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Helen asks…

Politics, abortion and the LSD. ?

Since Governor Palin’s addition to the Republican Presidential ticket has again brought up abortion as a discussion point for an election, consider this; if an anti-abortion law is passed, who will be responsible for policing it and how would they go about it?

Let’s imagine if pro-lifers get their way and abortion is again made illegal:

A woman goes to her doctor to get a pregnancy test and it comes back positive. To protect the child and assure the new law will not be broken, the doctor would have to call some newly created anti-abortion government department. Let’s call it the “Life Security Department”, LSD for short. There goes the woman’s privacy, because now the LSD knows she is pregnant and to protect the child, the woman most be put under a 24 hour, nine month “life watch” to make sure she does not make an attempt to receive an illegal abortion. Or better yet, to save some of the tax funding to the LSD, we simply force every woman who has been reported pregnant to show up at a local LSD office nine months later with a baby. The baby can then be DNA tested to prove it is hers. If no baby is produced in nine months, then she would need to provide the LSD with medical records proving a natural miscarriage.

Doctors selling out their patient’s privacy is not enough oversight though, what about keeping track of home pregnancy tests? We could tie the LSD into a bar code system that forces every business that sells pregnancy test to automatically record the name and address of the person who purchased one, so that the LSD can log her into their system for potential pregnancy tracking. But what if it was some friend or family member who purchased it for her? The LSD can take that person(s) to Guantanamo Bay and detain and interrogate them until they confess who and where the possibly pregnant woman is!!

What about women who don’t buy a test or don’t go to a doctor and just decide to wait to see if they miss a period and then go seek out illegal abortions? Simple solution: LSD funded neighborhood menstrual offices. Every American female of child bearing age would be required to register with the local LSD menstrual office and then provide once a month “proof” of menstruation. The “proof” would then go through DNA testing to assure she has not switched her “proof” with another non-pregnant woman.

If a woman somehow slips through LSD’s nearly air tight net and manages to obtain an abortion, or through deliberate action causes the early termination of her pregnancy, then it’s off to jail with her. The charge? Murder in the first degree, of course. Duh!! What else could be the charge for violating an established law that prohibits knowingly taking a human life, or haven’t pro-lifers thought that far ahead?

The reason abortion is legal in this country is because back when it was illegal, it didn’t work. It could not be properly policed or punished without extreme violations of privacy rights. IMO trying to make abortion illegal again is bar far the most short-sighted idea in the history of the modern world! Policing it would make what Homeland Security is doing seem like amateur night. So what would be the point of passing a law that would be created in theory to protect life, but has proven in the past to be unenforceable without privacy violations and if taken to its logical legal conclusion would result in life imprisonment or the death penalty for those who violate it?

Michelle answers:

Good thing a US President can’t make a decision like that. You really need to stop trying to scare people with things that can not and will not happen. This is the reason the US is not a dictatorship.

You have a very good imagination, you should become fiction writer.

Steven asks…

i really don’t no what to do?

Well i am 16, i am in college doing dance iv been dancing since i was 3.

am 5ft8 and weight 10stone i am quite muscly with alittle puppy fat on my stomach thats about it

but the problem is i used to be very skinny but now iv changed and everyone says i look fine and am healthy including my GP

but my mum always says watch what your eating and when ever i am talkin to her shes always looking me up and down and staring at me she even when to the stages of makin me do a pregnancy test just cos i have a little puppy fat wich is natural for my age and will drop of in time but i really dont no what to do she makes me feel awful she is very slim because she cant eat properly because of a bowl condition i just feel like shes ashamed of me being healthy my granmar also gangs up with her sayin iv put all this weight on she wont go 1 day without mentioning it

and its going to start effecting how i eat i peviosly had an eating disorder

helppppppp

Michelle answers:

You’re a perfectly healthy weight for your height and if you lost any weight you’d actually become underweight. If you are happy with yourself then that’s all that matters – my mother spent all of my life telling me to eat less and lose weight etc. It never affected me to the point of having an eating disorder – p**ed me right off though!! I’m sure you’re absolutely gorgeous, and you have no worries with your weight. Tell your mom to back off – it more than likely is something she’s constantly worried about her whole life, and seeing as how your grandma gangs up on you with her, she’s probably listened to it from her own mother all her life. Break the cycle, tell them to keep their thoughts to themselves and don’t do it to your children when you have them.
Stay gorgeous honey!!

Thomas asks…

Am i underweight???????

I have had sever problems with my menstruation, have had all sorts of tests done, do not have PCOS either, everything is perfect but still keep missing my period befor january i didnt have a period for a year, january period was induced by progesterone challenge 10mg for 7 days(period was january 20-25th), used progesterone cream february had a period february 16th-21st, still have not had period this month have had tender nipples this past week, negative pregnancy test..
My height is 5’2-5’3 and i weight in between 106-108 is this underweight??????What else could i do?? hubby and i would like to conceive..
Have seen a gyno he did nothing because i have had all the tests done already
I have also tried OVULEX (big waste of time and money)
Have tried natural herbs such as vitex, female toner, red clover, acupuncture and their herbs ect nothing is working..I JUST WANT A BABY why is this so hard. I’m very upset:(

Michelle answers:

You seem to be at a PERFECT weight. According to your BMI you are a 19.4, which is really good.

Http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/

I too have horribly irregular periods. My doctor ran blood tests and think that I may have PCOS…although I have NO other symptoms at all. (I’m thin, not hairy…etc.) He wants me to try Medformin next month. He said that there is a coorelation to this med and regulating ovulation. If this doesn’t work he’s going to try this in addition to clomid. Clomid on it’s own may not sustain a pregnancy and I may have a miscarriage. He completely trust this doctor…and I’m going to try this and see what happens!

