Helen asks…
Whats going on!? Pregnant or not?!?
Firstly, i’d like to say sorry for reposting this 🙁
Hi! So i haven’t had sex for 3-4months and the last time i did, the condom broke. but he didnt ejaculate yet(because it was 5 mins into sex) and he pulled it right out. So for a while i was freaking out and got this weird brown spotting that lasted for a week with boob pain and then i got an actual strong period(it was stronger than usual cause i skipped a month due to my irregular period) and it lasted the normal amount of days a period lasts too. Then i took a pregnancy test just cause I read online that you could have a natural looking period and still be pregnant, and it came out negative. And now i’ve been having that spotting again, without the boob aching and its a little heavier than the spotting i had last time and its been going on for 2 weeks! Last time it lasted 1 week. What is this? Am i pregnant or something?! this is so weird. Is there a possiblity i could be pregnant without symptoms and even though i took a pregnancy test after a period? :/ Please help! lol i feel like this could be old blood? What do you think? But idk I feel stressed about it. My boyfriend said theres no way i could be pregnant, but i really want to make sure instead of stressing and scaring myself. I can’t get a HPT yet, but i will as soon as possible. I really just want to hear your opinions of whats going on. Thank you, and please no sarcasm.
And i know i could just be stressing myself out, but sorry, i honestly would get a HPT if i could right now. But i really just need opinions to ease my mind a little bit.
Michelle answers:
It’s really doubtful that you are pregnant. Some women have bleeding during implantation, but that would be a week after you conceived. If you haven’t had sex in 3-4 months, than the bleeding you’re having now wouldn’t be from that. You would’ve had it months ago. On top of that, implantation bleeding is only noticed by 30% of women, and it’s only a light spotting that generally happens once. It doesn’t usually go on for days, or get any heaver. Most women don’t even notice it if they aren’t looking for it.
That being said, can you still have a heavy bleeding & be pregnant? Yes, but it’s rare. It’s not something you should really worry about. If you were 3-4 months pregnant, you would have actual pregnancy symptoms, and bleeding really isn’t a common one. You’d have nausea, high sensitivity to smells, cravings, weight gain, constipation, changes in your skin/hair/nails, any many other things. Not all pregnant women get all these symptoms, but you’d probably have some.
Lastly, if you haven’t had sex in 3-4 months you would have a positive pregnancy test. While it can take a few days passed a missed period to turn up a positive test, you would certainly have one by now.
Try not to overly read stuff online. Based on what you’ve said, you’re probably not pregnant. Since you said you skipped a cycle, and have irregular periods, that is most likely what is contributing to your odd bleeding right now. Skipping cycles means your ovulation is skipping, and it can come on lighter or heavier in following months. If you continue having cycle issues, that would be something to get checked out simply to get you on a regular schedule so you don’t have to worry about pregnancy. It is far far more likely that your issues are based on your irregular cycles than on pregnancy. Good luck!
Sandy asks…
Whats going on!? Pregnant or not?!?
Firstly, i’d like to say sorry for reposting this 🙁
Hi! So i haven’t had sex for 3-4months and the last time i did, the condom broke. but he didnt ejaculate yet(because it was 5 mins into sex) and he pulled it right out. So for a while i was freaking out and got this weird brown spotting that lasted for a week with boob pain and then i got an actual strong period(it was stronger than usual cause i skipped a month due to my irregular period) and it lasted the normal amount of days a period lasts too. Then i took a pregnancy test just cause I read online that you could have a natural looking period and still be pregnant, and it came out negative. And now i’ve been having that spotting again, without the boob aching and its a little heavier than the spotting i had last time and its been going on for 2 weeks! Last time it lasted 1 week. What is this? Am i pregnant or something?! this is so weird. Is there a possiblity i could be pregnant without symptoms and even though i took a pregnancy test after a period? :/ Please help! lol i feel like this could be old blood? What do you think? But idk I feel stressed about it. My boyfriend said theres no way i could be pregnant, but i really want to make sure instead of stressing and scaring myself. I can’t get a HPT yet, but i will as soon as possible. I really just want to hear your opinions of whats going on. Thank you, and please no sarcasm.
