products of conception yet? If yes, what are the symptoms should I look for ?Since it is very hard to get line up again for u/s and see a doctor what should i do to confirm things?

Michelle answers:

It can take a little while for your HCG hormones to reach Zero. So the + is not surprising. This site explains the biology of it all. It helped me understand my bleeding/cycles after my miscarriages. Even though the ultrasound found nothing in your uterus, there still could be microscopic bits that just take a cycle to really flush out. They do a number on your hormone levels too.
I’m very sorry! Takes a bit of time to get over the heartache.

Http://www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm

Lisa asks…

How careful should you be with your beauty routine during pregnancy?

HI all! I am freaking out a little bit here and could use some advice! A friend of mine recommended Arbonne products to me for use during pregnancy because they are advertised as being made from “all natural products.” I have been using a couple of different face creams from Arbonne because I thought it was safe. However, it just came to my attention that these products both contain retinal acetate and retinal palmitate. What amount, I am not sure. There are a lot of ingredients listed on a web page I found while researching. Oh my gosh!! I am in a panic! I know retinoids are to be avoided and I thought I was doing that, but come to find out these ingredients fall under that category. Have I done harm to my baby? I am 10 weeks pregnant. I only used the creams on my face. I have only been using them for a couple of weeks, and I didn’t use them every day. I used them every other day. Obviously now, I have stopped using them altogether. Please advise!! Thanks so much!!

Michelle answers:

There is no evidence that face creams effect an unborn baby. Your baby is fine.

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy After 50

Susan asks…

I used eucalyptus and peppermint in pregnancy?

My wife is 4 weeks pregnant. Yesterday she was having lower back pains and she asked me to massage her. We found online that massage with eucalyptus oil is good for back pain. We thought it’s natural so let’s do it. We have something called Olbas Oil at home. That’s a brand name. In it there’s 50% peppermint oil, 25% eucalyptus oil, and 25% cajeput oil. It can be used for colds and for massage. So I applied it to my wife on her lower back. She said it feels great. It causes a warmth. So I applied more and it ended up being quite a lot. After 10 minutes she said the burning sensation is too much and worried if this kind of heat is bad for pregnancy. She said the heat feeling was all over her torso. So we looked up eucalyptus oil and pregnancy. (Before we had only looked up back pain and eucalyptus oil.) We got scared to see that it is something to definitely stay away from in pregnancy. Ingesting, massaging, and inhaling are not recommended. From what I read, these “essential oils” can induce cramps, menstruation, and labour. Eucalyptus oil is also toxic. So there is concern that while the adult mother can handle the toxicity, the fetus can’t. We got really worried and my wife jumped into the shower and washed it all off. After the shower she felt much better.
She didn’t get any cramps, thank God. So we are not worried about the contraction-stimulating effects anymore, because it just didn’t happen and we will avoid the oil in the future. But we are worried about any effects that we can’t observe. What if there were some toxic side effects to the baby?

Michelle answers:

You are right that it is highly toxic. It’s toxic to babies and adults and not recommended for use in pregnancy. However it is mostly only a risk if it is ingested. There is a small risk from using it on the skin but it isn’t something you should let worry you. She washed it off and hopefully didn’t ingest any. The heat it caused wouldn’t be any kind of risk. Just keep an eye on her and if she feels fine then baby should be fine too. If however she does start to get cramps or feel ill then it’s best to speak to your GP. Even then period like cramps are normal in early pregnancy so you still shouldn’t panic.

Sandra asks…

Why don’t more women do a natural child birth?

My girlfriend is entering her third trimester and we have been doing months of research into the best delivery methods and found that going 100% natural is the best way to deliver the baby for both mom and the baby. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, which is part of the Department of Health and Human Services, over 25% of all U.S. births have been accomplished by Caesarean section, and roughly 50% of those where unnecessary. As well as Episiotomies are done about 90% of the time, and they are only necessary less than 1% of the time. Why are women subjecting their bodies to this kind of mutilation?

Also, women are told encouraged to stay away from drugs throughout the coarse of the pregnancy, but once the contractions start, there aren’t enough drugs we can pump into them. Research shows that within seconds of the mother receiving these drugs, the baby has them as well. These drugs have shown to cause depression of fetal breathing and decreased responsiveness in newborns. The babies are less alert and less vigorous in nursing, and these drugs have been detected in babies weeks after birth. Also, the women I’ve spoken to, or read about, who had the drugs and C-sections and/or other “current medical assistance” with their birth said it was the most painful event in their lives, and moms that had natural childbirths describe their experiences as “beautiful”, “memorable”, “incredible”, or some kind of positive comment. Let’s say that at the time of delivery you are 175lbs, and your baby is born at roughly 7lbs. You are 25 times the size of your baby. Any drug that is given to you is dozed for your size and body mass. That dosage is 25 times larger to your infant unborn baby while it is still inside of you!
I know the dosage is much smaller once it does get to the baby, but it is still an overdose to the child. I am not suggesting in taking away a womens right to decide, that’s up to her, she is the one who has to go through this experience. I am not trying to offend anyone, I’m only asking why aren’t more women getting educated on all the options, and just falling back on their doctor to pump them full of drugs and cut them open like a turkey and pull out the baby? (Sorry for the analogy). For countless centuries women did births naturally, when we did we as humans decide that nature didn’t work anymore? I understand that complications happen and thank god for doctors. I’m only asking here ladies, I’m not preaching anything.