Why does your doctor think that you don’t have PCOS? There is a wide range of PCOS and you don’t have to have all the weird symptoms to have it. I totally did not think that I had PCOS, I just have irregular cycles…that’s it!

I hope this helps! Try not to stress (Yes, easier said than done…)but, stress can also have an effect on your menstrual cycle and for sure the ability to carry a baby.

Sharon asks…

after miscarriage need anwsers please!!!?

HI the doctor said i had a full natural miscarriage… does this mean once the bleeding stops all of the tissue is gone and no longer in me? also i went in today to take a pregnancy test after the misscarriage was last week and the pregnancy test was negative… does this mean my HCG is back to normal?? thanks in advance for all you help!!!
to dez… i know i misscarried and the baby is gone but i can not try to have another until my hcg is normal and the doctor made me take a pregnancy test and did not do blood work… i did not choose to do that on my own!!!

Michelle answers:

Yes, it means the fetus was fully expelled and you don’t need a D&C to remove any tissue. Pregnancy tests are given to see if you have any Hcg left in your body. That can potentially cause problems if the levels are high. Lack of it also indicates that your body did fully release all of the (
for lack of better word) tissue.
Have had a misscarriage, It does get better.

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Steven asks…

I think Im pregnant OMG!! After 6 years!!!!?

Ive been getting SUPER faint pink lines on internet cheapie tests for the past 4 days (I posted them on Y!A before, some might remember) .. I didnt believe them because it was the first time I had ever used them but it seemed like they were getting slightly darker each time

I took a $store test (Baby Test) from Dollar General.. I have taken literally dozens before and never got a line at all that I questioned

Well tonight I got this!!!! The top pic is after 5 minutes, the bottom one is when the test dried

http://img6.imageshack.us/img6/6296/bfp.jpg

What do you think!!!!???? We’ve been trying for over 6 years with NOTHING AT ALL, and this would be an all-natural pregnancy!!!
I was soooo not expecting this result when I took this test!
Here is my chart… according to FF I am 14dpo today (which is 2 days past my normal leutal phase! So according to FF, Im late!)

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1c181a/?i=3515341&
http://img17.imageshack.us/img17/6166/frer15dpo.jpg

I took a FRER today,,,,, BFN :*(

Im crushed…

Michelle answers:

I see the line congratss momma you are having ur miracle baby.. Keep us informed.. Call the doctor… See they say good things come to those who wait..

Sandy asks…

Miscarriage question?

Has anyone experienced a natural miscarriage, and been told by the doctor there is a small amount (27mm) of clotting in them. They said d&c would do more harm than good because its a small amount, but im still so wrried it will make me infected. Has anyone had this? Pregnancy test is showing negative by the way.

Michelle answers:

A dnc might open you up to infection and you will likely pass the clots within the next few days. I have had 3 miscarriages and haven’t had to have a dnc. Your uterus has a way of cleaning itself out. Go for a two week check up and have them do an ultrasound to make sure everything is cleaned out if you are still worried about it. And i am sorry for your loss.

Donald asks…

question to women who’ve had period’s while pregnant!?

Okay I know It is Posible to have periods while pregnant but I want to know about Personal experiences.

I really didnt have a clue that i was pregnant cause Ive been getting my natural cycles, but the only thing is My cycles have been getting to the point where there every 40 days or a little over that, They usedbut Ive been noticing that I don’t eat my favorite junk foods, cause the smell of them turn me away, and Ive been going to the bathroom more than normal i used to only go like 4 times a day now I go 8 or 9 times a day. and ive been more tired even after getting enough sleep. and i feel sick around alot of food, and I throw up chicken?? Ive done it more than once, and chicken is my one of my favorite foods too.

but these past two months have gotten a little lighter but not much, and also last week i have two Faint Postive pregnancy test.
I would love for anyone of you to tell me your storys about how different ur cycles were or how long did it take for you to notice?
Also My cycles used to be Regular of a 30 day cycle but now its every 40-43days.
they swiched in march?

Michelle answers:

With my first two children I had two periods while pregnant. Not a full period but spotting for 3 or 4 days. Its not uncommon. So just get a more expesive pregnancy test if it was faint then your probably pregnant.

Ruth asks…

Can NOT shake the feeling of being pregnant?

My story is long but interesting, For the past MONTH I’ve felt pregnant, like a natural instinct or click in my brain. I have had a total of 3 Pregnancy tests, 2 HPT’s, 1 was negative, the next (taken 3 days later) was a very faint positive. Went into the doctors today and took YET another pee test, came back negative. Not only that, I’ve had ODD “periods” if you catch my drift. January was not late, but light and only lasted 2 days, I didn’t even need a tampon, I usually go through a box every cycle! February comes along, my period is 6-7 days late, and yet again it’s so light I don’t even need a tampon. Just need to wipe once in awhile. After the Doctors test I thought my mind would be eased and I could continue on normally, but I just can’t convince myself I’m NOT pregnant. It’s like my heart and body know it and they won’t let me drop it. I’ve had ALL the symptoms practically, headaches, nausea, more hungry, peeing more, constipation, possible Hemroids, fatigue, moodiness, cravings, and NOW it seems like my breasts are becoming tender. I’m also really bloated, possibly because I’ve been laying around due to exhaustion. But even if I try to come up with a logical explanation for all my symptoms my mind JUST won’t ease about it. I’ve read about woman who get negative urine tests (home and doctor), even get negative blood tests AND have vaginal bleeding all through pregnancy. I’ve even read about woman who knew in their head were pregnant but couldn’t prove it to the doctor till they were far along or till they gave birth. My question is, has anyone else ever gone through this? Should I honestly trust what my mind and body keep telling me? If not, how can I shake this and stop thinking about being pregnant. Should I require blood work? What about that faint positive I got? I know something is not right with me, I feel it in my mind and body! Help!?
All 3 Pregnancy tests were not the first pee of the morning.
The line I had DID appear at 2-3 minutes :/

Michelle answers:

Well, I don’t know if you know this but if a woman thinks about being pregnant too much her body starts acting like it’s pregnant. Go to the do and get a blood test. It’s the most accurate

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Lizzie asks…

Period after miscarriage?

