Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Products

Jenny asks…

Has anyone used this product???

Arnywear!!!!

http://www.arnywear.co.in

Is there any other 100% natural mosquito repellent which is safe during pregnancy and for new born baby????

Michelle answers:

I live in Bangalore and tried everthing trust me the best thing is arnywear

the product is the best for outdoor-indoor my 2 year old kid loves it.

Few things that says the product is worth
1)it has been clinically tested and proven by the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine
2) Boots(the top health shop in UK)
3) Mothercare sells it in UK

Mark asks…

sleepless and pregnant… are there gentle and safe sleep aids i can take?

so far it seems ppl. are saying that benedryl, ANY tylenol product ( hmm… really??),gravol, and i think ambient are ok during pregnancy. what has your Dr. said is ok to take to help you fall asleep? i am unsure about taking herbal stuff as some can be more potent and less tested then chemical junk. Do you know of any tested, gentle and proven safe natural sleep aids
p.s.
margaux the link you gave requires i download a trojan horse virus. no thanks!!!!

Michelle answers:

You can take tylenol pm, i took this while i was pregnant and it helped like a charm! 🙂

William asks…

Fertility Question..previous pregnancies gone wrong??

I have had one blighted ovum and one miscarriage, I know I’m able to get pregnant, but keeping them is a problem. I was hoping that someone would be able to help me out by recommending a good NATURAL fertility enhancer/support product?

Michelle answers:

There really isn’t any. The only thing that comes to mind is progesterone cream. Progesterone is the hormone that is produced after ovulation to help support any possible pregnancy. After you are actually pregnant, your body should be able to produce enough progesterone to support the early pregnancy until the placenta takes over in providing nutrition. If you have your progesterone levels taken after you are pregnant, and they read low, you can take progesterone supposatories or injections, or use rubbing cream to supplement. If you don’t have a problem with producing progesterone, then this won’t help you.

Remember that every egg and sperm are different. If one or the other is chromasonally abnormal, it will create an abnormal embryo. Usually an abnormal embryo will degenerate on it’s own, without implanting, but sometimes it does implant and cause you to be pregnant. In this case, the body usually rejects the pregnancies in order to prevent a baby with birth defect and to protect the mother.

In the average male, about 10% of the sperm are normally shaped. 1 in 5 eggs produced by a female is viable for fertilization.

Sharon asks…

Has anyone used a product called lerosett for acne during pregnancy?

Anyone recommend anything else that is natural and safe?

thankyou!

Michelle answers:

Idk if that is safe, I also never heard of it.

When I was first pregnant I washed my face with baby soap and Apricot Scrub. But with stress adding on as I got further along I would get random breakouts. I have this marvelous mint face mask that I also use on my belly. [I have this really gross heat rash] It feels good after you take it off your face and it feels SUPER good after you take it off your belly too. The air hits the mint extract and you get a cool sensation.

I am just a crazy pregnant lady I guess…. 😀

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Your Questions About Oldest Woman Natural Pregnancy

William asks…

Do you think doctor care during pregnancy is important?

I have heard of a lot of women who decline doctor care when pregnant. Their excuse is they want it ‘completely natural” and that “women have been having babies without doctors for centuries”. My opinion is, while they did have babies without docs for a while, there were also more still borns and dead mothers. I just don’t understand why someone would decline a doctor (or midwife), tests, ultrasounds, and anything possible to ensure that their baby is born healthy. I’m not talking about women who use midwifes or the ones who do home births in general, but the ones who don’t care to see anyone. This makes no sense to me when research has shown that proper medical care is essential to a healthy delivery and newborn. Anyway, for those of you who decline medical help, I just want to know your reasoning and opinions.

Oh, and on a side note, I taught my almost 4 month old how to high five. lol. Now if you hold up your hand and say “give me five” she smacks your hand. lol. So cute!
Do your own thinking. I never agree with your answers BTW. So routine testing didn’t help me to find out I had bad kidney problems and kidney stones while pregnant? And a kidney infection that layed silent with no symptoms that almost caused me to go into preterm labor at 27 weeks? That kind of useless urine test that my doctor did?
I think it’s funny that the people who’s answers I NEVER agree with are the ones saying no doctor care is just peachy. I am glad to see that most of the women on here agree with me and went the safe route. Honestly, why would you risk your baby’s health for ANY reason.
And mystic, I hate the long copy and paste crap you always do. From now on, if you answer one of my questions, please refrain from doing it. I am MORE than capable of looking up my own facts and doing my own research. I really don’t need someone I disagree with doing it for me. Thank you.

Michelle answers:

Yes – I have lost 2 babies, and I threatened loss of my daughter many times.

Right up till I was in labour – without drs care, my daughter would not be here either. She was an emergency section and I was minutes away from losing her. Im so blessed she is here with me.

I dont mean to knock anyone who declines medical attention – but given my past history while pregnant, it would be silly, selfish and irresponsible of me not to seek medical care when pregnant.

Paul asks…

Is it normal for a teenage girl to feel this way?

I’m 14 and I had a dream last night that the school had an outbreak of STD’s and a dramatic increase of teen pregnancy, so everybody was forced to take a pregnancy test. Even though I was a virgin, it somehow came up positive. Well, I thought my dream was rather odd and didn’t think anything of it.

Then throughout the day, I kept thinking about children and I noticed pregnant women and children everywhere I went. Then I was like “I want a baby.” even though I knew I wouldn’t be emotionally or financially stable. [I’m NOT going to have a baby at 14! I’m not stupid enough to bring a child into this world INTENTIONALLY at such a young age.] I realized how silly that must sound coming from a 14 year old and tried to ignore the idea. Well, I realized that while I was on my night time walk, I had my right hand resting on my belly like most pregnant women do.

About 30 minutes ago, while I was on the phone with my friend, I started rubbing my belly and wondered how it felt being pregnant. My sister has a “female problem” [I’m not sure exactly what it’s called] where she has two uteri and the lining has a hard time coming out during her time of the month. It builds up inside her uteri and she can’t conceive. She’s tried invetro and natural pregnancy, but she still can’t keep the baby. I really want to be pregnant and for my sister to have a baby, so I would like to be a surrogate mother. That way she could finally have a baby! Is it normal for me to want to have a baby and be pregnant? Is it possible for me to be a surrogate for my sister in a few years when I’m 16-17?

Michelle answers:

First of all, don’t think you’re stupid for wanting a baby / thinking about having a baby at 14.

Obviously you’re not stupid when you realize that you couldn’t possibly be stable enough to look after a child.

Let me also say that is so sweet of you to think of being a surrogate for your sister, it is a lovely thought.

However, at 16 – 17, it’s not the best idea to carry a child. Plus, the doctors probably wouldn’t make a minor pregnant. Your body is still newly developed and being a teenager still, it’s not the best idea to put your body through an ordeal like pregnancy / birth until later on. (Trust me, I was 16 when I had my child.)