Michelle answers:

Would you believe, one of the main reasons is peer pressure? None of their friends had natural birth, so they don’t want to be considered odd. Also, a lot of hospitals strongly discourage or don’t even allow natural birth so the baby has to be born in a birth center or at home. I had four natural births using the Bradley method and I don’t know anyone locally who had a completely natural birth. I had to really hunt for a doctor who was in favor of natural birth and supported my wishes. My babies were born in the birth center because the hospitals around here will not even admit you unless you agree to having the electronic fetal monitor. I never had it. I did not want it because of the risks involved. The electronic fetal monitor is statistically shown not to decrease the infant mortality rate, but it triples the c-sec rate. A feta scope is just as reliable and does not give false alarms.

Betty asks…

NATURAL INDUCING ?? – Im 38 weeks & 2 days pregnant . I went to the doctor today and im not dilated yet?

He says my cervix is barely thinning . Due to finding out this past weekend that i have developed PREGNANCY rash !! (* ughhhh !*) ….. OMG !- THE WORST FEELING EVER !) . .
HE SCHEDULED ME TO BE INDUCED ON MONDAY ! (in 6 days ) … Does anyone have any ADVICE AS TO HOW 2 THIN OUT MY CERVIX ?..
OR GET MYSELF TO NATURALLY START DILATING ??
HE SAYS THAT THERES A 50% chance that if after Inducing Labor that i can possibly end up having a C-SECTION ! (DUE TO NOT BEING RIPE)

I WANT 2 AVOID THAT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE … AND I WANT 2 DO ANYTHING I CAN 2 MAKE SURE I HAVE A SAFE AND NOT SO COMPLICATED DELIVERY…
I have Been looking up different methods but it’s all the same .
( PRIM ROSE OIL, CASTOR OIL, & SEX ) …

(Im kinda weirded out about trying that Castor oil… =/ I know that there can be a side effect of the baby possibly having a B.M. )
I DONT WANT 2 DO ANYTHING THAT CAN MAKE MINE OR MY BABYS SITUATION WORSE.
SO, ANYBODY HAVE ANY ANSWERS ??? =)
THANK YOU !!

Michelle answers:

I’ve heard of certain pressure points on you feet and hands working for a lot of over due women, and a found a great website.

Mandy asks…

TTC #1 with PCOS.. Any assurance?

My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, and we are trying to conceive our first. Last year around January I was told that I had PCOS, but I brushed it off thinking it was just a fancy name for whatever insignificant thing it was that has caused me to go 9 months without a period. I was prescribed provera for 10 days and then told to start Desogen, which was my birth control pill I had taken up until July 09. Ive had a period every month, not exactly like clockwork but they were anywhere from 28 days apart to the last which was 46 days. Last month I almost swore I was pregnant, I felt ill just thinking about food, my period was late, I felt bloated, dizzy and tired. Then I started experiencing what I thought was implantation bleeding as it was just brown discharge which isnt normal for me, so I scheduled an apt where I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I had taken 2 prior to the apt with morning urine and of course they were negative so I was really hoping that it was just too soon. The brown discharge lasted for about 6 days with only very slight traces of actual blood. Ive been taking b6 b12 and folic acid. Ive spent rediculous amounts of money on ovulation tests , a bbt thermometer and pregnancy tests. I know that I need to slow down and calm myself, but ever since reading up on pcos, ive been frantic, afraid that I wont be able to concieve. I figured out that when you have pcos sometimes you do not ovulate, which is why I spent 50 bucks on a pack of o.p.k’s. Well, the morning after I purchased them, I tested my urine and it came back positive, well i was ECSTATIC! I nearly fainted. I did my research and according to my findings, women with pcos often get false positives from the opks! I was pissed for the lack of a better word.

I have an apt thursday with an ob/gyn and Im nervous. Ive been going to the same doc since I was 16. I dont know what to say or ask. I know that clomid and metformin are often prescribed for women who cannot ovulate. They told me on the phone that they would run some tests to see what the problem is. I informed them that the clinic i was using told me I had pcos. What kind of test will they run? Is it possible that they could prescribe me either of these medicines on my first visit? I dont want to spend most of my pregnancy in a doctors office is why I am asking. I am very interested in natural pregnancies but the chances of myself conceiving without a little help look a little slim. Does anyone have any info that will ease my spastic behavior? Thanks!

Michelle answers:

Hello Dear,

I can understand that you would be very anxious under those circumstances, really wanting to conceive, and being nervous with what you have been reading about PCOS.

I have a very close friend who conceived two beautiful children through the use of gonadotrophins. She has PCOS. I hope that I can offer some suggestions that might help calm your nerves about your doctor’s visit, based on her experience, and also my own experience with infertility.

First of all, I can think of some things that are really in your favor for conceiving:

1) You have a good sense of what the problem is in why you are not getting pregnant. For many people they don’t know why they aren’t conceiving and because of that it’s very difficult to come up with solutions to help them.

2) There are some very effective medical treatments for PCOS. The published ovulation rate for women with PCOS on Clomid is 46%, 76% when combined with metformin and 95% with gonadoptrophins! There are other treatments as well, if these don’t work.

3) You are taking action by becoming informed and doing things like taking your b vitamins and folic acid (smart choices!) Your own passion to find ways to be effective in conceiving will help you be a good team with your doctors in finding the best treatment for you.

Now, a few words about your appointment…

1) I’m not sure what tests they will give you, but I’m guessing it will probably be blood tests to measure your levels of LH and FSH to see if you are ovulating.

2) I don’t think that they will prescribe any medicines for you on your first visit because they will probably want to wait to see the results of your tests.

3) I’m hearing you don’t want to spend most of your pregnancy at the doctor’s office and that is very understandable. You may need to go frequently until you conceive, but once you are pregnant and through the first trimester, your visits will likely slow down, as long as everything is on track.