I had a miscarriage on July 15th and I haven’t yet gotten my period. I took a pregnancy test and its negative so I know I am not pregnant. I called my doctor and said wait until the middle of September to come in. They said they would see what they can do to jump start my period again. Has anyone ever had this happen to them and what did the doctor give you? They said one way is birthcontrol but honestly I really don’t want to go back on it because I was on the depo shot for three years and the pill for 2 months and after quiting both of those it took 7 months to begin a irregular period. Is there anything else I can take or that your doctor prescribed you? Please any advice would be greatly appreciated. Been trying for 9 months unfortunitly it ended in a natural miscarriage at 4 weeks along.
Had a pregnancy 4 yrs ago and everything turned out fine

Michelle answers:

Hi,
I’m in exactly the same position as you, same time for miscarriage and everything. Arent we a pair!
I’m going to the doctors in 2 hours because I’ve heard that the progesterone tablets are effective to bring on a period, and I’m going to refuse the leave without them! I’m going on holiday in a few weeks and I don’t fancy the idea of having first post m/c period while I’m away, especially as I had a d&c and I think it’s supposed to be quite bad after that. If you’re interested I’ll let you know what the doc says.

Xx

Lisa asks…

Could I really be prego?

I stopped taking birth control two months ago, lsat month my period was on time and everything was natural but this month my period never came I am 5 days late and I took two pregnancy test and they were both positive, could I really be pregnant or could it be the effects of getting off the pill. Btw I’ve had cramps but no period.

Michelle answers:

If both of your results are positive then it’s likely that you are pregnant, you need to book an appointment with your GP and they will do an accurate test.

If anything the pill would give you a false negative, you do not get a false positive on a pregnancy test.

I suggest you get yourself to the docs! 🙂

x

Nancy asks…

How can you lighten your hair safely?

I’m in my last month of pregnancy and would like to know if there are any safe ways I can lighten my hair, to light blonde from medium brown. Any suggestions? Actually, The best one I’ll use always after this, because I have vowed before never to use chemicals on my head for the rest of my life. Just doesn’t make any sense. So anything natural suggested would be GREATLY appreciated!
Amonnia and the other things they put in dye are nasty, not to mention most are tested on animals. My roots are now about 4 1/2 inches long now.

Michelle answers:

Lemon Juice and then lay out in the sun!! I do that

Ken asks…

it has passed 3 month?

it has passed 3 month already i dont have my period..and also i did the pregnancy test 5 times this 3 month and nothing wat should i do wat is this y i havent gotten my period in 3 month and i already went to doctor and she sad is natural wat should i do?

Michelle answers:

Get a second opinion

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Richard asks…

Went off birth control pills, missed 3 periods…?

So i was on the pill for about 5 years. I’ve been having health problems as of late, (commonly referred to as IBS), so i went off the pill to see if ceasing the introduction of hormones might help. I got my period in July, then stopped taking the pill at the end of that cycle and haven’t gotten a period since. I haven’t had sex since June, so I’m thinking that, because I got my period in July, i’m not pregnant. I’m mostly sure that the lack of period is just my body trying to get back on its natural course, but am not totally sure. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative, and saw my doctor who said there’s a possibility of pregnancy, but wait a few more weeks to be sure.

This is the third period i’ve missed now. Just wondering if anyone else has had a similar problem and, if so, how was it resolved? I read somewhere that taking Vitamin B might help kick start your system again… Any other suggestions?

Thanks!

Michelle answers:

I don’t know if the viamin B would help, though I do know that BCPs can make you vitamin B deficient, so it’s probably a good idea.

You should start taking cod liver oil, and increasing the natural fats in your diet as a starter. Switching to raw milk from organically grass-fed cows can help as well. Otherwise, you may need to see your doctor.

David asks…

Question about pregnancy, drugs, and outcome?

If a woman was unknowingly 4 months pregnant and took an Ecstasy pill, could this affect the baby’s genes? Like could it have mutations. When you get paternity testing there are markers, and in some rare cases there are natural mutations. Obviously, the mutation wouldn’t be natural but is it possible for that pill to cause a genetic mutation to the fetus?

Michelle answers:

There are really no studies on the effects of ecstasy and newborn children, because the vast majority of mothers are not willing to take drugs (let alone, illegal ones) during the course of their pregnancy for a research study.

It is unfortunate that a woman would unknowingly be pregnant and take drugs that are likely to harm the fetus. It is also unfortunate that in the absence of clinical trials concerning ecstasy, there is no way to know in what way(s) the drug will affect the newborn — the only guess is that the effect will not be positive. A quick google search of this question gives results of brain damage and mental retardation.

In terms of other drugs, every legal Rx drug is assigned a pregnancy category.