Also, if you do become pregnant with your sister’s baby, considering you’re kind of longing for one right now, it may be very hard for you to give the baby up after carrying it for nine months. Not only that, but your sister may get jealous seeing you with her child (even if you did it out of kindness). I don’t think it’s the best idea as it may create conflict within the family, but if it is the only way for your sister to have a child and you want to within your own terms, do it at an older age, when you’ve finished school and can support yourself being pregnant.

I hope I helped, wait until you’re older. (18 – 25?)

Laura asks…

Has the pill given women a false impression about fertility?

When taking the pill, it is stressed how easily you could become pregnant with just one little slip.

Many women take their pill religiously, worried that a slight mistake or a forgotten pill means a baby will be made.

In actual fact, if you think back to older days, women did have spaces between kids, and if pregnancy was so easily achievable, married couples would have many, many children.

It seems it is nature’s way to prevent women from conceiving immediately and constantly.

So has the pill given us all false hopes of instant families? Should we realise that it does take time, and if we have to wait a few months or years, it is a natural thing?

I am not saying this make it any easier! Just asking if the pill has given us a false impression?

Michelle answers:

YES.

I definately think it gave me false impression, I remember going on the pill at 20 (am now 31) came off it at 29 as my and my husband are now trying to concieve.

I took it on the dot every day as i was so worried id get pregnant, a couple of times a took the morning after pill when i missed my BC just to make sure i was protected! How naieve was I!!!!!! I’ve been off the pill since May 2008 took two months to get my period back and another 2 to become regular, so 5 months or so of actively trying and still not pregnant!!!

Also makes me think i shouldnt have underestimated my abilty to concieve…. I know Ill never go on the pill again…. Ive been so much better with out it too, less moddswings for sure 🙂

Lisa asks…

I have only gained 10lbs and I’m in my 9th month, Is this normal?

I am 9 months pregnant and have only gained 10lbs.When I got pregnant I weighed 97lbs. I currently weigh 107 and I’m due June 25th. I had Thyroid cancer at 19 and hat my whole thyroid removed. I am now on medicine for this that I have to take daily. When I found out I was pregnant I wasn’t taking it as needed. As soon as I found out I was pregnant I started taking my medicine as should. I have always struggled to gain weight. Im a natural skinny woman. I am 5″2 and am 23 years old. My entire family is small but they all gained more weight in their pregnancy‘s. I have spoken with my doctor about this on many occasions but he always reassures me that everything is fine. I really want to believe and trust in my doctor but in the back of my mind something just does not seem right. Any suggestions, answers, opinions would be greatly appreciated.

Michelle answers:

I trust my doctor, if I didn’t I would go nuts with worry.
I didn’t gain weight at the beginning of my pregnancy, I actually lost some.

What I think could be happening to you is that you’re losing the weight but the baby is gaining, so it seems like you’ve only gained 10lbs.

If the doctor says you’re fine, then I would believe him.
Why would he lie to you about that? If he was concerned I think he would put you in some sort of diet to gain more weight.
Next time you see him, tell him that you’re concerned, ask him more questions until you’re satisfied. I know my doctor has longer visits with me because of all my questions, but I believe it’s his job to help me with my worries.

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Your Questions About Natural Ivf Treatment

Donna asks…

problems conceiving?

I’ve had 3 ectopic preg’s i’ve been told i have 50/50 chance of conceiving a natural birth, with only 1 tube left i am waiting for IVF treatment. I still want to try and see if can be successful with the remaining tube but im worried of the outcome do you know anyone who is or have been in a simular position? or anyone who has been successful after having an ectopic pregnacy

Michelle answers:

I had a friend who managed to conceive naturally twice with only one tube. Unfortunately her third pregnancy was ectopic though.

Good luck.

George asks…

Is IVF and other forms of fertility treatments ethical?

This is not a statement about my personal beliefs, just something I was pondering…
Whether you believe in God or in evolution, wouldn’t artificial ways of reproducing go against your personal beliefs?
If you follow the Bible, wouldn’t it be up to Him if and when you conceive? And please don’t try to argue that God gave the doctors the knowledge, because the Bible clearly states that knowledge came into the world when man fell in the Garden of Eden. When Adam and Eve partook of from the tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. (Gen 2:17)
And if you believe in evolution, wouldn’t it go against natural selection?
I’m just curious where others stand on this issue.

Michelle answers:

I’m not sure if I believe in god, but I’m not sure if I believe in evolution either. But either way it would seem that no matter how you slice it ethically it is immoral. I guess there women who would be pissed at this statement, but if you are meant to have a kid, you’ll be able to have and if nature is saying no way, than move on and get over it.

Donald asks…

Should we keep on trying to get pregnant?

It’s been 2 years by natural methods and about 1 year under metformin and 2 months on clomide. We discover that I suffer from PCOS and I don’t ovulate.This next month is our last tray with Clomid because the Doc doesn’t do more than 3 treatments. I’m exhausted and feeling on the way to depression, my husband tells me not to loose my hope, he sees our baby in any little girl, he is dying to have a baby. I want to adopt if the 3rd try doesn’t work, with our own baby or not I still want to adopt, he is not against but sometimes I think he really deserves a fruit of love like that one. Should I just give up…I don’t want to go with IVF and spend all that money, am I selfish for not want to keep on trying?
I just think there is so many kids that need somebody to love them.
If i had the money I would adopt 10 kids!!!

Michelle answers:

The exhaustion is normal. Not fun at all. I admire your love for kids. Trust your doctor. Pray together with your husband. There are miracles that have happened in our world, the here and now, especially regarding your issue. Things can change. Give your faith in God a real test by relaxing and turning it over to your own creator!

Robert asks…

Fertility Treatments?

My friend Sarah has been trying to get pregnant fo about 19 months with no luck.

She has been to the doctor who keeps saying that after 24 months he will look in to putting them on fertility treatment. But, she doesn’t want to go through the gruelling medical treatment and would prefer to go for natural therapies. She has looked in to a few (i don’t know the full details) and so far no luck.

She would like to have twins also (a perk of IVF) incase she has trouble falling pregnant again. Has anyone had any good experiences or know of good fertility treatments that don’t need a prescription?

I feel really bad around her lately as I am pregnant with my second so any good news I could give her would be great!

Michelle answers:

Eating healthy and some herbs can increase fertility. Increasing appetite 200 or 300 calories is also a good thing to do to help her body prepare for pregnancy

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Test

Carol asks…

When to test for pregnancy after a miscarriage ?

I had a natural miscarriage 12 days ago.
I was 5 weeks so there were no complications of anything.
Me and my boyfriend have started trying again yesterday and will continue to do so for another 3 weeks (Just to be sure when I ovulate)

So my question is when should I do a pregnancy test?
(Im showing negative at the moment as Im back to normal with HCG levels)

Michelle answers:

I went through the same thing almost, except i had 1 at 6 weeks and 1 at 7 weeks and had a d&c. I would wait 6 weeks before you test again. Thats what the dr told me. I had a d&c last tuesday and we are already trying again. Alot of people say to wait a couple of months before you try again. But i say stuff them lol. Nah, if you think you are ready, then go for it!!!!!!!!
Good luck

Betty asks…

How long after a miscarriage will a home pregnancy test be accurate?