4) What to ask the doctor? My suggestion would be to get clear about what you want. It sounds like you really want to conceive. And I think your best chance to do that is through medical treatment, because although some people do conceive naturally with PCOS, it is much much harder. So, if it were me, I would be clear that I want to get a treatment for PCOS as soon as possible to help me conceive. That would be what I would tell my doctor.

I hope that there may have been something about any of this that might help calm your nerves. Overcoming infertility is definitely a journey. When you finally hold your baby in your arms and look into their eyes, they will know that they were really really wanted.

This comes with a huge hug…

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Your Questions About Natural Remedies In Pregnancy

Charles asks…

How is melatonin used as birth control?

I’ve read in several natural remedy books that melatonin can be used as an effective method of birth control. Is there anyone out there who can explain how melatonin should be taken to prevent pregnancy, and if it is indeed effective?

Michelle answers:

I’ve only heard it used as a sleep aid.

Maybe it makes you too sleepy for sex.

😉

Maria asks…

Pregnancy and Homeopathic Nasal Spray?

Does anyone know if taking Quercetin chalcone and Euphorbium while pregnant is safe? It’s supposed to be an all natural remedy for alergies and I was told by someone who has a degree in Biology it’s safe. I have been taking it for 2 days now but am getting worried. It’s supposed to be homeopathic. Please no pasting from the internet, thanks.

Michelle answers:

If it is truely homeopathic, then you have nothing to worry about. Plain water won’t hurt you.

Jenny asks…

home remedy to get pregnancy ladies please help:(?

I was told by my doctor that i am not ovulating due to high male hormones and im just a little overweight not to big I only weight like 155 pound and there are other overweight girls who get pregnant very easily. In my case i have a 6 yr old daughter and my husband and i are thinking that it is time for another one but my doc insist that I NEED TO LOSE WEIGH AND PUT ME ON BIRTH CONTROL PILL i dont need it cause i want to get pregnant should he go the opposite way. This was first cause due to irregular periods and he diagnosed me with ovary syndrome.,.IS there A CURE FOR THIS maybe a home remedy I don’t want to have treatments to have a baby I want this to be natural way a suprise to everyone :help(()))))

Michelle answers:

How long have you been trying for a baby? Cos, on average it takes 18 months to concieve, so . . .

PCOS eases with wieght loss and by eating more healthily. Starflower oil and evening primose oil (taken orally I think around 1000mg per day – or thats what I took) helps to establish a mor regular hormone cycle.

I have similar ovary probs but be warned: As soon as I come off the pill (or as soon as it;s out my system, which by the way can be some time, about 6 months – this will also slow down concieving) my cycle goes back to normal and within a few months I’m haivng gyne probs again. . .

Good luck thou!!

Susan asks…

Coughing during pregnancy?

im 33weeks in my pregnancy and i’ve been coughing for a week now. my last check up indicated that my lungs were clear. i think this has something to do with my throat coz my phegm is yellow/greenish. i’ve been coughing the whole day and it worstens in the evening. i dont want to take in medication coz im afraid this might affect my baby. can anyone suggest a natural remedy? does the coughing affect my baby and her hear rate? thanks

Michelle answers:

Have you tried hot tea w/ lemon or honey?

Medicine that you can use Vicks Vapor Rub

Johnson & Johnson Vapor Bath – pour a capful in your tub and inhale the steams (helps for congestion to!)

I think the baby will be ok – but if you have any concerns, its best to call your dr.

Best to check it out and not let it get worse.

Feel better!

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Your Questions About Oldest Age For Natural Pregnancy

George asks…

partner’s mother is being unfair about my pregnancy?

i am 21 and my boyfriend turns 18 in two weeks. it felt so natural for us to have a baby together. we have enough money and enough support. the only big problem is his mother. she’s pushing me over the edge. i have a diagnosis of aspergers syndrome and i feel like she discriminates me in a very sneaky way. i am at a college with my partner called ruskin mill and it supports people with special needs. i live independently and i have my own flat with minimal support. i pay for everything except rent which is housing benefit and i hardly ever see support workers. i have anxiety problems, but since i’ve been pregnant i feel focused on being a mum and i’m pretty happy with the idea but my partners mother is really hurting me. she said that ruskin mill is full of retards and she also said that it would be better for everyone if i had an abortion. i mentioned to her that she had a baby at my age but she then said that she didn’t have people looking after her. i said that it would be murder to kill my baby, she called it just a group of cells. i said something like ‘did you feel like that when you were pregnant?’ and she put the phone down on me. she says horrible things about me behind my back and when she’s on the phone to my partner she says nasty things about me and when i grab the phone to tell her to stop she claims that i am butting into the conversation. she says things to my boyfriend like ‘she can still miscarry’ like she wants it to happen. when i go round my partner’s mum’s house she never speaks to me and just gives me sour looks then she says to my partner that i am rude for not talking to her. she says things to him like ‘you look ill, have you been eating?’ and then looks at me as though i am making him miserable. me and my partner had an upsetting argument this morning about her. i said that i didn’t trust her enough to let her see the baby. i said the rest of his family are perfectly okay, but his mother told me bluntly that she didn’t care for or respect me. i said that she would have to take that back and apologies first. i’m worried about how her feelings towards me could effect the child if she sees the baby with the attitude she has now. not to mention how low she makes me feel. i called her a sour old prune and said that i wished that she would go into an old folks home, i also called her a bully. i said a few things i shouldn’t have. my partner yelled at me and said that he’d make me have an abortion and i slapped him around the face. 2 friends of ours were there and they told him he was being mean. he kept hugging me and apologizing to me and he said that the slap ‘turned him on’. i told him that right then i felt alone and like it’s just me and the baby. he said that wasn’t true. later on that day we forgot about it and had a nice time, but i’m still hurt. i’m pregnant and i’m very emotional right now and i just want my partner to look after me. he does in every other way and sorry if this sounds wrong but i hate it how he keeps on defending his mother. he doesn’t even have a good relationship with her and she’s treating everyone like shit. she’s getting away with murder.
i would’t call him a mummys boy. he left home cos of her and to be with me and he does tell her mildly to stop being mean, but he doesn’t treat it like a big deal.
he used to be a bit more firm with her before, but she started getting moody because of it and made family life hell.