United States FDA Pharmaceutical Pregnancy Categories
Pregnancy Category A
Adequate and well-controlled studies have failed to demonstrate a risk to the fetus in the first trimester of pregnancy (and there is no evidence of risk in later trimesters).

Pregnancy Category B
Animal reproduction studies have failed to demonstrate a risk to the fetus and there are no adequate and well-controlled studies in pregnant women OR Animal studies have shown an adverse effect, but adequate and well-controlled studies in pregnant women have failed to demonstrate a risk to the fetus in any trimester.

Pregnancy Category C
Animal reproduction studies have shown an adverse effect on the fetus and there are no adequate and well-controlled studies in humans, but potential benefits may warrant use of the drug in pregnant women despite potential risks.

Pregnancy Category D
There is positive evidence of human fetal risk based on adverse reaction data from investigational or marketing experience or studies in humans, but potential benefits may warrant use of the drug in pregnant women despite potential risks.

Pregnancy Category X
Studies in animals or humans have demonstrated fetal abnormalities and/or there is positive evidence of human fetal risk based on adverse reaction data from investigational or marketing experience, and the risks involved in use of the drug in pregnant women clearly outweigh potential benefits.

Sharon asks…

just tested positive for pregnancy?

Hi there,

First off I have been married for 4 years, and have 2 beautiful daughters. I just peed on a stick and found out I am pregnant with baby number 3. Just a couple weeks. Here is the dilema…. I have a bowel desise called proclitis. It is like colits but in the rectum, and with the past 2 pregnacys It has fotten so bad I would just lay in bed for weeks and cry. My last baby I had a placenta abrubtion! Which means the plecenta came off my uterus wall and I almost lost her. I could have hemeraged at the same time and been in big trouble. I have done reasearch and have found out that I have a 30% chance of having another one and I am so scared of having a stillbirth……here comes the kicker. 6 days ago I have my breast done and was on 8 different meds. 4 of them being narcotics. I just came off them today. I was under a general anestetic, plus pain killlers, sleeping pills, gravel, antibiotics and so on! I dont know what to do abortion has never been an option for me. I knew I was not okay with having kids after my last baby, after almost losing my last baby! I am so confused and so upset and please dont judge me becasue I am considering this, I never thought I would I would only be 2.5 weeks. My husband and I have been using condoms, and it broke one time… Is there anyway to natural make a miscarriage happen…I feel so bad even saying that I love my girls so much but I just dont think I can do this…………please help

Michelle answers:

I’m going to start of by saying God will give you no more than you can handle! Now as far as the proclitis I’m sure the Dr. Can come up with a plan for treating it while your pregnant. Maybe you should see a specialist. About the surgery, a lot of people in early pregnancy not knowing there pregnant do a lot of things worse than having surgery and taking medicine that was prescribed to them. Of course there is risk with everything , but the Dr. Will even tell you as long as you stop you’ll be fine. I didn’t know I was pregnant with my son for the first 3 months and I partied a lot and he was fine. Of course I stopped when I found out. With this pregnancy I had my wisdom teeth pulled and the Dr. Prescribed me vicodin. They also prescribe percocets under certain circumstances. Don’t beat yourself up about this everything happens for a reason! The only natural miscarriage is an act of God and in most situtations it’s a blessing. I had 2 miscarriages and they say when you miscarry it’s because something was wrong. Just pray on it and take it one day at a time. Good Luck and God Bless!

Lisa asks…

Please Help? What can this all be?!!!!!!!!?

Recently I’ve been experiencing abdominal cramps and I’ve either been sick or felt sick since Christmas eve. My last period lasted 2-3 days when normally they last 7 days. I experienced some spotting about a week or so ago but the day after the spotting I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I have also become more tired than usual, I’m starting get breakouts on my skin and my hair has lost it’s natural shine and looks so dull, I look a complete mess. What could all this be?

Michelle answers:

First of all depending on when your last period was, you could’ve taken the test too early. Also if you’ve been having some stress in your life, like thinking your pregnant, that can take a toll on you and your body and leave you a mess. Now I’m pretty sure you’re not pregnant I think morning sickness shows as early as 6 weeks. Hope this helps or calms you a bit atleast

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Betty asks…

Try To Conceive On Clomid and Scared Of Miscarriage…?

We are about to take our first round of Clomid. I have read it can increase the risk of miscarriage. My doctor has already scheduled all blood test in case we get pregnant, but I’m still totally worried.
I worried through my entire first pregnancy (natural conception) and I thought that #2 might be less stressful, but now I am more worried than ever.

Any positive experiences with conceiving with Clomid?

Michelle answers:

I’ve never heard that one at all. I can’t see how Clomid would cause miscarriages when it is purely to induce ovulation.
My 1st daughter is a clomid & Metformin baby, I had 14 m/c’s before her and purely because I have PCOS and should of been on Metformin to stop miscarrying. Had another M/c after my daughter didn’t take meds) then fell pg again and started metformin straight away and now my youngest daughter is turning 3yrs old in 8 days. TTC #3 now with Metformin 2000mg and Clomid 100mg.

Thomas asks…

need advice, have pcos and just had blood sugar levels tested for insulin resistance?

i have pcos and i am currently 8 weeks with a natural pregnancy,
as a precaution i had my blood sugar levels checked as a lot of pcos sufferers are insulin resistant.
i got my results yesterday which were 5.2 which the nurse tells me is normal (normal being anywhere between 3.5 and 5.5)
i had to fast for 10 hours before the test, so my question is,
how accurate is the test after fasting?
and does a blood sugar result of 5.2 mean i’m deffinately not insulin resistant?