I was 7 weeks along when I had a miscarriage, everything was natural, no d&c. It has been about 5 weeks since the start of the miscarriage (it lasted about a week) I took 2 home pregnancy tests yesterday and they both came out positive, could this be because my hcg levels are still up from the miscarriage or is it more likely that I am pregnant?

Michelle answers:

I had a miscarriage and it took way over a month for my HCG levels to go down. I had to see the Doc every week for a blood test. When the levels finally went back to normal I had a period three weeks later. Sounds to me like your levels are still up, wait another week and then call your Doc.

Mark asks…

Would pregnancy test come up positive?

I had a natural miscarriage on May 10th. The past week I’ve had a lot of pregnancy symptoms, but pregnancy test is coming up negative. Would it come up positive, it will be 7 weeks post miscarriage Monday; no period yet. I’ve never had regular periods… Please help.

Michelle answers:

When were you expecting your period? I would talk to you doctor because your hormone levels could still be weird from the miscarriage. I had a tubal rupture in October 09 but i was only a week late from my period…

I would definitely go see your doc…good luck

Laura asks…

Does Wondfo pregnancy test strip accurate?

Hey i recently bought a Wondfo pregnancy test strip. Just wondering if its accurate? And the packaging says its for intro vitro use and i m trying to conceive in a natural way.. Is it accurate when the the test is for intro vitro?

Michelle answers:

It doesnt say intro vitro it says in vitro and it just means its meant to be taking it outside of your body (in other words dont shove it up your vajayjay!)
I have heard a lot of people complaining that there were dye bleeds and dbad indents and evaps. If you wait until at least your period is due (therefore your line being pretty dark) they are just as good as any other test. The only problem comes when its super early and you cant tell between a faint BFP and an indent or evap 🙂 GL

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Remedies

Mary asks…

Pelvic Floor Dysfunction cures NEEDED!?

I have pelvic floor dysfunction. I have hernias from lifting too much weight during pregnancy. I also have torn ligaments. This causes intense pain and heaviness. Also I have uterine prolapse because of it. I am healthy. I am a runner. I do kegals and stomach strengthening exercises regularly. I do not eat inflammatory foods. It has been over a year scince these problems started. I have seen many doctors and they have said theres nothing I can do about it. I cannot wear pants because they put too much pressure on my abdomen. I know there have got to be some natural remedies for this. Would a comfrey compress help? Slippery elm? How do I put my abdomen back together? Surgery and proper health care is not an option. Not explaining that because it’s complex but it’s not an option. If you can help, please do!!

Michelle answers:

If you’ve looked and they did not have medical solutions, and ruled out surgery or drug treatment, you will find answers with physiotherapists specialized in pelvic floor dysfunctions.
Many symptoms may be related to pregnancy and load you say you have uploaded in that period.
Abs and pelvic floor have too much in commom. They influence themselves.
What kind of delivery did you do? Depending on the type of delivery, you may also have some symptoms.
I am a physiotherapist in Brazil, but much researching this area.
If you search the web find several clinics specializing in urogynecology.
I hope you success in your search.
Do not give up because of course there to do and if you look in the right place you will find.
Good luck!

PS// I would like to help you.

Joseph asks…

Is Candidiasis(a fungal infection) harmful to a growing fetus? What are the effects?

Any remedy (the natural way,preferably) for this? Some say feminine wash will do it; some say it’s normal during pregnancy. Thanks!

Michelle answers:

See your ob and take whatever meds they suggest, i dont think its ever good for the baby to be exposed to those infections.

Michael asks…

Is Candidiasis(a fungal infection) harmful to a growing fetus? What are the effects?

Any remedy (the natural way,preferably) for this? Some say feminine wash will do it; some say it’s normal during pregnancy. Thanks!

Michelle answers:

Candidiasis is a yeast like fungus. You can use monistat or gynelotrimin to get rid of it. If left untreated, it can change to a pathogen and cause localized or generalized mucocutaneous disease.

Lisa asks…

Herbal remedies to help labor?????

This is my frist pregnancy and I’m 35 weeks along. I know its natural for the first one to be late etc etc but I still want to be aware of the natural herbal teas and capsules available out there that supposedly help your body get ready for labor. I know some women swear by these, some are totally against them. And yes I know that the best decision is telling your doctor. With all that said I want to know from any of you which ones you recommend, the dosage and week to start if you have it, and what they do OR which ones you don’t recommend and why. Thanks!

Michelle answers:

Here’s a link with a list of *safe* ways to get labor going when you are full term… For acupuncture, massage, teas, herbs and homeopathic remedies you should go to a licensed practitioner who has experience treating pregnant women

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Products

George asks…

How do you politely as can be, say no to a very pushy family friend ?

I have a long time family friend that is selling Wildtree products. She is a church patron, a family friend, and long ties related to me through a cousin of a cousin kind of thing. Her mom and my dad are friends. So anyway. She is pushing pushing pushing. First it was Natural Toys then Mary Kay. i was able to skirt that for a long time. NOW its WildTree stuff. Which is obviously a Pyramid scam. I hate that crap and normally would chew out anyone that offered it to me. So anyway I want to be nice and stop this in its tracks right now. Whats the NICEST way to tell her its a scheme, a fraud and I DONT want it. Dont ask again.
I am asking for these suggestions because, I was recently told I am too hormonal due to pregnancy, over active cause I drank coffee, and too abrasive. So I need help.
funny thing is I PLAINLY said no 2 times. She questions me as to why. I have a urge to go through a tirade with charts, and graphs and a marching band as to WHY. Though Shes not getting it. I need a new approach.
thanks Holly at least you get my abrasive humor on occasion though a few times I go overboard.
Is it safe to assume Jm E that your a guy? thanks for the vote of confidence and the suggestions. I a seriously thinking of writing it in the snow with dog pee on her front lawn, but I am turning a new leaf and being nice and cheery for the holidays. No more mistaking me for the pregnant, coffee drinking, baby endangering ogre that some people have painted me as today.

Michelle answers:

If someone is being that pushy, I have no problem getting rude with them and sometimes it is the only way. I feel no need to explain myself or my decisions, I am an adult. You of course have the same rights. You don’t have to explain your decisions on purchasing to anyone. Tell her bluntly, no and if she asks why, tell her you don’t have to explain your decisions to her.
And I wouldn’t say your horomones are taking you over! I am NOT pregnant and still don’t feel as if I should have to explain my decisions to anyone.

Helen asks…

Should a baby born as the result of a botched partial birth abortion be allowed to die by denying care? Obama?

A partial birth abortion is when a woman carries a baby to full term and begins labor or has labor induced prior to a natural delivery during her waning pregnancy. The baby is then actually “partially” born. The doctor/nurse ensures a foot, leg or some body part is still within the birth canal and a doctor inserts a large bore needle into the baby’s skull cavity and sucks out the brain. That exceeds the extreme of rationalization to rely on the technicality that a foot is still within the birth canal so it’s still a fetus and not a baby.

Obama supports partial birth abortion.