And i know i could just be stressing myself out, but sorry, i honestly would get a HPT if i could right now. But i really just need opinions to ease my mind a little bit.
Michelle answers:
Relax, you’re not pregnant. You’re just freaking yourself out.
Mandy asks…
16 and have a baby.. worried about my boyfriend not being here?
i’m in year 11 at high school & my boyfriend matty is in year 12 (sixth form). we’ve just had a little girl called paige.
we didn’t plan to have a baby this young, it was a complete accident, but i don’t regret it one bit, i wouldn’t change my life at all. me and matty have been together since april 2009 and he promised to stand by me and the baby when she was born. he was brilliant throughout the pregnancy & was there for me when i had a completely natural birth.
but ever since then he hasn’t really been here for us. she was born on the 4th of april so she’s only a few days old. (she’s asleep atm which is why i’m on this and not spending time with her).
he lives with his parents and i live with my parents. we are financially ok, we both have jobs so we get enough money to provide for paige. but obviously, that money isn’t enough to buy our own place to live. he lives 45 minutes away from me so i understand why he can’t be here all the time. but he’s only seen her 4 times since she was born and thats still only for like an hour or so each time.
my sister had her son when she was 18 & she said that her boyfriend was exactly the same. that guys this young, when they become dads, they just need a bit of time and space, that they need to get their head around it all, and that matty will eventually realise that family is important.
i just don’t want him to not see her and then regret it in the future. i don’t know what to do, please help? :
Michelle answers:
If he’s seen her 4 times since she was born 3 days ago, that’s twice a day (presuming he hasn’t been this morning), which is plenty. He can’t be at your house constantly, but a couple of hours a day is far more than what most new fathers give if they live away from the baby. Think rationally for a minute – he spends 90 minutes travelling per trip, plus 60 minutes with you, twice a day. That’s 5 hours a day he’s devoting to you and the baby, whilst presumably preparing for his exams and finishing off coursework and going to school. Plus, it hasn’t been a weekend yet. On Saturday, invite him to stay overnight at your house so you three can get some bonding time as a family, or at least get him to stay all day
Sharon asks…
1st time mommy survey?
1. WAS YOUR FIRST (SUCCESSFUL) PREGNANCY PLANNED?
2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME?
3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS?
4. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
5. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
6. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
8. DUE DATE?
9. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
10. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
11. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
12. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD’S SEX?
13. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING?
14. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
15. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
16. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
17. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
18.HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR?
20. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
21. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
22. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
23. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
24. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN?
26. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER?
27. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
Michelle answers:
1. Yes my pregnancy was planned with my first pregnancy now not quite .
2.No was not married
3.I was so scared and happy when i first found out .
4.I was twenty six and now i am twenty seven
5.I threw up a million times other than that there were no other sympoms. I am still throwing up !
6.I told my fiance now husband
7.yes it was my first and was so excited
8.my due date was april fifteenth but he was born on april tweleth
9.YES All my pregnancy had morning sickness !
10.My first i craved cheetos , my second i craved gummi bears , Now with my third i am raving nothing really !
11.What irritated me the most was that people came up to me and just started touching my stomach ! I hated that !
12.Boy i named him Christopher
13.I did not really care !
14.I am not quite sure
15.yes like a million . Since it was my first my family gave me five i think . It was crazy !
16. It was a suprise for almost all of them.
17.Yes .Chris had his imbilical cord wraped around his neck three times. That resulted in to a emergency c section .
18.I was in labour not that long . I think it was seven or five hours . I am not sure i do not remember . ALl i remember is that it hurt a lot !
20.My husband (then fiance)
21.MY husband (then fiance )
22.C section
23.yes epiddural
24. April tweleth
26.I named him Christopher MAtthew
27. He is fourteen months my second is seven months and am currently pregnant twelve weeks with one . Do not know the sex yet . D
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