Michelle answers:

I would tell your boyfriend that if he ever expects his mother to have a relationship with your child, then he needs to man up to her and tell her to stop treating you this way. If he says anything about it, just explain the fact that you don’t want a woman who sees your child as “a bunch of cells” to have negative psychological effects on your child.

Carol asks…

mommy survey?

okay just a little survey for mommys. thought it would be fun!!

PREGNANCY:
age: 19

due date: jan 31,2007

morning sickness: yes ..more like all day sickness

how did you find out: took a HPT and got a positive

were you happy about it: yes we were very excited.

LABOR:
induced ,c -section or natural: induced at 41 weeks

how long was labor: 30+hrs

BABY:
boy or girl: boy

name: Kaden Michael

weight/hight: 8lbs 11oz 21 inches

how old is the child now: 17 mos

favorite thing about being a mommy: showing my son about the world and watching his eyes light up when he discovers something new.

Michelle answers:

PREGNANCY:
age: 28

due date: Nov. 30th 2007

morning sickness: not much actual throwing up, but miserably sick feeling almost the entire pregnancy

how did you find out: decided to not use protection starting with our wedding night, ended up getting pregnant approx. 5 days later which was the day before my period should have started. I knew something was up, but it took almost 2 weeks later to finally get a positive HPT (I think I took a total of like 15 tests before I got a positive one)

were you happy about it: thrilled! But scared b/c we had a miscarriage the previous August

LABOR:
induced ,c -section or natural: non-emergency, but medically necessary c-section 2 days before my due date

how long was labor: no labor…. FABULOUS!!

BABY:
boy or girl: boy

name: Kale Erickson

weight/hight: 7lbs 15oz 20inches

how old is the child now: almost 7 1/2 months

favorite thing about being a mommy: knowing that you created something so beautiful and so perfect

Mary asks…

Getting prenant while already having missed your period, for MONTHS!?

I have always gotten my period on a normal 28 day cycle.
I gave birth to my daughter, at the age of 20…normal pregnancy, full-term, no complications, natural birth, no drugs!!
When she was 7 months old I missed my period. I didnt get it from Oct.- June of the following yr. In Nov. I took a blood test, and a pregnancy test, and told I was preganant. The next time I went back, I was told I wasnt. I still wasnt getting my period though. Then, on Fathers Day(June) I awoke in the middle of the night with horrible cramps, I felt like I was going into labor. I felt like I had to urinate, so I went to the bathroom, and my urine came out like blood, and would’nt stop. It turns out I was having a miscarriage, and was told I was 12wks. along. I told the Dr. I had no idea, beacause I havent had my menstruation cycle since Oct. (6months before) How could I have been pregnant? Dont you need to have your period, in order to ovulate?

Michelle answers:

No you can ovulate any time of the month your period just releases the unfertilized egg so it is completely possible to not have a period for a long period of time and ovulate

Paul asks…

teens: regarding TD vs. TU on all the virginity questions?

So these questions on virginity (and pregnancy) get asked all… the… time… in adolescents section, I figured we can hash it out once and for all on your opinions on why younger ages for doing it the first time are flamed out but the virgins and the older ages get ‘approval’ as it were.

Here’s my reasons for why the younger ages make me a bit squeamish:

– Think back 5 years ago and what you loved madly and were obsessed about when you were 8 or 9 or 10, now imagine being 19 or 20 and thinking back on the relationships you had when you were 14 and 15. You’ll probably think you were an idiot or the people you were dating were idiots. Granted, there seem to be plenty of people in longterm loving relationships that began in your early teens but let’s be real, you guys are the minority.

– Physical Health. One of the main reasons it makes me iffy on the younger ages having sex is health. If you’re a girl, the younger you are when you start to have sex, the more prone you are to getting cervical cancer. A family friend of ours was trying to start a family in her early 40s and going through IVF. They discovered she had cervical cancer and she needed her entire system removed, no possibility of having natural children. She has always been my go-to for sex questions I don’t feel comfortable asking my mom and she told me she lost her virginity when she was 14. Whether or not that is a connection, she and her doctors don’t know, but there it is. And she’s always suggested I be more pragmatic than she was and wait until I was older.
I took it to heart.

– Decisions. Let’s face it, you make better decisions at 14 than you did when you were 8, so I assume the same goes for when you are in your twenties. Personally, I don’t want to have regrets so I’m waiting. Yes, I know we are all humans and we all make mistakes but part of being human is free will. I choose to use my free will to protect myself because I know I get really emotional in relationships and I want to build trust and love before diving off the deep end.

Those are some of my reasons and my question is: Why ALL the judging and how does it relate to you in how you rate answers?

Those who aren’t virgins get all defensive and those who are virgins get all defensive. State your reasons why and let’s get this out in the open once and for all….
jeez, sorry for asking people to read, how pretentious of me. I added all that crap b/c I wanted to start a dialog.

my bad, apparently.