The U. S. Supreme Court has yet to hear any cases on the denial of care to a baby born due to a botched abortion where the delivery occurred so quickly, no body part remained in the birth canal and the baby was allowed to die via denial of care. One such case occurred in Illinois where the live baby was simply placed in a medical closet until it died. Prosecutors attempted to bring murder charges against those involved however, the courts dismissed the charges ruling that the baby was the product of a medical mistake during an abortion and could not be considered a human being for the purpose of having the human rights of a person or the constitutional rights of a citizen. The court ruled the baby to be an abortion fetus and thus it was not entitled to life.

The Illinois legislature attempted to pass legislation making the denial of care to babies born via a botched abortion process a crime and Obama voted against that legislation four (4) times.

That is a bizarre rationalization to the extreme in my opinion. What kind of human being can do such a thing to a baby? Answer: Barack Obama

Michelle answers:

Of course not. A baby is a human being wether he/she is wanted or unwanted.

Ruth asks…

Can Phobia of Being Pregnant Stem From Anorexia?

I have such a phobia of being pregnant and having children a natural way, could this irrational fear stem from my Anorexia that I was diagnosed with when I was 11…? I have normal periods now, so I’m guessing I have normal fertility, as my body is recovered, but my mind is far from. I still have a completely IRRATIONAL fear of weightgain, and the thought of the changes my body would undergo while pregnant absolutely drives terror into my heart and mind. No matter who I’m with, no matter how “worth it” some women (who have never experienced the hell of an eating disorder) say it is, I just don’t want to do it. And I’m scared I’m going to be so paranoid when I settle down with a life partner, that I’ll take pregnancy tests practically every time I had sex, I’d break down if I ever accidentally got pregnant, the terror I have of being pregnant could actually drive me to do some pretty terrible things…

The prospect of actual childbirth scares me as well; and I am so heartless towards normally conceived children. I talk about ‘foetuses’ and ’embryo’s’, not babies, I gag whenever I think of childbirth, I don’t view babies as little miracles, only a product of 2 mixed fluids, I don’t see the big massive deals made when a foetus for example, kicks in its mother’s womb…I speak almost with contempt about babies, and I realise that this is NOT. NORMAL. I feel so terrible. And like this anger is almost a defense mechanism.

This fear of pregnancy and having children the natural way has a name doesn’t it…? And can it stem from past Eating Disorders and Depression? (Both of which I’ve had). Thank you. xxx
Also, it doesn’t help that my mother thinks I am unutterably selfish for not wanting biological children and expects me to someday. 🙁

Michelle answers:

Well, generally if one has one irrational belief one is likely to have another. And your feeling about children is pretty normal for a childless person, I know I feel similar.

Donald asks…

Can Phobia of Being Pregnant Stem From Anorexia? (Other Women Who Have Experienced Anorexia…?)?

I have such a phobia of being pregnant and having children a natural way, could this irrational fear stem from my Anorexia that I was diagnosed with when I was 11…? I have normal periods now, so I’m guessing I have normal fertility, as my body is recovered, but my mind is far from. I still have a completely IRRATIONAL fear of weightgain, and the thought of the changes my body would undergo while pregnant absolutely drives terror into my heart and mind. No matter who I’m with, no matter how “worth it” some women (who have never experienced the hell of an eating disorder) say it is, I just don’t want to do it. And I’m scared I’m going to be so paranoid when I settle down with a life partner, that I’ll take pregnancy tests practically every time I had sex, I’d break down if I ever accidentally got pregnant, the terror I have of being pregnant could actually drive me to do some pretty terrible things…

The prospect of actual childbirth scares me as well; and I am so heartless towards normally conceived children. I talk about ‘foetuses’ and ’embryo’s’, not babies, I gag whenever I think of childbirth, I don’t view babies as little miracles, only a product of 2 mixed fluids, I don’t see the big massive deals made when a foetus for example, kicks in its mother’s womb…I speak almost with contempt about babies, and I realise that this is NOT. NORMAL. I feel so terrible. And like this anger is almost a defense mechanism.

This fear of pregnancy and having children the natural way has a name doesn’t it…? And can it stem from past Eating Disorders and Depression? (Both of which I’ve had).

Also, it doesn’t help that my mother thinks I am unutterably selfish for not wanting biological children and expects me to someday. 🙁 xxx

Michelle answers:

It’s called tocophobia, an infamous disorder, not many reasearches about it.
It has an established relation to depression and post-traumatic stress disorders, but eating disorders, not sure, although i remember once reading some freudian analysis about bulimia and mentioned there that it has a possible relation to tocophilia. So, why wouldnt anorexia have relation to tocophobia?

Is this phobia extensive? Like do you hate men too? Because in your case it will make sense if you were lesbian.
If you are not, then there is hope it would wear off with the right man.
You should check your hormonal profile too, most of feminine/masculine emotions have direct relationship to sex hormones. Tocophilia is a feminine trait.

I hope this helped and made sense, i’m sleepy

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Your Questions About Oldest Natural Pregnancy

Lizzie asks…

Is it possible my good posture and natural tendency to hold my stomach in could be hiding pregnancy?

I’m about to turn 26 years old, I’m about 5’4″ and weigh about 125 lbs. I naturally hold my stomach in and stand up straight, and normally even when relaxed, my stomach will only pooch out a little. Lately though it seems whenever I relax my stomach muscles, my belly pops way out like I’m pregnant! For a while I figured it was doing that after I’d finished eating, but it seems to be doing it more and more. I even joked to my husband that I needed to go on a diet because I look pregnant. I don’t think I am because I just had my period, but I’ve also heard of women who have bleeding during pregnancy at first, and that it is normal, especially if its your first.

I went online and looked at pictures of pregnant bellies, and the ones that look closest to mine (when my stomach muscles are relaxed) were about 12 to 16 weeks. But I wasn’t sure if the women in the pictures were relaxing their stomach, holding them in, or what.

So my question is, is it possible that my good posture has me in denial? Has anyone been pregnant and hid it by holding in their stomach? At what point did it not become “holdable” ? I realize that I can buy a home-pregnancy test, but to be honest I’m a little scared and feel like I don’t really want to know. I’m kinda hoping someone will assure me that there is no way I could hold in my stomach enough to hide it, in which case I won’t worry, especially if I have another period next month.

It just freaks me out and wanted to hear what other people say. Thanks.

Michelle answers:

A test is the only way to know.

My mom did not look pregnant with my sister until she was in her final month. My aunt was in her 8th, with twins! I looked pregnant as soon as the test was positive, so everyone is different.

Linda asks…

Natural Miscarriage Stories?

I don’t want to hear.. GO HAVE A D&C because that is my final option and I am avoiding it at all costs.

I am 10 w pregnant and found out 3 days ago my peanut stopped developing at 6w 1d.

I was spotting light pink for 4 days, then yesterday it was a bit of watery brown, then last night some red and some obvious flecks of tissue.. and today is browny red with flecks of tissue, but it’s not enough to come out a lot only a little.

When can I expect this to really get going?

and what can I expect with a 6w old pregnancy? I know they say anything before 8 weeks is usually like a heavy period.
But I am 10 weeks but the pregnancy and fetus are only 6 so will it be lighter than a 10 week miscarriage?
I have a doc’s appointment on thursday

he said before it’s okay to wait a month before needing a d&c unless I show signs of infection

Michelle answers:

First of all i am so sorry for your loss!