Michelle answers:

Glucose testing is always done fasting.

Susan asks…

Can Vaginal wetness stop pregnancy? Doctor please answer.?

I am 26 years old. My fiancée and I have been having unprotected sex for over 8 months. We want to leave it to nature on getting pregnant. I have never been pregnant. we are at normal weights and we live a healthy lifestyle in the country. I had a LEEP done last year in April, had some slightly abnormal cells but last test in September results where healthy.

We are very sexually active, 5 times a week minimum. My question is when I have intercourse I get very wet, can this prevent me from getting pregnant? I cannot find any information on the interent regarding vaginal mucus. I get excited easily and wetness comes easily before the intercourse.. My fiancée has had three pregnancies in his last relationship, proving he is healthy and able to produce. Can you please help me understand if my body produces a natural spermicide or can block the entry of my cervix? My fiancée was told when trying to conceive in his past relationship by a doctor that his partners wetness can cause the cervix to be blocked. Is that true? Doctors answer please.

Michelle answers:

Hi I read over your question, I am no doctor but I can give you some advice on this. I know how frustrating it can be when you are wanting a pregnancy or are trying with the feeling of…if it happens it happens. I am a 26 year old female who lived with increased vaginal discharge “wetness”. They usually refter to vaginal discharge as a way of your vagina cleaning its-self out so its getting it out of the vagina to keep it clean. People usually have better luck in conceiving when they are trying to conceive when the woman has discharge basically because it helps the sperm stay in… If you will. Have you been to the ob/gyn regularly? There are numerous reasons for someone to have the increased discharge. Even std’s. I know you are probably a healthy woman, but sometimes we have a std and dont know it and that can cause problems in getting pregnant along with a discharge. Also, professionals say that its best to have sex every other day and not every day because when you have sex that much, it lowers the man’s sperm count which can also cause problems in conceiving. So if you keep having problems I would suggest that you go back to your doctor and see what they suggest, it actually may not even be anything to do with you, your fiance may not be able to conceive. So maybe guidance from your primary ob/gyn would be the best bet. I wish you luck and hope everything goes well for you all 🙂

David asks…

My girlfriend MIGHT be pregnant and I’ve been stupid enough to let myself get excited?

Right, I’m 17 and I recently got back with my gf, notice I’m female so it clearly ain’t my baby.

Anywho, we split up just before the Summer after an 11month relationship in which we’d got engaged, we always talked about marrying and having kids and ok I lied, i’m not a girl, i’m a pre-op male-to-female transsexual, so i can have my sperm frozen before I become a girl so we can have kids that are both biological ours, but different story…

During the time we weren’t together, my gf dated this guy who pretty much used her for sex and the last time, about 2weeks before we got back together the comdom broke and now my gf is 3weeks late on her period.

Well I’ve always wanted a kid and I’ve told her I’ll back her all the way and give her any support she needs and I’ve got myself so excited about having a kid now, just if she’s pregnant, i’ll be like a step-Mum which will be awesome.

Only thing is I’ve got excited when she hasn’t even had a pregnancy test and she’s been this late for natural reasons in the…
…past and I’ve let myself get all excited and if the test proves negative, i’m just gonna be well disappointed, I know I’m young and I should be more worried about her being pregnant and praying to God she isn’t, but I just take life seriousl and having a kid for me would be awesome.

How the hell can i stop myself being too disappointed if she tests negative for being pregnant?
Btw, my gf is 16.
The due who said no medical facility would perform the surgery on a minor, yes your correct but that still doesn’t stop me being transsexual, so up yours. Look up transsexual and find out what the word means.
My gf doesn’t agree with abortions and adoption, so i think she’d be having it also by the sounds of her ex, he won’t want anything to do with this child and after how he treated my gf I think she doesn’t want him having contact with it.
The father cheated on her TWICE with the same girl so she wouldn’t go back with him.

Two my gf is straight, I’m just her exception cos we have been insanely in love since we met, when we split up it was for reasons that had nothing to do with our feelings for one another.
Three, a lesbian relationship is no harder than any other.

Michelle answers:

Getting excited about a baby is not stupid hunny – especially with her being 3 weeks overdue.

I have read some of the comments you have received and some are down right stupid so please ignore them, others I kind of agree with – you are both very young, and yes it is her choice what to do with her body…. BUT … If she is pregnant and she wants to keep the baby and has a partner like you that wants to look after her and the baby then you are in a better situation than most pregnant women. I say good luck to you! I am really happy for you – I hope that all goes well for you both.

Good luck with the operation also.

XXxXx

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Charles asks…

When will I be Pregnant?! Pill question?

Hey so I stopped my pill on the 8th of July and had the unnatural period wich ended around the 15th. I had some funny pains which felt like period coming but nothings happening! Is it too soon for a natural period? Am i Pregnant? I dunno. I had been on it for 3 years. Before that my periods were normal and regular. When should I take a pregnancy test? Many thanks 🙂

Michelle answers:

It depends when and if you were sexually active in that time frame, but the docs usually go off your last period ! I am unfamiliar with the whole pill thing, but usually for a home pregnancy test it takes a 4 – 5 weeks for it to show on the test. Good luck and just wait for a while or consult your doc and see if they can do blood work on you !

Michael asks…

Pregnant… 3 positive tests?