Michelle answers:

Well, on here, I personally think most of those questions are fake, or just kids thinking it’ll be funny and such. My opinions about 13/14 year old girls being pregnant, aren’t really like “That girl is such a tramp.”, they’re more or less like “I feel bad for that baby.”. I mean, if the child is ten, and the mother is twenty-three.. It’s just like, what. Just don’t see how that baby is going to grow up in a successful living environment. I’m the offspring of a young mother, and I know how hard it is growing up in a household when your own mom is like “I should’ve waited.”. :/ So, yeah. Kids use condoms, or even better yet, WAIT.

Oh, and about the non-virgins complaining, there is a first time for everything. Most people will lose their virginity sometime or another, and although I don’t feel it’s appropriate for a thirteen year old to be banging every guy she sees, some of my friends who are 14/15/16, have lost their v-cards, and were responsible about it. One of them says that losing it so early, makes her want to wait until she’s older to have sex again. So, idunno where I was going with this, BUT YEAH. :]

Edit; Good lord guys, why are you all so lazy? Read the damn question, or wait, don’t, it may make you actually think for once. /headdesk.

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Your Questions About Natural Ivf Older Women

Charles asks…

what is the oldest age of woman that you know that has gotten pregnant naturally (without ivf, fertility drugs?

back in 1976 my mom was 37 and got preg with my younger brother and back then that was consider “old”, my friend’s mom got pregnant with him in 1962 when she was 40!! these were all natural……

do you know anyone say over 40-45 that got pregnant on their own?? thanks

Michelle answers:

I’ve known women 45, 46, 47 who got pregnant naturally. I got pregnant this year at 43, naturally. I miscarried, but I’m still trying.

Daniel asks…

Any folks ever been a grandma with a newborn?

I just gave birth in June to a new baby after 33 years! I am a 57 year old country gal, and was married in ’02 to a wonderful man. We wanted just one child together for some time, but gave the idea up as we have been getting older. Then the last 3 years we talked and decided to try and it came! I honestly was not expecting to conceive easily at my age (which I didn’t), and also never thought I’d have a baby in 2010! (I found out when I was already about 12-13weeks!)

My daughter is still completely shocked about her old momma, and we are definitely the talk of town (we live in a tiny town so most folks know each other pretty well. I was the long dark-gray haired pregnant woman). My baby will be an aunt to a 14 year old! Yow! Awkward at first, but she seems to be now getting used to the idea of being an “old niece”.lol My daughter had her daughter young (19 years old), and they both live with us. My husband has two children in their 20’s; no grandkiddies yet..

My belly got real huge and heavy for this pregnancy! And I had heartburn and a lot of backpain and bed rest. In the days up to delivery I had real bad back pain and could barely walk and I had to keep callin for my daughter or husband to bring me things. But my daughter, granddaughter and husband gave me o’ lot o’ back massages. Lol I had a very very natural birth in my home, which lasted about a day… My dear daughter was in the room with me the entire labor and birth (along with my husband), to hold my hands and my old legs back, coach me with breathing, feed me water and ice pieces, and listen to me and my literally old-grandma-voice all day doing low groans, loud grunts and strained pushin. It’s been easier for me to be in labor/birth by bein vocal. And my husband delivered. (Bless them).

It has always been just my daughter and me, and I was with her when she gave birth, and now she was with me. And I will be there again for her with any other births she might have. I would like to have another before I’m 60, but we’ll see. 😉 Maybe by IVF. It’s funny because in my town there aren’t really that many women my age giving birth. But in the town next over, there are a couple families like ours and I’d been chatting up with a couple of the older women in my situation (one of them at 52 had a c-section and the other at 55 did it natural at like me).

So I’m just wonderin if there are more folks out there. Or people with aunts/uncles younger than them. Thanks a lot!

Michelle answers:

You are not alone! I have an Aunt who is younger than me and a friend of ours’ sister had her first at 52 (accident) Another friend (42) is thinking about having another and the first child is 27 and getting married so…
Some might say , “what about if you die and leave your kid parentless?” there are many parentless children in the world and no-one knows how long we have. Some live to their 90s and some don’t make 60. Older mothers were common 50 years ago and I think its better for your health.
Bless you!

Maria asks…

Teens: What are your opinions on these controversial issues?

Okay I have a list of controversial issues and I’d love your opinion on them. This isn’t for school or anything just wondering your opinions.

1. Sex before marriage. What do you think of that and wearing purity rings too?

2. The invasion of Iraq/Afghanistan

3. Euthanasia

4. Abortion

5. Gay marriage

6. Should there be an age limit for having children not necessarily through natural conception ie having sex but through IVF?

My answers:

1. I think sex before marriage is okay. Marriage is just a ceremony and a certificate. If you love someone, have been with them a decent amount of time and respect each other and feel comfortable with one another it’s okay.

2. When it first happened I was too young to understand but now I don’t support it. When it was to get rid of Hussein I did but now that he’s gone all the troops need to get out, we’re causing damage (and by we I mean Aussie troops, American troops and any other country that is there). It’s sad but sometimes you’ve got to let it be, I’ve even heard on news stories Iraqi and Afghan civilians saying they want the troops to leave, they want to be left alone.

3. Euthanasia. I agree with but only in extreme circumstances. If they’re in a huge amount of pain and are going to die soon and there’s nothing you can do about either problem but assisted suicide shouldn’t be allowed. The person who assists has to live with it for the rest of their lives. But any other form in extreme circumstances should be okay. But the person who wants to die should prove they are in sound of mind to make that kind of decision, should have counseling before signing anything and be able to change their mind at any time/a time between signing and it happening.