This is a missed miscarrige, where it didn’t or hasn’t happened yet. And several weeks pass between the stop of development of the baby and the dicovery the baby has died.
And in vary rare instances a natural misscarrige may not take place.

(they are sometimes called a missed abortion. A misscarrige is called a spontanious abortion, but usally isn’t called that because of the negativity assosiated with the word abortion)

there are pills that can be inserted into the vaginag to help ripen and dialate the cervix.

You are at 10 weeks but the pregnancy is only at 6 week so i would assume that the misscarrige would be the same as if it happened naturally at 6 weeks.

(i am not sayin go get those pills)

but yes it should be lighter then a ten week miscarrige, but will likely be a very heavy period, (and it will probibly seem heavier then it is because of the emotion)
if you are bleeding one pad an hour or more then get into see your ob!

I had a missed m/c carrige at 15 weeks the baby had stopped developing at 11 weeks. (with in a day or 2 after i heard the heart beat for the first time)

my dr. Gave me three options, one eas to let it happen naturally and i has no signs or symptoms of m/c so it may have been a feww more weeks, or to the pills (inserted into the vagina to help induse the misscarrige) and because the baby was 11 weeks along he wasn’t gung ho for that but i still could have decided to, or the d&c, i chose to go with the d&c because i wouldn’t have been able to do the pills and have the baby pass at home…..i know it would be a safer choice then surgery but i know that emotionally i would not have been able to do it at home, i mad the choice of a suction d&c, for my emotional well being, i don’t regret it. And i know that it may cause risks later, but am not mad at my self for doing so.
A side note somthing just seemed different with the pregnancy then with my first, somthing just seemed off.

That was august and my partner and i were lucky, wek became pregnant again in dec, i got my bfp on the 31st of last year and i am now 26 weeks!

Sandra asks…

How soon do you think I could get pregnant?

I have a 4 year old and that pregnancy went great now we had been trying for the last 9 months for a second child. I miscarried at 4 weeks which was last week. I had a natural miscarriage I didn’t need a D & C. We have been trying since tuesday after I stopped spotting. Does anyone have a clue how soon I can conceive again? I have heard that you are very fertile after a miscarriage and thats why we thought we would start trying so soon. My doctor said it was fine to try its just that they might not be able to pin point a due date which I am not at all worried about. Anyone have any opinions?

Michelle answers:

I am so sorry for your loss. I also miscarried recently and my dr said the same thing. We started trying a couple of days after the bleeding stopped but nothing happened. I had my period 4weeks after my miscarriage and we started trying again. My period is due again on Aug 4th and our fingers are crossed that it will not come!

Good luck to you

Daniel asks…

Natural birth vs C-section?

im 11 weeks pregant with twins
this is my second pregnancy (have a 9 month old son)
i had a natural birth with him
i dont know if i should have a c-section or natural birth
i was thinking C-section but now i really dont know

Michelle answers:

My personal opinion is that a C-Section should only be used if necessary, but because you are having twins you have a higher chance of having a C-section anyway, you do what you think is right its your body and your experience so do what makes you happy

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Your Questions About Natural Ivf Cycle

Michael asks…

Hi Everyone – Low progesterone levels??

I am new here and have loads of questions!!! A brief history – My husband and I have been TTC for almost 3 years now – in this time I have conceived twice unfortunately both ending in miscarriages (one on a natural cycle and the second on an IVF cycle). Apparently my progesterone levels were fairly low – has anyone had anything similar? Is there anything they can do to try and prevent this happening again? I thought progesterone injections may be a better option than pessaries? I have relatively bad endo and have recently had a lap & hyst done to remove the endo and cyst from my ovary. They thought this may help but since then I have miscarried. The last 3 years have been very depressing, I wish I could see the light at the end of the tunnel!! I have had 3 IUI, 1 cancelled IVF and 1 failed IVF cycle.

Michelle answers:

Have you talked to anyone online at babycenter.com? There are some awsome boards there with women in the same situation to talk to. Id say go for it and get those injections. Ive heard that can help. Id try anything I could. Good luck
Oldmama2oneson

Lizzie asks…

Is it appropriate to have my daughters wth me during the birth of my son?

Hi, I’m fairly new here on Yahoo Answers.

I’m a 42 year old mother of two daughters with a son on the way. I remarried 3 years ago and my daughters are from a previous marriage. They are 15 and 12. It took me almost 2 years to get pregnant (I ended up conceiving via IVF after 1.5 years of trying naturally). I’m hoping for a birth that is as natural as possible, with my husband present also.

I haven’t actually suggested anything to the girls yet but they are both very involved in my helping me out during my pregnancy, and were of great support during my IVF cycles.

I’m due in January.

Michelle answers:

I think birth is THE most amazing thing a person can ever see.
I was at my youngest sisters water birth. I was 6 and my other sister was 4..I am now 25.
I am Not scarred up lol or traumatized and it’s natural and it’s life!!! We have pictures too!!
I know what will happen during a birth..it was also a good way for my mum to teach us the birds and the bees and when it came to our teenage years it put us OFF having stupid underage sex.
For those people that have answered about asking your girls…i think because of their ages..yes that would be a good idea!
I am SO grateful my mum let us because 4 years ago she died and I now have NO parent to ask about birth,pregnancy and babies! So when i remember the photos and remember her giving birth..it makes me feel stronger and makes me feel very happy that I was there at my sisters birth!
To see it, is THE most amazing thing ever.
If your girls are not too grossed out by seeing their mum, then go for it.
At 15 and 12 it’s an especially good age cos of puberty and sex and the fact that you can say..well if you got pregnant this is what having a baby IS like!
Discuss calmly what will happen, that it’s their choice, that you could do some preperation together and that if they choose not to then that’s fine.
Go for it! Experience is the best way to learn! If they have already been invlolved with the pregnancy then they may well feel very honoured to be asked!!

Linda asks…

Regarding infertility and chances of conception with low sperm count?

Hi all, I am my wife are trying to conceive since 2 years ..My analysis told that i have a very low sperm count that is only 1 million per ml..We were told to start an ivf cycle this month..but my wife did not have her periods yet..It was past 3 days of her actual period.My question is are there any chances of natural conception with such a poor sperm count also?Pl reply..

Michelle answers:

I had a known donor who had the same count. We went through IUI (intrauterine insemination putting the sperm at its final destination) and only had about a 5% chance. After finding out his count was so low we did one failed IUI with his sperm and switched to frozen donor sperm (that way our chances are average or better). I would say chances of concieving naturally for the two of you are slim to none. Go with the IVF treatment its your best option! GOOD LUCK

Thomas asks…

IUI#6, clomid, donor sperm and baaad attitude…should i move onto IVF?