Omgggg sooooo happy ;D ;D ;D got a natural BFP this morning.I am 23 and i have been TTC for 3 years and have irregular periods every 3-4months and my last period was 30th september 2010

i took 3 pregnancy tests they were all positive but on 2 of them the Control line is fainter than the Test line-is it not ment to be the other way about,

Also i just dont feel pregnant my boobs are a wee bit tender but they havent got darker or anything, i have been cramps in my belly which feel like a period coming, a was reading up and what if its a cyst and not a baby 🙁 ;( am scared

Michelle answers:

It’s not a cyst it’s a baby congratulations!! You have been trying for 3 years for this so of course you are scared and worried that it isn’t real but it is and maybe getting it all confirmed with your doctor will help you to feel like it’s really happening.

It doesn’t matter if the control line is the fainter of the two as long as it’s there and don’t worry about symptoms,sometimes they take a while to kick in and some women don’t have any at all and that is all normal,i never had a single one with my first baby but everything was just fine.

John asks…

Am I Pregnant please help?

I had a miscarriage in July an early one at six weeks natural. My Hcg levels dropped to 4. Now my period has not come I can understand it can be all over the place however I have just done two pregnancy test and they both had a very faint positive. Is it really possible for me to be pregnant or even ovulated yet?? Or does a hcg of as low as 4 give a positive in a pregnancy test??

Michelle answers:

It’s possible, yes. A level of 4 will not give a positive pregnancy test, so I would recommend going to get a blood test to see what the levels currently are. Good luck, and I’m sorry to hear about your loss. 🙁

Sharon asks…

Do you think I’m pregnant? Best answer goes to the correct one, tomorrow?

Possible conception was probably about 12 days ago and about a week after conception I wiped and saw pink fluid. Implantation bleeding, I think. Later, I had horrible constipation and gas, mild low back pain, yesterday I started to get mild headaches on and off, nauseous feeling on and off. I have an irregular period, so I can’t wait for my missed period. Took a pregnancy test 9 days after sex, too early and it was negative. Took a blood test today and will hear the results tomorrow. Today I got moody, maybe from the stress. I was depressed, then I cried, then I was happy. I’ve been sleepy lately. I’ve been spotting a lot recently and today it was a brownish red color and there was quite a bit of it… I was like “Am I starting my period?” then it was gone! And then I spotted a little more later on. Do you think I’m pregnant? Best answer goes to the correct one tomorrow!

P.S. My symptoms are pretty light, is this natural because it would be early in the pregnancy? It’s also not too soon to be feeling pregnant because all women are different. Please read the whole thing, some people don’t and their answers annoy me. Thank you so much!!
Wow, JUST said please read the whole thing and I mentioned I already took a blood test. Don’t even answer if you don’t take the time to read.

Michelle answers:

I have everythign crossed for you! It does sound like possible implantation bleeding. Spotting is common in early pregnancy, especially around the time your period would be due.

I’m not going to say either way whether I think you are or aren’t, cos to be told you’re not is crushing, and to be told you are, and get false hope, then find out you’re not, is also cruel. I have my own theory but I’ll sit tightly on my fence until the beta result :O)

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Test

Lisa asks…

Stopped taking the pill just over a month ago?

as my partner and I want to try for a baby, My period was a week late this month, did a pregnancy test but negative result. I finally started my period yesterday (10/05/07) does that now mean that my body has gone back into it’s natural cycle and that my body will be ovulating again over the next month??? Therefore it will be possible to get pregnant???? Is it normal to go back into cycle so quick??? My Mum never had a period for two months after coming off the pill when she was trying for me then the third month off pill she had a period then the following month she concieved, could I follow in my Mum’s foot steps???? Sorry it’s all a jumbled question, I’m just confused???

Michelle answers:

Everyones body works diffrntly. It took me 6 months after coming off the pill to get pregnant with my first child, yet i have a friend got pregnant the first month. . You could be having periods but still not be ovulating regularly. So just relax, enjoy the practising and try not to let it stress u out ( there’s plenty of time for stressing once the kiddy arrives lol) good luck

Mandy asks…

unsure of my possible due date.?

i have just taken a home pregnancy test and it came out possitive. i had a natural misscariage on the 12 of sept. and have not seen the dr. yet ( appointment is on thursday) i am wondering seeing how i did not have a mensteral cycle what date my dr. will use to find out how far along i am. if you have any idea what date he will use or aprox. how far along i could be please let me know.

Michelle answers:

I would think your doctor would do like most and use the first day of your last period and even though it was a miscarriage it would still technically be considered a period. So if you use sept 12th as your first day of your last period the due date calculator gives you a due date of june 19th and you would be about 8 weeks pregnant. Although under the circumstances they will probably do an early ultrasound to date the pregnancy and use that as a guide line. I hope this helps i am sorry about your loss and would like to say congrats and good luck with this new pregnancy.

Chris asks…

Am I pregnant?

My period is irregular. I’ve been having what feels like menstrual cramps for about a week now, but I still haven’t started. I’ve had cycles that have lasted up to 46 days in the past. I’m on day 36 right now. Should I take a pregnancy test now, or should I wait to see if I start in the next week?

By the way, I’ve been through quite a few major life changes recently–I got married on August 4th, moved into a new place with my husband, and started a new job on August 7th. Could all of this just be my body’s way of slowing down after all of the chaos?

Are there any ways to tell if I’m pregnant without taking a pregnancy test? I really don’t think my husband and I are ready to be parents yet. We just got married and are LOVING married life…being just us. We were just hoping to get settled before starting a family. We’re using natural family planning, but it’s difficult with me having an irregular cycle, you know?
Just to let everyone know…I am pregnant! The more my husband and I talked about it, the more excited we got and we did two different pregnancy tests this weekend and both were positive. Thanks for your advice!

