Should I get my boobs done?

Alrit so im 21 years old and before my daughter i had a 32 B cup size… i am a very petite girl keep in mind… post pregnancy I am a 34 A barely and i feel although my womanhood has been taken from me. Nothing fits right and i just feel so uncurvy it sucks. Im starting college in september and put a lot of consideration into getting an augmentation to a full B cup.. (34 B) my question is, cud anyone who has them or has known sumone who has them tell me if they are a pain? or feel alright? can they make it look natural? I am a skinny girl… i just wanna feel like a woman again! Is it worth going through the procedure and spending the money?

No PMS symptoms after a decade of regular menses cycle?

I’ve been having my menses pretty regularly since the age of 12. I am 22 years old… Every month around 5-6 days after I ovulate, I start getting my PMS symptoms which are much like early pregnancy signs, lethargic, sore breast, bloating and a big appetite. This month, nothing besides nasty mood swings. My boyfriend and I had sex 2 days before I ovulated and we found out the condom broke when we woke up in the morning and saw it in the garbage! I just wanted to know if not having PMS symptoms can be considered a pregnancy sign. I know that everyone’s body is different but I’m hoping someone can help me demystify my lacking of PMS symptoms. I would also appreciate responses from women who are in tuned with their bodies or just have a lot of experience and womanly wisdom… No teenage girls please.

Also, around 7 days past ovulation I randomly felt this quick sharp pain in my cervix-uterus area and it was continued with a dull cramping feeling the rest of the night. I also get these tugging/fluttery sensations in my uterus. And the only time I really feel activity in my uterus which I consider natural is when the egg passes through the fallopian tubes and then the couple of minutes before my period actually starts flowing. I know my body very well for a young woman my age, and one thing I could always count on were my PMS symptoms and period starting when they are expected. This is the first time that I have very little PMS symptoms. And I am normally a moody person so I am a little freaked out.
** On top of being a bit moody, I am also a sleepy head so I wouldn’t rely on these as early pregnancy symptoms. That’s why no change in appetite, no sore boobs, and barely any bloating is very strange for me.
I also have a dull lower back pain but it only comes around if I am lifting things during cleaning or sit in the same position for too long.

I rarely get periods and now think I could be pregnant, but how do I make sure?

Hi,

I’m 27 years old and like normal girls, I started my periods when I was 13. They were pretty light, but thought nothing of it. As I got older, some years, I was lucky if I got a full 12 months worth and would be so happy when I got one, as it reassured me that I’m a fully functioning woman! I went on the pill and that regularized them, but I came off it last December after meeting my partner who urged me to be natural and I agreed with him that I wanted to begin to prepare my body for having children. Since then, I have only had 2 periods (Feb and March). Understanding that periods revert back to how they were before going on the pill, I have recently been to the Dr who carried out blood tests to see if I was suffering from PCOS. The results came back normal and so I don’t really know what has always caused me to have such a shortage of periods…

In addition to this, I now worry that I could possibly be pregnant. My partner and I, although we’re not trying, are not particularly careful (as I am convinced that I am less fertile than other women). Last week however, I experienced pink streaky spotting after sex. This was the only occasion and led me to link it with intercourse we had about a week and a half before. This week, I have also been getting painful bloating (as though I would be about to start my period), getting headaches, having an odd appetite (noticeable lack of) and finding it really hard to get out of bed in the morning. I also have quite a lot of white discharge, which can sometimes be quite watery (which I initially thought was thrush). There is no odour. My skin is also looking really bad (more spots than normal). The main thing, is that I can’t use my periods as an indicator, and the two pregnancy tests I’ve done this week have shown up as negative. I plan to test again next week and keep an eye on the discharge.

I know it sounds like a mixed bag, but I really don’t understand what’s happening inside my body at the moment. I’d really love to hear from anyone who has or is going through a similar thing…

Thank you,

Baby surname question?

My friend and his girlfriend had a child and they weren’t married. My friend was very much in love with this woman and wanted to marry her as soon as they found out she was pregnant. The woman kept changing her mind about it but finally said no because it was too soon. She said they could stay girlfriend and boyfriend. I knew that this hurt my friend pretty badly but there wasn’t much he could do. For a whole bunch of reasons their relationship started to fall apart during the pregnancy, with a lot of anger and harsh words exchanged between the two of them. I’m sure they were both to blame. Long story short, their baby was born and my friend is now the dutiful dad. He’s not with the mother (things never got better and I think he loathes her at this point) but he is there for his child emotionally, physically and economically. He does everything for that kid. He is still single.

Here’s the problem and question. The mother is divorced, has no kids from the old marriage, but she still uses her married name. When the baby was born, she decided to give the child her married surname. She didn’t want the baby to have my friend’s surname even though my friend wanted it and even though he believes that the child should have the natural father’s name. (There’s no doubt he’s the father.) My friend is extremely angry at her right now, but it was also her legal right to give the baby whatever name she wanted because they were not married. According to her, this is all about my friend’s wounded ego and his control issues.

A year and a half went by and now she tells my friend that maybe—maybe—she’ll agree to a hyphenated name for the child so he’ll quit harassing her. So the child’s name would be a hyphenation of my friend’s surname (natural father) with her current surname (name from her previous marriage). But she adamantly refuses to give the baby the father’s surname only. She also doesn’t want to revert to her maiden name (don’t know why) and give the child the maiden name. He’s tired of arguing with her and he wants to avoid lawyers and court, but he also wants to do what is right for the child. She sounds like a nutcase to me, but I told my friend that this still might be a fair compromise. Has anyone else heard of a case like this? I hope I’m giving him the right advice.