24 years old, no known fertility issues. HSG came back great. 3 natural cycles (which was a huge waste of money…for anyone using donor sperm) and 3 with lowest does of clomid and HCG shot. im in the 2ww now, currently 8dp my 6th iui. get an average of 2 nice eggies every time. Dr’s wont increase dose of clomid or anything for that matter. maybe those bastards are shootin blanks in me?? whattya think? time to move onto IVF?? i am extremely impatient and hubby aint gettin any younger….might kill the next person that says “relax and itll happen.”

Michelle answers:

I completely agree that hes wasting my time, ive only ever met the guy twice (he is an RE) and ive been tossed between nurses for the last six months. I dont think ive had the same chick crank me open yet!! Grrrr!!! Lol, dont even get me started on how little they act like they care about you…ugh. My hubby is older, and has had a vasectomy for longer than 12 yrs sooo idk if i wanta spend the money to fix his balls. (sorry im so frank, but im pretty much done with all this bullshit). Im on clomid to make more eggies but i do ovulate on my own, im so friggin regular its scray…i think thats part of why im so pissed about the whole thing.why isnt this working?! Is it me or them?! Im healthy, my periods are regular, im responding well to clomid and the HCG trigger ( i guess, cuz they refuse to test to make sure id did actually ovulate). Id be happy to change RE’s but i live in VT and eeeeverything is like an hr or more away, lol, pretty rural farm country up here. Idk, but if this cycle is a bust im deff gonna push the IVF thing or switch RE’s (but at this point ill prolly go with IVF since theyve wasted enough of my time and emotional health, its easier for me to rant and rave than it is to let the sadness take over), they hava shared risk program i can get into. Its baby or bust people!! I honestly do not care if i havta sell my house to make this happen! I am a woman on a mission! Whew. Thanks for the vent and awesome comments!!

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Daniel asks…

Why would the working American vote for someone that will take more money from their paycheck in new taxes?

SIMPLE MATH: 2008 PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE COMPARISON TALKING POINTS ISSUE JOHN McCAIN BARAK OBAMA
Favors new drilling offshore US Yes No
Will appoint judges who interpret the law not make it Yes No

Served in the US Armed Forces Yes No
Amount of time served in the US Senate 22 YEARS 173 DAYS
Will institute a socialized national health care plan No Yes
Supports abortion throughout the pregnancy No Yes
Would pull troops out of Iraq immediately No Yes
Supports gun ownership rights Yes No
Supports homosexual marriage No Yes
Proposed programs will mean a huge tax increase No Yes
Voted against making English the official language No Yes
Voted to give Social Security benefits to illegal’s No Yes
CAPITAL GAINS TAX
MCCAIN 0% on home sales up to $500,000 per home (couples). McCain does not propose any change in existing home sales income tax.
OBAMA 28% on profit from ALL home sales. (How does this affect you? If you sell your home and make a profit, you will pay 28% of your gain on taxes. If you are heading toward retirement and would like to down-size your home or move into a retirement community, 28% of the money you make from your home will go to taxes. This proposal will adversely affect the elderly who are counting on the income from their homes as part of their retirement income.)
DIVIDEND TAX
MCCAIN 15% (no change)
OBAMA 39.6% – (How will this affect you? If you have any money invested in stock market, IRA, mutual funds, 401 accounts, college funds, life insurance, retirement accounts, or anything that pays or reinvests dividends, you will now be paying nearly 40% of the money earned on taxes if Obama becomes president. The experts predict that ‘Higher tax rates on dividends and capital gains would crash the stock market, yet do absolutely nothing to cut the deficit.’)
INCOME TAX
MCCAIN (no changes) Single making 30K – tax $4,500
Single making 50K – tax $12,500
Single making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 60K- tax $9,000
Married making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 125K – tax $31,250
OBAMA (reversion to pre-Bush tax cuts) Single making 30K – tax $8,400
Single making 50K – tax $14,000
Single making 75K – tax $23,250
Married making 60K – tax $16,800
Married making 75K – tax $21,000
Married making 125K – tax $38,750
Under Obama, your taxes could almost double!
INHERITANCE TAX
MCCAIN – 0% (No change, Bush repealed this tax)
OBAMA Restore the inheritance tax Many families have lost businesses, farms, ranches, and homes that have been in their families for generations because they could not afford the inheritance tax. Those willing their assets to loved ones will only lose them to these taxes.
NEW TAXES PROPOSED BY OBAMA
New government taxes proposed on homes that are more than 2400 square feet. New gasoline taxes (as if gas weren’t high enough already) New taxes on natural resources consumption (heating gas, water, electricity) New taxes on retirement accounts, and last but not least….New taxes to pay for socialized medicine so we can receive the same level of medical care as other third-world countries!!!

You can verify the above at the following web sites:
http://money.cnn.com/news/specials/election/2008/index.html http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2008/issues/issues.taxes.html

http://elections.foxnews.com/?s=proposed+taxes http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourworld/politics/articles/mccain_obama_offer_different_visions_on_taxes.html

http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/barack_obama/ http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/john_mccain/

feels so good =typical dem if we pay more the government will do the next right thing with our money or if we give em more everything will be fine,I guess you feel you are not inteligent enough to mannage your own money
Kate I am so glad you hate hate radio,lol
kate m also the dems never lie to the american public,oops it depends on the question
lot of educated answers here and as always some no brain answers,from those who think if we give our earned income away the powers that be will pay their bills and make us all live in an eutopian society,Yea Rite,why don’t you think you can handle your own money better than government,no dis-respect to the mentally incapacitated.
when shall we learn from history,ex.=” tax put on phones to fund Spanish -American war” DUH

Michelle answers:

Higher taxes won’t fix our economy. What is Obama thinking?

@lolipop597
Actually, we only have the 37th best health care system in the world. France currently has the best.

Betty asks…

Urgent! Which candidate do you support?

2008 PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE COMPARISON
ISSUE JOHN McCAIN BARAK OBAMA

The first answer is McCain the second answer is Obama. Please support the canidate you answer more yes to than no. Thanks Just don’t listen to Fox or CNN or people with the loudest voice. Know the canidate… here is how!.

Favors new drilling offshore US Yes No
Will appoint judges who interpret the law not make it Yes No