4. Woman’s body, woman’s choice. But if there’s abortion then I think there should be counseling and a “cooling off” period people shouldn’t be able to walk in on a whim and just get an abortion because you may regret it after if you didn’t think it through properly. But I’m pro-choice either way.

5. I think gay marriage is okay. If two people whether they are of the same or opposite genders if they love each other that’s all that matters. By getting married or being together period they haven’t and have never hurt me or affected me at all. So why should I be upset by it?

6. Yes there should be. I was watching The View and they said something about a 70 year old Indian woman who went through IVF, she’s had the kid but now she’s going to die because she can’t recover from the treatment. So now that baby has to grow up without a mother and the chances of the kid ending up on the street is high because of all the poverty in India. It’s selfish on the mother’s part on any mother’s part getting IVF at 70 when chances are you won’t be able to care for the child through death or illness. Is that fair on the kid?
CR: I’m Australian too and heard about those deaths and all I can think is ‘what for?’

Michelle answers:

1. Sex before marriage. What do you think of that and wearing purity rings too?
~ I believe everyone should have respect for their body and mind, and wait until they are genuinely prepared for the potential physical, psychological, and social consequences of sex, and that each of us reaches that point of readiness at our own pace. Sex is the healthiest in all regards when it’s an act of love shared between two people, but I don’t believe a marriage certificate is a necessity. For one, considering that in the vast majority of states and in many countries around the world marriage is a right only given to heterosexuals, it feels like rubbing more salt into the wound discrimination to proclaim that sex, one of the most primal human functions, should only be practiced after a couple has legally wed. Yes, I realize that many of the people opposed to premarital sex are also against homosexual relations, but it frustrates me that so many stand upon the Bible like a soapbox instead of thoroughly reading it as supposed justification. I mean, it’s ironic to me that in America several of the states with the highest divorce rates and the most vocal opposition to gay marriage are in the “Bible Belt”, and Christ never spoke a single word about gays or “fornication” but was very outspoken in his condemnation for divorce. Secondly, marriage isn’t always the most sound option financially, and in this miserable economy there are even more compelling reasons some couples should not marry. Marriage is an exchange of debts and assets as well as vows. If one person has racked up tens of thousands of dollars in debt from living off credit cards after losing a job, then that debt will also be shouldered by his or her spouse. Even if one person decides to buy a house in her name alone, if she’s married and her husband ever foreclosed or has a spotty credit history, she’ll be less likely to get approved for a loan. Thirdly, where I live it’s far more common for people to get married in their early 30s or beyond than in their early 20s, and I don’t think it’s realistic to expect them to hold off until their wedding day to have sex. We all know that sex can lead to unwanted pregnancies and STDs, but many don’t realize that sex can also be extremely beneficial. It releases powerful neurological chemicals that can help to prevent or ease the symptoms of depression and boost happiness and self-esteem, it regulates a woman’s cycle, and has been linked to longevity.

Purity rings are a cheap marketing gimmick masquerading as a display of virtue. Jesus lived simply without false adornment, and believed that your actions were far more important than what you wore or said. A purity ring is not the same as a wedding band, which is a widely accepted symbol of marital status. In my opinion, it’s far more noble to donate the money you would have spent on tacky jewelry to a charitable organization.

2. The invasion of Iraq/Afghanistan
Both countries required an act of intervention, but not a long-term invasion without a solid plan of action and a clear exit strategy. If instead of using fear-inducing propaganda and lies about weapons of mass destruction to strum up support for the wars an honest explanation backed with substantial evidence and sound reasons was given for why it was necessary that other countries step in, I think the outcome and overall attitude towards the wars would have been completely different. I was just a kid at the time of invasion, but I remember the day it began vividly because my family and I were flying through the busy Atlanta airport on our way back home from a spring break trip, and someone came on the loudspeaker to announce that the deadline for handing over the weapons of mass destruction had passed, and we were now at war. Our flight was delayed, and for hours I watched the news that was broadcast on all stations throughout the airport. What stood out the most were the multiple interviews from Iraqis who now lived in America and were scared of what was to come, but felt like it was necessary for Saddam Hussein to be taken out of power, even if it came at a cost. Saddam was brought to justice years ago, though, and far more harm has been done than any good. The same is in many ways true with Afghanistan. The Taliban was our generation’s Nazis, and action was required, but the action that was taken was not the one that was actually needed.

3. Euthanasia
~ I’m in support of euthanasia when a team of trained, reputable medical professionals have thoroughly examined a person, and all have reached the conclusion that there is no chance of recovery from a terminal, painful illness. Living is not the same as existing. We shouldn’t force a person to continue to exist in perpetual agony when there is no hope he or she will ever genuinely live again.

4. Abortion
~ It’s not a choice I would make for myself, but I’m not going to deprive another woman of the right to make the choice best for her. I recently read an article about a ten-year-old girl in Mexico who is pregnant as the result of being brutally raped by her stepfather, and in her religious city abortion is illegal, so she has had to suffer the extraordinary physical and emotional pain of carrying a baby to term that she does not have the ability to provide for, and I think it’s a disgrace. Also, many women opt to abort after discovering that their child has a severe health problem out of compassion and a desire to spare someone they already have formed a love for pain.

5. Gay marriage
~ To me marriage has become like the 21st century version of segregated rights. I’m 100% in support of gay marriage. Why should someone else be denied a right I’m given simply because I happen to be straight and he or she is gay? For decades it was illegal for interracial couples to marry, and many fought tooth and nail to keep it that way. Just because a segment of the population is opposed to something because of their religious or moral beliefs or personal views doesn’t mean that they should make it illegal for others without any legitimate legal reasons. Laws should be based on justice for all rather than on the preferences of some.

