Am I pregnant? What do I do? Help?

Everyone makes mistakes in life, I know.. and I made a really bad one. I made a HUGE mistake.. Please don’t leave rude comments about how I’m this and that.. I just want some help. I’m 14.. and I have a 16yr old boyfriend, we just wanted to try it to see what it feels like. He’s not a bad guy, he’s really sweet..We looked up some stuff, and on the website (I forgot) it said “Scientist proved there was no sperm on pre-c*m” …so we just wanted to try it, the next day, we looked it up again, and it said it did, like 50/50. He wasn’t even close to going all the way, though Im scared to death about being pregnant. Please.. It was wrong of me doing it, and I just want someone to talk to. Ya, I know, why don’t I talk to my parents about it, because terrified.. I’m afraid my mom might have a heart attach because of it, her heart is really weak.. One though, Im a little confused, pre-c*m has a chance of making you pregnant.. at the same time though, Im using ‘protopic ointment’ for my eczema. And on the symptoms it says: flu-like symptoms; headache. (That’s not all) and Ive been having headaches (I get them a lot natural) and flu- like symptoms. Im been sneezing and having a runny nose a lot. BUT, I also have a low immune system, so I get sick easily as well. Im been checking my temperature, and its been around 98.7 – 99.7, mostly up in the mid 90s… my normal temp is high 97/ low 98. Im so confused.. Im scared.. :'( Please don’t judge me and give me speech’s and all that, I just want some help. So far, its been only one week since I did it.. I look up the symptoms on pregnancy, and it says high temperature. That’s the only thing my body is showing, nothing else, but doesn’t flu- like symptoms have high temperature too..? Please.. help.. :'(
I know I could be pregnant, but I want to know.. what making me temperature so high? I don’t want to have a baby… please.. just some help.. If I am pregnant, what do I do? I don’t want my parents to know.. please.. :'(
Could I be sick..? I did swim while It was raining…

it been four years since I had a newborn need some advice?

Right now I am trying to get my memory on baby things. Last time I had a baby was four years ago. I am 16 weeks along in this pregnancy and everything is going so well. I think I can’t drive for a week after having natural birth I think, The question is how much newborn size diapers should I stock up before I had this baby. Right now I have two package of 40 counts of newborn size. Total 80 for right now. I can’t remember how many diaper the baby went through. I am planning to breastfeed. Should I get more newborn size diapers and just open one package a time and incase the baby outgrows them. Or you think the baby go through more then 80 diapers in one week. When the baby born it be winter time. I know they grow fast. My youngest is four year old and I still can’t believe he not a baby anymore. Thanks this help me decide on the diapers. I be stocking on them not just newborns size up to size two I think.

What would you do if you were in my shoes (10 fast points for best answer)?

Alright I’m facing a real problem here. This is pretty hard to go through. My girlfriend is extremely concerned about being pregnant but the problem is it might not be my child. So here is our situation.

She had a devastating breakup about 7 months ago with her boyfriend of two years. He once told her he loved her, and although she won’t admit it I think he just told he loved her so he could have sex with her. He broke her heart saying hes not in love with her anymore, and she didn’t understand it. I don’t know the whole story but the friendship they had ended when he called her dirt, spat on her. And slept with her best friend.

Now during those months she was devastated she was heart broken, and she couldn’t trust guys she hated guys. She would spend a lot of nights getting drunk and having one night stands. Most of them mistakes. My guess is she was taken advantage of a lot of time. But at the same time shes very sexual so she didn’t put up much of a fight.

Two months ago when she now knew me but she just had a crush on me. I didn’t make a move as quickly as she would of liked. She ended up having one last night one stand . Her mom just had her start birth control, and she had unprotected sex. She told the guy make sure he pulled out but he never did. Instead he stopped pretty early and told her she needs to take a break. And he just left, she thinks he went in her

Couple weeks later I made a move. At the time I didn’t know much about her past. She was really sweet and cute and appeared innocent at work. All I really knew is she had the biggest crush on me and it was no secret. She is absolutely beautiful so how could I resist.

Everything felt so natural and came together quickly. She has fallen in love with me, she trusts me. And I am exactly what shes looking for. The one thing that’s always been weird is. Every single time we have had sex its been unprotected. Shes on birth control but we have never had protected sex. We talked about condoms but she never pushed them on me, and in her past all her sex was protected before this one guy and of course me. The difference being every time I have pulled out and we have had sex about 25-30 times now.

So she thinks shes pregnant. She often feels tired, she has to pee a lot, her breast are tender, and we have both noticed they have gotten bigger. She didn’t have her period this weekend when it was expected and still has not had it. And apparently she had her period after she was with this guy and with me but she says it could be break through bleeding and it was not her actual period.

So Thursday we are going to get her a pregnancy test. I have been really supportive of her. But things are not looking good these are noticeable changes and its scary. I have to be supportive and make her feel better, but at the same this is tearing me up. The girl I love can be carrying a baby and that should be wonderful. But not at this point in my life. I’m 19 years old and not ready for this. She is 16 is definitely not ready for this.

The only hope is that she took a Plan B after what happened with this guy. She was hoping that was the end of it. We are going to find out Thursday for sure. She has already asked me if I would take her to get her an abortion so her mom would never know. I don’t know if I can do that, but its her decision and I have to support her.

This is extremely difficult, please need some opinions or answers or something. I honestly don’t know what to do. If its my kid I don’t want her to get an abortion. But if its not I don’t know what I want. I don’t want to be the father of a bastard child that’s not mine. I don’t want her to kill the baby though. I don’t know what to do.

10 points for best answer please offer some advise or support or something. I will reward points as soon as possible.

how strong are condoms?

i know what they do etc etc but now im worried. ya know most guys plan on using them when they are older but its at the point where im doubting them. i mean i know they can break but how do they break. if ya use oil it breaks, if the temperature isnt right itll break etc etc i mean with the hormones kickin in i wanna use one when im young i dont wanna wait 10 years for marriage or something(well its natural) i know some girls use the pill but some of them lie about it and my parents said to always make sure they use the pill and ON top of being scared the condom is gonna break its like im gonna have to wait until im married. right now im asking how do condoms break,how to stop them from breaking and other ways of preventing pregnancy AND DONT SAY ABSTINENCE!! its like telling a man to go without food…….-.-