Served in the US Armed Forces Yes No
Amount of time served in the US Senate 22 YEARS 173 DAYS
Will institute a socialized national health care plan No Yes
Supports abortion throughout the pregnancy No Yes
Would pull troops out of Iraq immediately No Yes
Supports gun ownership rights Yes No
Supports homosexual marriage No Yes
Proposed programs will mean a huge tax increase No Yes
Voted against making English the official language No Yes
Voted to give Social Security benefits to illegals No Yes
CAPITAL GAINS TAX
MCCAIN 0% on home sales up to $500,000 per home (couples). McCain does not propose any change in existing home sales income tax.
OBAMA 28% on profit from ALL home sales. (How does this affect you? If you sell your home and make a profit, you will pay 28% of your gain on taxes. If you are heading toward retirement and would like to down-size your home or move into a retirement community, 28% of the money you make from your home will go to taxes. This proposal will adversely affect the elderly who are counting on the income from their homes as part of their retirement income.)
DIVIDEND TAX
MCCAIN 15% (no change)
OBAMA 39.6% – (How will this affect you? If you have any money invested in stock market, IRA, mutual funds, college funds, life insurance, retirement accounts, or anything that pays or reinvests dividends, you will now be paying nearly 40% of the money earned on taxes if Obama becomes president. The experts predict that ‘Higher tax rates on dividends and capital gains would crash the stock market, yet do absolutely nothing to cut the deficit.’)
INCOME TAX
MCCAIN
(no changes) Single making 30K – tax $4,500
Single making 50K – tax $12,500
Single making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 60K- tax $9,000
Married making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 125K – tax $31,250
OBAMA (reversion to pre-Bush tax cuts) Single making 30K – tax $8,400
Single making 50K – tax $14,000
Single making 75K – tax $23,250
Married making 60K – tax $16,800
Married making 75K – tax $21,000
Married making 125K – tax $38,750
Under Obama, your taxes could almost double!
INHERITANCE TAX
MCCAIN – 0% (No change, Bush repealed this tax)
OBAMA Restore the inheritance tax
Many families have lost businesses, farms, ranches, and homes that have been in their families for generations because they could not afford the inheritance tax. Those willing their assets to loved ones will only lose them to these taxes.
NEW TAXES PROPOSED BY OBAMA
New government taxes proposed on homes that are more than 2400 square feet. New gasoline taxes (as if gas weren’t high enough already) New taxes on natural resources consumption (heating gas, water, electricity) New taxes on retirement accounts, and last but not least….New taxes to pay for socialized medicine so we can receive the same level of medical care as other third-world countries!!!

You can verify the above at the following web sites:

http://money.cnn.com/news/specials/elect…
http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2008/issues/…

http://elections.foxnews.com/?s=proposed…
http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourworld/polit…

http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-chec…
http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-chec…

Michelle answers:

McCain/Palin, of course.

I’ve studied all of this and there is no doubt in my mind as to who TRULY stands for change and who will put into place his Marxist ideals and drain the resources of the small business person and tax payer!

Lisa asks…

Obama says he will cut the Bush Tax cuts for the poor, have you really thought how bad that is?

2008 PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE COMPARISON
TALKING POINTS
ISSUE JOHN McCAIN BARAK OBAMA
Favors new drilling offshore US Yes No, but might consider
Will appoint judges who interpret the law not make it Yes No
Served in the US Armed Forces Yes No
Amount of time served in the US Senate 22 YEARS 143 DAYS
Will institute a socialized national health care plan No Yes
Supports abortion throughout the pregnancy No Yes
Would seek to pull troops out of Iraq immediately No Yes
Supports gun ownership rights Yes No

Proposed programs will mean a huge tax increase No Yes
Voted against making English the official language No Yes
Voted to give Social Security benefits to illegal aliens No Yes
CAPITAL GAINS TAX
MCCAIN 0% on home sales up to $500,000 per home (couples). McCain does not propose any change in existing home sales income tax.
OBAMA 28% on profit from ALL home sales.
(How does this affect you? If you sell your home and make a profit, you will pay 28% of your gain on taxes. If you are heading toward retirement and would like to down-size your home or move into a retirement community, 28% of the money you make from your home will go to taxes. This proposal will adversely affect the elderly who are counting on the income from their homes as part of their retirement income.)
DIVIDEND TAX
MCCAIN 15% (no change)
OBAMA 39.6%
(How will this affect you? If you have any money invested in stock market, IRA, mutual funds, college funds, life insurance, retirement accounts, or anything that pays or reinvests dividends, you will now be paying=2 0nearly 40% of the money earned on taxes if Obama becomes president. The experts predict that ‘Higher tax rates on dividends and capital gains would crash the stock market, yet do absolutely nothing to cut the deficit.’)

INCOME TAX
MCCAIN
(no changes) Single making 30K – tax $4,500
Single making 50K – tax $12,500
Single making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 60K- tax $9,000
Married making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 125K – tax $31,250
OBAMA (reversion to pre-Bush tax cuts) Single making 30K – tax $8,400
Single making 50K – tax $14,000
Single making 75K – tax $23,250
Married making 60K – tax $16,800
Married making 75K – tax $21,000
Married making 125K – tax $38,750
INHERITANCE TAX
MCCAIN – 0% (No change, Bush repealed this tax)
OBAMA Restore the inheritance tax – Many families have lost businesses, farms, ranches, and homes that have been in their families for generations because they could not afford the inheritance tax. Those willing their assets to loved ones will only lose them to these taxes.
NEW TAXES PROPOSED BY OBAMA
New government taxes proposed on homes that are more than 2400 square feet.
New gasoline taxes.
New taxes on natural resources consumption (heating gas, water, electricity)
New taxes on retirement accounts.
New taxes to pay for socialized medicine.

You can verify the above at the following web sites:
http://money.cnn.com/news/specials/election/2008/index.html
http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2008/issues/issues.taxes.html
http://elections.foxnews.com/?s=proposed+taxes
http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourworld/politics/articles/mccain_obama_offer_different_visions_on_taxes.html
http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/barack_obama/
http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/john_mccain/

you are in denial that the sources listed show Obama really did read this stuff off the telepromter? wow 1st step–admit you have an addiction 2nd st..
Tax cut to 95% of the people changed to 95% of the working people and now it has CHANGED to those that do community service, military or work, at the speed you countered the truth you didnt check the sources that Obama read from the telepromter–Obama cant beleive what he has been reading,
the truth is before your eyes and you deny it, you people are sad, I hope Obama does win so you can see what por is, I worked for a living so I can watch you grovel like beggers and fight for a crumb of bread–I havent been turned in yet for the truth,,,, the Obamaidiots must be in shock and awe from what Obama read from the telepromter
the reason you dont see reference to middle class is because middle class is a Socialist term–actually is middle/peasant class when it was originally defined by Karl Marx

there was a greater number of trained professional before the Clinton era but they got wiped out by taxes

Michelle answers:

I am in total agreement with you, most Pro-Obama people seem to completely overlook these statements by him. Heck there are some who were asked who they were voting for? When they said Obama, they were asked questions like “Do you think that Sarah Palin was a good chose on Obama’s part?” & “do you agree with Obama being Pro-Life or because he thinks our troops should stay in Iraq and finish this war?” They were in 100% agreement with Obama, and his choses. LOL They didn’t even realize that those were all of Mccain’s views and polices.

George asks…

WHICH ONE? McCain or Obama?