6. Should there be an age limit for having children not necessarily through natural conception ie having sex but through IVF?
~ There should be an ethical committee reviewing individual cases before radical medical procedures are given to create a life. I don’t think there should be a set age limit because each circumstance can be different. It’s irresponsible and immoral to use extraordinary measures to enable an elderly woman to get pregnant, or someone who is not emotionally stable, like Nadia Shulman, the “octomom.”

Thanks for your thought-provoking question!!!

~ Peace : )

Betty asks…

When should you be pregnant?

i’ve noticed how more and more women are putting off pregnancy and i personally believe that you shouldn’t wait as the female body is not really meant to be breeding at 30yrs+, but even though children were never really on my plan on things to do in life, I don’t want to end up being one of those women who try to get pregnant via science and it doesn’t work. (I believe in natural conception but that doesn’t mean i would try and sway someone from going down this route as i have actively persuaded older members of my family to try methods such as IVF)

Should I have my children soonish then? (i’m 20 by the way)

Michelle answers:

25 and finished with school. Thwy shouldnt have then in like their 40’s

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Remedies

David asks…

Can Rescue Remedy be used during the duration of pregnancy?

I have anxiety/panic disorder and am considering getting pregnant. I wonder which medicines/natural cures will work and not affect the baby.

Michelle answers:

Natural cures are generally not regulated by the FDA and are therefore not recommended during pregnancy because there isn’t necessarily a correlation between what you think you are taking and what you are taking.

There are a number of prescription medications that generally appear safe during pregnancy. However, they should only be considered if the benefits outweigh the risks. If you are on medications that work for you, you could speak to your obstetrician or a genetic counselor about concerns know for those specific medications. It is great that you are thinking about this prior to pregnancy, when it is best to get you on the safest medicines.

Joseph asks…

natural cures for indegestion?

i am 18 weeks pregnant and am suffering with really bad indegestion. i would like any natural remedies because i dont l;ike taking anything medicated whilst i am pregnant. i have never suffered with it this bad throughout any of my pregnancies (3)
its getting so bad i cant sleep on a night with it

please answer lol

Michelle answers:

Peppermint tea, milk or tums, or if you can get them refreshers, sodium bicarbonate in water hope that helps. Also stick to a bland diet with no citrus in i found that made my heartburn indigestion worse but my doctor has had to give me medication as it got to the point where i was being sick with it iam 36 weeks pregnant.

Chris asks…

Pregnancy problems, need some advice.?

I have PCOS and it is difficulty and nearly impossible to get pregnant. What can I do to help make me more fertile. It is really stressing me out that I can not conceive and is depressing me. I feel so worthless. Anyone have any ideas? Herbal medications, natural remedies, ect.

Michelle answers:

Have you asked your doctor about clomid or ovulation kits? Sometimes if you prop your butt up on a pillow (while laying down) after intercourse it can help the semen slide back easier or if you have an orgasm while your partner does too it can help you conceive (so I’ve heard….like it contracts so much it makes it easier to get toward the egg– if that makes sense).

I hope this helps!

Michael asks…

Pregnancy and Antihistamines/Hay Fever?

Hi all – I understand that drugs such as anti-histamines have not been tested on pregnant women – but does anyone have any experience of them – nasal sprays, eye drops, pills – I don’t want to put my baby at any risk of course – but my eyes are itching and streaming – not happy… Any natural remedies?? Thanks all – KB.

Michelle answers:

LOCAL honey-a teaspoon a day will cure your air born allergies within a month or so. Local honey works with the body NATURALLY to develop immunities to all the air born irritants around you like pollen, pet dander, mold, dust etc. Antihistamines hurt YOU as well as your baby by dehydrating the body causing sinus and kidney problems with prolonged usage.

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Your Questions About Natural Remedies Pregnancy Acne

Mandy asks…

Help with Acne in Pregnancy?

Are there any quick natural home remedy`s for acne in pregnancy? I seem to be breaking out, now that I am in my secound trimester?

Michelle answers:

I know that u shouldnt use anything that your doctor recomends.

Very common when your having a girl (extra horamones)

Michael asks…

How do I get rid of acne on my cheeks during pregnancy?

I am 30 weeks preggo and having the WORST acne mostly on my cheeks and forehead. What’s the best way to treat these pimples during this time? Any natural remedies?

I’m using Neutrogena Facial scrub and Oil of Olay moisturizer daily but it’s not helping.

Michelle answers:

During pregnancy one has to be extremely careful before applying or oral intake of any medication. Some medication cause birth defects in the fetus and some are dangerous for breast-feeding child. Please take any medicine or apply any medicine after talking to your doctor if you are planning pregnancy, you are pregnant or while breast-feeding your child.

Do Not Apply anything or have anything before consulting a doctor or health professional.It might cause harm for you or your baby.I hope you will take care of it Thanks.

Http://acnetreatmentandmedication.blogspot.com

Mark asks…

dog skin problem after pregnancy?

my dog developed skin problem during and after her pregnancy. she get itchy all the time and her hair been falling near her butttt to her stomach. her skin looks normal except lately her skin has tiny red swells. when she scratched the tiny swells, as big as an acne, it bleeds. vet is far from my place and i wanna try if i can fix it by buying natural or artificial remedy that i can buy near my place… does anyone know what i can do to my dog? i’m worried of the puppies which might get the skin problem too if i wont be able to cure her skin problem.