Michelle answers:

Hi.
I have been married for 2 years.
Right away when I got married my period started to get really irregular.
I still haven’t gotten preg. But now I know I am.
Well my last period was around Spring Break.
Well man for about 2-3 weeks my stomach hurted alotALOT
I couldn’t even walk run stand up or even laugh or talk
Well since I’ mirregular I never know when i’m gonna get it. But that time I got it..
But before it came I was in BIGG pain!
So maybe it’s your period..
Dont worry..

Linda asks…

Is it safe to do a daniel fast if you think you might be pregnant?

It has been six week since my last cycle. I’m rather regular, stress usually affects my hair so, I’m 99.9999% sure that I am pregnant. My pastor called for a 21 day Daniel Fast starting last sunday. I am planning on going to the doctor monday to take a pregnancy test get my .0001%. The daniel fast although is an all natural diet- no meat, no dairy, no processed foods, no sugar non of that sort.

Michelle answers:

Don’t under any circumstances do this if you are pregnant. You are depriving your baby of all the goodness it needs to thrive. How will you live with yourself if by doing this you affect the growth and health of your unborn child.

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Lisa asks…

My period is late 8 days?? what should I do to regulate it???

ok I have been TTC with no luck for 7 months now, anyway I used a pregnancy test on the 27th of Oct. and it came negative. But now its 8 days late??? I dont want to spend my $ again on those stupid tests, and I dont want to get dissapointed again. My breasts are sore and have little but rare cramping??? ohhh and its not stress because I havent even been thinking of pregnancy anymore 🙂 ? should I buy that natural pills called fertilaid to regulate my periods again???

Michelle answers:

I think you might be pregnant. Have you been to the doctor? I think you should relax and go and see one if you haven’t. Stress can delay your period but if you haven’t been late before I think you might have some good news. My friend’s period was 3 weeks late and her home pregnancy test came back negative. Get advice from your doctor about fertilaid. Good luck to you.

Joseph asks…

Been ttc now I’m 3 days late!?

I’m now scared to take pregnancy test incase it’s positive! Is it natural to feel like this? if I am I’ll be happy but I am scared!

Also last week I got a urine test as I had a U.T.I would it have come up in it if I was preggo?

Thanks in advance!

Michelle answers:

Hey! Just test i was super nervous then got my BFP and was so scared and cried and then once it settled in i was elated!

Im 1dpo and cant wait the 2 weeks to do a test!

Let me know what you got! And dont worry about the UTI your dr will help you if you are pregnant but many women get uti’s in pregnancy!

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Michael asks…

A question for women who already have kids…?

I tried looking it up, but all I could find were questions asking how long after sex can you take a pregnancy test… so here goes five points.

I’m a first time mom, due in July, and just wondering what sex feels like the first time after having a child given that it’s a natural birth, not a cesarean. Does it feel different, or hurt because you’ve been stretched? Just curious!

Michelle answers:

Some people say its alright the first time but for both my kids it hurt after..but you have to get back on the horse to get used to it! Use alot of lube the first couple of times. By the way my first was born in july ;).
Congrats.

Donald asks…

How Far Along Am I !!?

I recently had a miscarriage on Dec. 2 ending in a natural m.c. not a D&C. We waited 2 weeks and had sex again a few times. I took a pregnancy test then to confirm that the hormones had lowered to an undetectable level so if I did get pregnant the tests later on would be right. The day before yesterday I took two tests that said I was pregnant again. Since I dont know when I ovulated I dont know how far along I am. Thanks for any advice!
ovulation is different after a miscarriage then a regular cycle. I want to know if any woman have had this problem and how they could tell how far a long they were.
Like I said I took a 2 neg pregnancy tests about 2 weeks ago that told me my hormones went down. Now the tests say I am pregnant so I know that I am.
FYI: I had an ultra sound done to confirm the baby had completely passed after the miscarriage.

Michelle answers:

Your pregnancy test may have came back positive, because you are still carrying enough of the HCG hormone in your system, to give you a positive reading, even if your not pregnant.
It usually teks 6 wks for your hcg hormone levels to go back to normal so i wouldnt think to much about being pregnant just yet just to be let down and find out your not pregnant and if you was to be pregnant this early after a misscarrige it could happen again. Your supose to wait a few months for your body, to return to normal. After a miscarriage your supose to wait untill all the bleeding and spotting to quit before having sex. Which is usually 6 to 8 wks after. I know you said you took a test to confirm that you levels had lowered but thats very uncommon unless you wasnt but a few wks pregnant. But if you are pregnant id say your about only 2 wks which would be pretty early to detect on a home test. That would put you at having sex around the 16th and giving 3-4 days for sperm to reach the egg so lets say concieved date around the 20th so about 2 wks and 5 days

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Your Questions About Fox 23

David asks…

fox 23 news Tulsa Oklahoma?

news stories by Abbie Alford

Michelle answers:

Got a crush on her? 😉

Ruth asks…

What is wrong with fox tv it was not on the air yesterday it comes over air from cape girardeau channel 23?

Michelle answers:

Perhaps they had a temporary broadcast problem.

Mark asks…

One fox killed 23 of my chickens 2 rabbits & bert the ferret in one night so why do they get so much sympathy?

If they were wolves & it was children they wer killing the hunt would be considered an essential service….. well Bert the ferret was like a furry son to me & the rabbits wer his sisters the chickens his mad aunties. As you can see i love animals as much as the next man but when i see that fox he will be shot (the BA@#ARD)

Michelle answers:

I agree absolutely. It is urban people who like foxes as they never have any dealings with them. I watched a whole litter of bunnies die when I was unsuccessful in feeding them after their mother was one of many rabbits killed by a fox when I lived in London. Now I live in the country, I am pleased if I just wing one of these devil creatures as I draw comfort from thoughts of its lingering death.

