Mandy asks…
What does this sound like to you? WOMAN ONLY PLEASE!?
Their for a while I had severe menstrual problems, I didn’t have a period for 1 1/2 years being only 20 years old. I had everything checked out bunches of blood tests and all the perfect ” so my doctor said.” She gave me a progesterone challenge 10mg for 7 days to see if it would induce a period and it worked, well she suggested i start taking a natural progesterone cream for 10 days starting the 15th day of my cycle, well day 3 of taking the cream i started my period again, that cycle was 27 days long..Well i thought i found a solution but i was suppose to start my period a week ago and it never came. My husband and i have had unprotected sex quite a bit throughout that cycle but i don’t really suspect pregnancy because i do not have any symptoms at all, breast are a tiny bit tender but that it is, usually i don’t even get soar bb’s befor my period..Anybody ever experienced this and found the problem???What do you think it could be, just your opinion..thanks so much guys!
Michelle answers:
Some women do not get any symptoms at all when they first become pregnant. Each woman is different. So I would suggest taking a home pregnancy test anyway just to rule that out.
If you’re not I would go see the doctor again. Did they check that you were actually ovulating? Sometimes your period can be delayed for ages if you are not ovulating. Are you trying to conceive? If you are, maybe talk to your doctor about this. As if you are not ovulating you may need something to induce ovulation. This would also help to regulate your periods.
But best thing to to first is take a pregnancy test just to make sure! Good luck!
Richard asks…
I have been TTC for 8 months.?
I have a three year old son. I graduated college in 2009 and just bought my first house in March of 2010, and i am so ready to have another child. I have been TTC for Eight month’s now, and have had no luck. I have sex with my husband four to six times a week, i haven’t been on any birth control for almost two years. I don’t understand what i am doing wrong. With my first child it was not planned and just happened, i wish it was that easy this time around. What are some of the thing’s you woman have done out there to increase your chances? I want the most natural way to get pregnant, the most natural pregnancy and the most natural birth. So i am open to all answers. Thanks ladies:) Personal experiences are more so what i am looking for.
Also, i’m pretty sure my husband and i are fertile, seeing as how we both have three year old’s with different people.
Michelle answers:
I’ve been TTC for two years now. Both me and my husband have been tested for everything that can mak pregnancy not happen, and neither one of us have any issues. I use Ovulation tests, elevate my hips after sex…EVRYTHING, and nothing works. Sometimes I give up for a couple of monts and I don’t get pregnant then, either.
Like it or not, there is only a 20-25% chance of getting pregnant every time you have sex. And that percentage is when all conditions are PERFECT. The best things you can do is just relax as much as you can and enjoy the process of baby making.
Even though you have had kids before doesn’t mean that something can’t be up now. I would go to the OB, just to have them run the usual tests to make sure everything is fine.
John asks…
Why Many Women think the only way to prevent pregnancy is For men to wear condom or not have sex?
I am 29 years old. have never had sex cause i’m a shy guy and i dont really have chances to meet women. But i dream of it and so this question came about.
Many women seem to think that the only way to prevent pregnancies is to not have sex or use condoms. Or sometimes people have dry sex but with the Man positioning himself directly as if penetrating the vagina.
Well, why not look outside of that box? I personaly would be satisfied by penetrating between the thighs.. lower down, far away from the vagina. Or in the breasts or whatever. No condom needed and yet can have full awesome sex with no worries about pregancy or anything.
I kno w , i know… some of you may say it’s difficult because once yo’re with a girl it’s really difficult to not do what is natural( vaginal penetration) butt if the guy has mind control , there should be no problem.
Michelle answers:
Most girls in serious relationships seem to go on the pill.
Condoms are good b/c they prevent pregnancy and STDs. If she’s into the casual hook ups w/ guys she may not know very well, then she’s going to want him to use condoms.
You’re assuming that all men can’t stand the idea of wearing a condom, which is funny to me. Guys that go for the casual hook ups like wearing condoms too. And it’s the same thing, where if it’s something serious then it’s better for her to go on the pill.
Lisa asks…
Someone here at R&S said that a 2 month old fetus is not a “child”, therefore abortion is OK.?
Do you agree to this idea? If you do, what would you say to a woman who had a natural miscarriage at the 2nd month of pregnancy and is grieving? Would you say “No big deal, it was not a child anyway” something like that?
I am trying to understand what is the difference between a 2 month old fetus for a woman who chooses to make an abortion from a woman who loves the baby from the day one…
The same person said that since the baby can’t survive outside the womb, abortion is OK… Isn’t it cruel? Is it OK to kill every vegetative form of life at our own will?
I ask all these questions because I am shocked…
Esoteric, if you are a man, I ask you do you know what is to be pregnant? Do you know what is having an abortion? By your statement, I can tell you are one of those guys that leave a woman when she is pregnant… would you?
Labgrrl, I know it is not a fetus yet. I was just using the same words the person did. It is an embryo, I am a woman and I had 4 children. You can call it the name you want, that doesn’t change what I meant.
Kent, that “person” was a cat? I am sorry for your loss and I am happy you can have sentiments.
Pangel, I agree with you. Actually, what I fear the most is how banal abortion can become, like getting rid of a pimple. “Oooops, I am pregnant, I dont’ want it, I was drunk, I was partying, I was irresponsible, well, let me get rid of this tumour because I have my college to think about…” You know that 98% of abortion is made by women who was simply not responsible enough to avoid the pregnancy, or just had fun with a non-supportive man, and ultimately she is under emotional pressure and hormone battle, not thinking properly… Those are the cases that I am more concerned… Each situation is a different situation and only God would judge, but choosing abortion for convenience or selfishness… in my point of view is a huge mistake that the person will have consequences one day.
Godbotnot, I’ve never been through that… I am not sure what I would do, but my spiritual belief tells me I would have the baby regardless. I would give the baby the chance to come to this world and make the rapist life something worthy.
auntb93, I am so sorry… I am sure it was not an easy decision. God bless you!
Matt J, miscarriage is a natural process though. It is God’s will! It is like a heart attack, stroke, or whatever. I can’t even grasp your concept of suicide here… Is the baby hanging himself at the umbilical cord?? I don’t think so…
I’m Atheist, I totally agree with you…
Baptist, the morning after pill, for your information, the baby was not conceived yet. The sperm joins the egg after 48 hours after the sexual encounter. The morning after pill makes the woman hurry with her period, so that the spem finds nothing on the next day… No, it is not abortion…
Michelle answers:
Abortion is not “OK,” but a last resort when necessary. As to the grieving, that takes place when you abort by a doctor’s intervention as well as a spontaneous abortion, which is usually called a miscarriage
I had an abortion the summer before I was due to start college because I could see no sensible alternative, and because the people who were willing to pay for an abortion (the boy’s parents) were unwilling to pay for any other option. But I grieved for my lost opportunity, and still regret that I never had a child, and so do not have grandchildren to amuse me in my old age. Someone to inherit my books and DVDs and my doll collection, my memorabilia, my story.
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