2008 PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE COMPARISON
ISSUEJOHN McCAIN BARAK OBAMA
First answer is McCain the second is Obama
Favors new drilling offshore US Yes No
Will appoint judges who interpret the law not make it Yes No

Served in the US Armed Forces Yes No
Amount of time served in the US Senate 22 YEARS 173 DAYS
Will institute a socialized national health care plan No Yes
Supports abortion throughout the pregnancy No Yes
Would pull troops out of Iraq immediately No Yes
Supports gun ownership rights Yes No
Supports homosexual marriage No Yes
Proposed programs will mean a huge tax increase No Yes
Voted against making English the official language No Yes
Voted to give Social Security benefits to illegals No Yes
CAPITAL GAINS TAX
MCCAIN 0% on home sales up to $500,000 per home (couples). McCain does not propose any change in existing home sales income tax.
OBAMA 28% on profit from ALL home sales. (How does this affect you? If you sell your home and make a profit, you will pay 28% of your gain on taxes. If you are heading toward retirement and would like to down-size your home or move into a retirement community, 28% of the money you make from your home will go to taxes. This proposal will adversely affect the elderly who are counting on the income from their homes as part of their retirement income.)
DIVIDEND TAX
MCCAIN 15% (no change)
OBAMA 39.6% – (How will this affect you? If you have any money invested in stock market, IRA, mutual funds, college funds, life insurance, retirement accounts, or anything that pays or reinvests dividends, you will now be paying nearly 40% of the money earned on taxes if Obama becomes president. The experts predict that ‘Higher tax rates on dividends and capital gains would crash the stock market, yet do absolutely nothing to cut the deficit.’)
INCOME TAX
MCCAIN
(no changes) Single making 30K – tax $4,500
Single making 50K – tax $12,500
Single making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 60K- tax $9,000
Married making 75K – tax $18,750
Married making 125K – tax $31,250
OBAMA (reversion to pre-Bush tax cuts) Single making 30K – tax $8,400
Single making 50K – tax $14,000
Single making 75K – tax $23,250
Married making 60K – tax $16,800
Married making 75K – tax $21,000
Married making 125K – tax $38,750
Under Obama, your taxes could almost double!
INHERITANCE TAX
MCCAIN – 0% (No change, Bush repealed this tax)
OBAMA Restore the inheritance tax
Many families have lost businesses, farms, ranches, and homes that have been in their families for generations because they could not afford the inheritance tax. Those willing their assets to loved ones will only lose them to these taxes.
NEW TAXES PROPOSED BY OBAMA
New government taxes proposed on homes that are more than 2400 square feet. New gasoline taxes (as if gas weren’t high enough already) New taxes on natural resources consumption (heating gas, water, electricity) New taxes on retirement accounts, and last but not least….New taxes to pay for socialized medicine so we can receive the same level of medical care as other third-world countries!!!

You can verify the above at the following web sites:

http://money.cnn.com/news/specials/election/2008/index.html
http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2008/issues/issues.taxes.html

http://elections.foxnews.com/?s=proposed+taxes
http://bulletin.aarp.org/yourworld/politics/articles/mccain_obama_offer_different_visions_on_taxes.html

http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/barack_obama/
http://blog.washingtonpost.com/fact-checker/candidates/john_mccain/

Michelle answers:

I’M FOR MCCAIN

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Your Questions About Natural Pregnancy Remedies

Maria asks…

Is Blistex cream for cold sores safe during pregnancy?

I’m almost 15 weeks pregnant and have a cold sore and was just wondering whether or not Blistex healing cream is okay to use as it is the only thing that works for me. If not, is there any other safe treatments out there that I could use or natural remedies?

Michelle answers:

Common your apply it to the external part of your body

George asks…

How to cure hayfever in pregnancy without medicines?

Hi, I don’t want to use any medicine during pregnancy as I don’t want to take any chances this time, not even paracetamol.

But, since I’ve entered the second trimester (I’m now 14 weeks) my nose has been constantly stuffy, on top of that I have developed hayfever (something I have never ever suffered from before), eyes are so sore sometimes, and nose is constantly runny and I’m sneezing all the time! It’s so annoying!

Are there any natural remedies I can do/use to help cure this? I’m eating menthol sweets/lockets at the moment as that helps it for a while, but it’s not great.

Thanks…

Michelle answers:

You can use steam. You can use saline spray for your nose. Shower a lot. Use a mask outside and close your windows.

My pharm recommended that I can use something for a cough to reduce irritation when I was preg with allergies but NO OTC medicine other than that was recommended (as your pharm).

I have horrible hayfever and have gone into anaphlactic shock this season over the hay in the air combined with eating stone fruits. I used an albuterol inhaler and benadryl to overcome the effects so I didn’t have to go to the hospital. So for you, avoid any stone fruits as the molecule in them and in hay are shaped the same. You may want to avoid cucumbers melons apples and avocados too. Those are allergy inducers (can be associated w/latex allergy which I have).

If you get into serious trouble just remember what they tell you when you fly on a plane to the mothers: put your own mask on before you put your kids’ on. That advice to you applies here. Take care of your self first because there will be no baby if you don’t put health first.

Sharon asks…

Signs of PMS/Pregnancy, but No Period Yet?

This is bizarre. I really don’t think I’m pregnant, but I’m showing a lot of weird signs right now. I stopped the pill a couple of months ago because it was making me fat, and crazy. But I was supposed to start my period on the 13th, and the week before I was getting some spotting.

If my calculations are right, I had sex 4 days after I was supposed to be ovulating so I don’t think it could have done anything. But since the day I was supposed to start I’ve been getting some cramping, not exactly like period cramps, but almost like an over worked muscle like the morning after going to the gym. I’ve also been kind of constipated, so on the 14th I took my natural remedy for constipation “cap full of olive oil, and lots of water WORKS LIKE A CHARM”, and all my constipation is gone.

But the thing thats weird is, I’m exhausted, been getting really weird dreams, I’m nauseous on and off,I’m gasy , and my boobs are hard as rock. Also, I am SO frisky, I can’t keep my hands off my boyfriend *well more than usual*… My stomach still is crampy but nothing is happening…

Also, I took a pee pregnancy test at the sexual health clinic, and it was negative. What am wondering if any other woman have gotten this? Is this normal for women who aren’t on the pill? I’ve had so many pregnancy scares that I doubt this is pregnancy. But I’m not sure. At what point are pee test 100% accurate? I got one on the 6th? Anyone want to share their experiences that would be great!?

Michelle answers:

I am going through the same thing, I called my doctor and since I am 10 days late for my period and have negative pregnancy tests, he recommended an ultrasound to check for pregnancy or cysts ect… So call your doctor and make an appointment.

Donna asks…

I have PUPPS! It’s killing me!?

I was diagnosed with PUPPS. A rash occurring during pregnancy (normally diagnosed during the last trimester). I am 30 weeks pregnant and it’s killing me. Benydryl knocks me out, and I have a 20 month old daughter to take care of… Any suggestions or sites that will help you with natural remedies to boot it out the door. I’ve bought dandelion root and soaps but need to see if something else will help….

Michelle answers:

You poor thing!! I had PUPPS from 36 weeks to 41 weeks when I was pregnant with my son! It was seriously the most miserable part of my pregnancy so I feel terrible for you that you got it so early! I found that aloe vera really helped me. And I also showered a couple times a day with cold water and used a mild soap with aloe in it. Definitely take tylenol for the swelling and if you can, take the benadryl at night! I would wake up to myself scratching unconciously (which of course flaired it up worse) so avoid scratching as much as you can! But I pretty much treated it like a sunburn, so keep it cold with ice packs or ice! But most of all, keep busy so that you aren’t thinking about how bad it itches and hurts! Mine went away right after my son was born, so I promise you won’t always feel this miserable!

Good luck to you and congrats on your pregnancy

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