Betty asks…

What was the name of the choir on Fox NFL Pregame show 12/23?

Michelle answers:

Ask Fox good luck http://msn.foxsports.com/feedback

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Test

Sharon asks…

Did anyone else skip their glucose test and some prenatal visits?

This is my third pregnancy. I feel fantastic and just began my 3rd trimester. My baby moves a lot Ive gained 16 pounds and ulrasounds and bloodworks perfect. So I feel like this glucose test isnt that important and I dont feel like going to the docs just to get weighed and lsten to the heartbeat ( i have a device to do that from home. I work for myself doing daycare and refuse to take time off unless its an emergency. I feel like a woman who is in tune with her body and is experienced has good judgment enough to know when its time to be seen my a doctor. I like the natural approach. Did anyone else feel this way?

Michelle answers:

In a way yes I do feel as you except a responsible woman must read up about her body and the tests she is choosing not to take and talking it over perhaps with a lay midwife or naturopathic physician. If not then in my opinion one is being ignorant and lazy. I believe however, that an informed woman who knows her body due to the disciplined education on the subject that she has spent untold hours pouring through and understands the risks, as well as understands the responses a body gives if it where to go out of whack and what they mean then ok, go for the naturazl route. In my opinion though the best route is managed care through a naturopathic doctor and midwife so you have the freedom to make such choices within a structured knowledgable setting. As far as I go, I procrastinate to the ends of the earth due to my distrust of the modern medical establishment and hatrred of needles, but I have done sooo much reading on this subject that I find myself knowing more than the doctors, more often than not as well as knowing a good heaping dose of herbology and naturopathic and midwiferey medicine. I had gestational diabetes in the past and automatically go on my own modified gestation diabetes diet when I become pregnant, that this past pregnancy I should of by all accounts tested positive after 2 gestational diabetic pregnancies, but I beat it and didn’t have it according to thier tests, which is unheard of! If going natural is your preference then please find yourself a lay midwife, they are in all states to my knowledge just do a search. I would trust these powerful women with my body any day over a phd. If you do not conform to your doctors tests there is a very real danger of them or the hospital calling child protective services, it has happened and in certain cases they have kept the mother from taking her baby home! Which I think is idiotic since isn’t it supposed to be her body to do what she wants with?? You have the right to kill your unborn child but if you don’t see a doctor for prenatals your negligent… What a crock.

Jenny asks…

Whats the deal?? PLEASE HELP?

I had a natural m/c at 6 weeks on Aug. 5th. A blood test confirmed that my hcg level were completely gone. I took a clear blue digital pregnancy test last Saturday, 11 days after conception and it was positive followed by two more positive tests from First Response. Today I took another clear blue test and it’s negative but I haven’t had my period or bled anything.

Michelle answers:

There are such things as false negatives and if this is 10 past conception, it is possible the negative test was not sensitive enough to detect your HCG levels this soon.

I would schedule a blood test because you are most likely pregnant and you will want to start prenatal care sooner than most since you just miscarried and the Dr’s may want to monitor you more closely.

Your regular Dr can perform the blood test if you cant get in to your OB/gyn right away.. Once you have confirmation, you can tell your ob/gyn you had a blood test and you are in fact pregnant, just recently miscarried and want to start prenatal care early.

Take it easy, don’t do any strenuous activity or lifting and stay off your feet at night as much as possible until you know for sure and to make sure that all is OK.

I hope congratulations are in order and I wish a safe and healthy pregnancy.

Daniel asks…

What are the chances?

I had sex for the first time, I’m not on birth control but we used a condom. I really nervous and I’m sure that’s natural after your first time but how long until I can use a pregnancy test and be sure that I’m no pregnant? What are signs of pregnancy? PLEASE HELP

Michelle answers:

First there is no need to be afraid; since you used a condom. These days most condoms are reliable. You may have to wait for 45 days to get a test. You may get the periods before that.

Steven asks…

Need some advice women, please, did I fail or am I again??!?!?!?

Okay I just posted….

Miscarriage on August 16th – 19th

Ovulation (according to almost everyone) – August 30th (14 days after miscarriage)….

September 1st-3rd …. light bleeding, started off brownish then got pinkish – only when wiped and periodically throughout the day, sometimes when wiped, sometimes not – no panty liner needed.

period like cramping around 7th & 8th this month….

more period cramping around 28 days after miscarriage (when menses was suposed to start) 13th/14th this month….

Had an early miscarriage last month, lost pregnancy around implantation, but body expelled 2 1/2 weeks later…natural miscarriage, levels followed down to 0…..everything great, doc said try again!!

(Increase in cervical discharge for the past 3 weeks)

Pregnancy test tonight – (2 tests) “Answer” brand, both negative…. if I would have ovulated the 30th or 31st of August wouldn’t a home test show positive by now, if I am pregnant again?? (sexually active since MC)
first of all lil_guicho, I am 23 and have 3 children (healthy mind you) – and you’re wrong, they come before anything, I was given the “go ahead” by my doctor – so please take your rubbish somewhere else darling 🙂

Michelle answers:

Well you must be a youngster because that is a tramatizing thing for some women. I mean having sex so soon after a miscarriage goes to show you dont really care about anyone but yourself. And what if you are pregnant? Then you have another one? I’m not trying to be mean but i just seems like your too young to realize what being pregnant is all about. I would just ask your doctor and they can tell you everything you need to know. Good Luck though!

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