Michelle answers:

Since this forum is for answering questions, not slinging mud, I’ll answer with what you requested. There’s a site that lists things you can use that are “natural”, but the site owner (and I) urge you to get her to a vet for a diagnosis first. I’m thinking it’s probably a thyroid problem (underactive or low). There’s something you can get for that without a vet (and feel free to email if you need to later), but I think you need to try some other things first.

It may be a nutrition problem that showed up when the pregnancy began making huge demands on her body. Without knowing whether she’s been wormed with a full spectrum wormer like Drontal, what breed she is, what she’s being fed, how many puppies she had, and a myriad of other questions, all anyone can do is guess. I don’t think it’s something contagious,or she would have shown evidence of having it before she got pregnant, however.

I’m going to start with the most obvious, and that is, she probably isn’t getting enough of the nutrients she needs from what she’s being fed. If you’re feeding her a cheap grocery store dogfood, that’s probably a large part of the problem. The food value in these types of dogfoods is about that of a cardboard box. You’ll probably see a dramatic improvement if you change what you’re feeding her to a higher quality brand of food. Check the site below for the rank of most dogfoods sold in the USA. I’m now feeding my dogs Wellness, and it’s hard to believe how much difference a high quality dogfood will make until you try one.

I could tell you a story of a rescued/starving mother dog I have, but that isn’t necessary. If you want to know it, email and I’ll send you a link back to one of the many posts I wrote that included it.

If you are wanting something to help soothe this right away, check the other site below the first one. I can also guarantee those 2 products, and so can a lot of other people.

There is a website that has a load of effective “natural” remedies, and I’m including the link but I really think her problem is related to a poor diet and possibly being wormy. You can get Drontal or a generic equal to it from the 3rd website, and you don’t have to have a vet prescription to get it.

One last bit of advice, please do your dog a favor and have her spayed after she weans her puppies. It will spare her from more dangerous illnesses than just skin problems. Pyometra is a killer and a horrible way for a dog to die. If you don’t have a lot of money, get CareCredit, contact SpayUSA for help or call around to see if there is a county program where you live available to help pay for it.

Steven asks…

11 Weeks pregnant…?

Does anyone know any home remedies good for acne while pregnant? I have been feeling like im 13 again with this acne. It’s not so horrible that I can’t cover it up without makeup but I would like the more natural look like I had before my pregnancy. Any help would be appreciated.
Please don’t suggest any medications.
Thanks, Shay!

Michelle answers:

James smith your rude!

I use pore strips and exfoliate in the shower which help. Also clearasil Persagel works for me too. I have kept following this and havent had and major problems since -Good luck and congrats!

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Products

Mary asks…

Why do Burt’s Bees Belly butter and Weleda’s Pregnancy Body Oil have Vit A as an active ingredient?

Since it’s not known whether topical vitamin A can cause birth defects, does anyone find it disconcerting that these companies would put vitamin A in products targeted to pregnant women?

http://usa.weleda.com/our-products/shop/pregnancy-body-oil.aspx

Curiously, Burt’s bees no longer has the belly butter listed on their website, only listing the Vit A free pregnancy body oil but here is the cache
http://74.125.95.132/search?q=cache:7znDed3yfEYJ:www.burtsbees.com/naturalproducts/baby-mom-mom/mama-bee-belly-butter.html+belly+butter&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us
tootsieroll- I can see why you have 0% best answers.
Fnookleberry- I just wrote to Weleda and asked them about it. I’m very curious about Burt’s Bees reasoning, since they have at least 2 no-no ingredients.
Hi Sweetheart,
Actually, they are very sneaky about the Vitamin A content. In all of their other products, they list retinyl palmitate as being Vitamin A in brackets afterwards but on their pregnancy cream they don’t specify that it is actually vit A. I’m sure it’s not accident.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retinyl_palmitate

Michelle answers:

That’s a good question! It really makes me wonder why they would put products like that in something for pregnant women since it is widely known that too much Vit A is NOT good and we are recommended to NOT even use topical products with it in it!

It also makes me wonder why some products geared toward pregnant women also contain rosemary extract which is also a no-no during pregnancy.

Maybe someone complained about that belly butter and that’s why it isn’t there anymore! Hopefully! They should really research stuff befre making something! I hope you get a good answer!

Sharon asks…

Aloette products safe during pregnancy?

I am 18 weeks pregnant, and usually use their lotion when I have dry kin on my face and their face mask. Is this safe? I know their more natural

Michelle answers:

Hi Faith, Aloette Cosmetics products are generally regarded as safe. However, any medical questions should be referred to your physician.

Maria asks…

What cosmetics can be used during pregnancy?

I am not sure what face/body/hair products are considered safer to use during pregnancy. At the moment I am using Clinique and L’oreal, should I change to all natural options? If so, has anyone heard of Korres?

Michelle answers:

The only thing you should try to avoid is bleaches for your hair, and over scented bubble baths, ( they pose a risk of causing an infection )

Joseph asks…

does any use jericho product from dead sea? do you think it is safe to use in pregnancy?

i had been introduced to use jericho cosmetic such as foaming facial srub, moisturizing cream and mineral serum, they said it’s a natural product. has anyone use this before. do you think it is safe to use while you are pregnant? As they told me that i can use but i just want to be safe for my unborn baby, Thanks

Michelle answers:

On the one hand I also heard that the dead sea products are safe while pregnant, on the other hand I know from experience that you should not go(they dont recommend you ),to swim in the dead sea while pregnant, or go into the mud baths.So rather play it safe, and spoil yourself after the pregnancy, its not that long.
Good luck with the pregnancy

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